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Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Created by kevin32
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
A woman who gives her body away free and is then rejected cannot admit that she lost something of value, because it would make her the weak and stupid one. And that might mean something drastic like gasp changing her lifestyle and habits.
Many younger women are [re]discovering, in real time, why virginity is not just a construct, but something valuable that cannot be recovered once lost.
Heaviuh_Things 2w ago
That vocal fry almost put me off...
Their "go to therapy!" seems to be the female equivalent of "go lift, bro!", but not nearly as good as a piece of advice.
How to plan a first date, according to her..."you must like to do what the woman also likes to do on a first date...which is eating for free" (except that the guy is never eating for free). Genius.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 2w ago
Actually, it's 180 the opposite. Go to therapy is meant as an insult. That you're the one who has mental problems that would make you unable to be the IdealMan as defined by her, and that they're so bad that you need professional help.
On the other hand, most guys who say "go lift, bro!" are giving you a piece of advice that, though generic, is actually meant to help you.
The tell is by responding with a followup question. If a woman says go to therapy and you say "Hey, I'm considering taking your advice. What therapists do you have in mind?" She'll be speechless and dismiss you. Because it was never advice in the first place, just an insult. OTOH, a guy who tells you that, ask him "How do you suggest I start?" And you'll probably get a half hour intro on the best exercises to start with, maybe which youtube channels have good instructional videos, etc. IOW, it was genuine advice.
Heaviuh_Things 1w ago
Some men do use "go lift, bro!" in a similar non-constructive way, though.
JudgeSmales Jr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
Vocal fry has become so common, I even hear men using it.
I recently asked Grok "When did this annoying vocal fry become so widespread." Instead of answering a direct question, it gave me a medical lesson on the throat mechanics of vocal fry and then -- get this -- tsk-tsked me for calling it "annoying." So, I guess Grok AI is programmed by teenage girls.
Heaviuh_Things 1w ago
By their step (or sugar) daddies, more likely.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
Public service message: If you enjoy the content, please consider posting this link to the Reddit version of WAATGM since I cannot. It drives more traffic to this site, such as myself, and that's how the content creation happens. Please do your part: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlC5DEp2EOQ
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2w ago
First video: no, u go get some therapy.
second video: there's a nugget of wisdom within her rambling. If you even bother with "dates", make it something you'd still do even if she didn't show up.
PK - why did you include the second video? The first video fits great for weekend material, flaired the way you flaired it. The second video really doesn't fit well.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
tu quoque
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
I think the 2nd video neatly explains the first: She wants men who enjoy being what she demands them to be, in her case, an ATM machine who pays for food. The men who meet her demands get sex after a month or so and then slowly realize they don't need her around anymore. These men may not even be aware of what they're doing so, in a way, she has a point. Or maybe this guy played her and she's not going to realize it because the therapist won't dare tell her to her face.
Heaviuh_Things 2w ago
Hey Polish, why don't you become a Kevin Samuel of some sort? You might be able to help some of these women out.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
My main girl I'm working on raising is my daughter. She's 10 and says silly things (like she doesn't want to be successful but have a K-pop career). In some ways, that's at least less worrisome than if she was some aspiring career gal arguing she "didn't need no man" or thinking she was going to marry a rich guy. We have daddy-daughter reading dates and go out to movies together. Instead of working over the summer, or attending some BS internship, I have a reading list for her and she gets $100/book. Heck, I'll put this out there: Any ideas?
I think Game and Lady by Roosh would be great in that she'd not only see through PUA's and the BS of being a lady-in-waiting but also learn basic social skills both personally and in business. I want her to be responsible for her own life.
There's Scott Adam's books I think have a lot of good wisdom on persuasion in them.
I'm going to tell her that if she wants to work as a prostitute, I'd rather her do that than be an attention or meal whore. I'll tell the boys she's dating: I'M paying for the date. I'll issue a credit card and she'll pay for the date with it.
This might make an interesting thread: If you have a daughter, how do you raise her red pilled to be a good woman, wife, and human being? A net asset to western civilization?
Heaviuh_Things 1w ago
Interesting. What sort of books do you have in mind, besides Roosh and Adam? Perhaps I could throw in a few suggestions.
It would be an interesting thread! Overall, I think that a community makes or breaks a woman. Education at home can only achieve so much, if you ask me....do you think your daughter is at least on a good path to emulating her mother? Or is that not red-pilled enough these days?
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
Yeah I think she is right. Therapy might help -her. He seems to have made the right choice.
So really she is angry with him because he realised he couldn't meet her needs. She is not angry with herself for being too demanding or needy. Lesson here gentleman is that its very rarely about you, rather its about what you can do for her.
Second video is better. She is not entirely wrong but life contains a lot of compromise. I have never really liked eating out but I have bought my ladies a fair few meals out over the years because they loved it. Similarly women put on makeup and nice clothes to impress a man on a first date and they seem a lot keener to impress with sex in the first year than later on. Yes it is good not to fake it but it is also good to be a bit giving and to be grateful when you are given.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
I think that line was a gentle rejection and ironically came across as implying she was too needy for him. Also, it's astonishing that she said he was 48 and upset about him moving on. There must be a story there. Maybe the guy was loaded.
Regarding putting on makeup or nice clothes for a first date to "impress" the man. I appreciate that, I really do, in that a man should also do his best to look nice and clip our fingernails, polish the shoes, and have a fresh belt (those are the top 3 things they look at!) Oh! And trim nose hairs and eyebrows!!!
Don't ask how I know. OK, I'll tell you: My wife nags about those all the time.
I had an interesting rumination on your remark in that women who justify men paying for dates because "she put on makeup" invites the argument that ONLY men that give her something deserve to see her at her best, so to speak, while in the past women out in public looked good for ALL men.
So consider why getting all offended at "catcalling" went crazy over the past few decades: Maybe... it was because normal working men are effectively "stealing" gazes and interaction with her when that's reserved only for the men who provide for her. That normal men are serfs unworthy to interact with her.
This means perhaps a century ago, women's fashions were driven by the male gaze even if indirectly. Fashion wouldn't be presented to women if it didn't meet the male gaze.
Around Y2K, fashion as we know it largely died. There's still fashion shows and such, but our society no longer has a cohesive fashion sense spread across designers. Designers make money from women wanting to buy a knockoff red-carpet outfit, but not to stay aligned with a fashion. I can recognize 1990's fashions versus 1980's and so on.
Modern women's fashions are now driven apart from the male gaze such as long nails, chandelier breast tattoos, collagen injected lips, botox, and so on. When they leave the house it's not to be pretty for men overall, but to impress other women.
Consider this ties into the 2nd video: Sure, she gets lots of attention from her videos but ironically women are not impressed by them. She's having to pander to icky men after all. I betcha she finds putting on makeup regularly to be as much a chore as she may view sex.
Heaviuh_Things 2w ago
Pity if true. Hers is really the kind of bland face that would benefit from makeup the most.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
I think this is a perfect example that women cannot take an L. Men get turned down all the time and deal with it. She was friend zoned and not happy about it.
JudgeSmales Jr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
Of course she automatically leaps to "get therapy, loser!." Confession by projection. She just couldn't process that he could make a clean break without hysterics. Even if he was bummed, he would just deal with it, as you pointed out. It seems only women default to inviting a stranger (therapist) into the mix. Essentially paying someone to tell her she's right and protect her fragile ego from taking an L.
Heaviuh_Things 2w ago
Exactly that.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2w ago
I bet you she's never put as much passion into any of her relationships as she just put into battering that little camera.