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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1mo ago Stickied
For those following along:
Normally we want only posts from the woman's perspective at WAATGM, but this particular one is different and interesting.
That, and OP does have mod privilege.
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1mo ago
I can't really take the complaints of any man seriously that agrees to list themselve on a platfrom called 'certified millionaires'. Jesus. Why would any man do that?
Like wtf.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1mo ago
1) skirting close to a rule 1 violation there, buddy
2) because men who are still plugged in think leading with the wallet is a good idea. I was guilty of that when I was young, even though I was poor.
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1mo ago
I'm not surprised that you 'were guilty of that' when you were poor. It's a classic. When you dont have money, you think that money will resolve everything. It takes getting money to realise that it doesn't solve much at all, except bills.
Lots of guys think their issues with women would go away, if they were only taller, more ripped and richer. Truth is, it changes very little.
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1mo ago
sure, warning taken.
I'm not shitting on those guys, but really and honestly, putting yourself on a platform, listing yourself as a 'certified millionaire' ....who on earth did you think was going to show up other than gold diggers?
We all did stupid things when we were younger, esp in relation to women. We were not born knowing what we know now.
DaddyHarem 1mo ago
I mean i mostly just complain about quality but not quantity. There's too many but they all suck and so basically its like they are exactly the same. Yawn another girl who wants to be with me who totally sucks in essentially every way.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1mo ago
This is an edited series of screenshots over time.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
Its interesting and slightly heart warming to see that they are frustrated by hypergamy but I can't feel too much regret for them. They are after all freely choosing to get themselves certified as millionaires (however they do that) in order to attract gold diggers. Sugar attracts flies, who would have thought?
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1mo ago Stickied
Edit out the man-shaming language, or this comment will be removed due to rule 1.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
The thing is, it comes out eventually.
I can understand their mindset on this. If you have a pile that you've built up over the years it gets reflected somewhere. You may not have the fancy car or even the fancy house, but your spending does reflect your ability to pay for it.
It may be in small things, but women pick that shit up quickly. So honestly it doesn't matter if they went and self-certified they have ample resources, that gets exposed through the cumulative actions of where they go to eat, how they decide to solve things that require money, etc...
The men here are just front-running it all and just seeing what they can find. It will be frustrating for sure, like anything involving women in this era.
I wish them the best, its pretty rough out there.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1mo ago
They go through a certification process of sending their asset declarations to the site's management. I did that a few years ago.
I can't blame them for wanting to get the best results possible, especially if they have the means and they're honest. Some of them are doctors or business owners.
I can understand me not attracting people-- despite all of my positive qualities, I'm a terrible and ugly son of a bitch, or so the ladies say-- but I don't understand why better men than me need to have a hard time.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1mo ago
I'm thinking that if I need to, or perhaps I should have my wife start a business like this, is a masculine focused dating agency: Vet out the women, ask them questions about their motives and look for wording they use to indicate whether they've got mental issues, set reasonable dating standards (no dinner dates, activity dates only), and so on.
Absolutely lead that these are all professional men and/or men with good jobs, healthy, and vetted themselves. Wealthy men mixed in with normal but hard working and decent men. Match the women with normal looking men first, perhaps even a doctor, but they don't get to know his profession, and see how they behave. If she's a miserable ho, quietly "manage" her out. Of course, bad men would be quietly managed out as well.
I could even have her set tiers such as hot and/or professional tier men would be available to the professional women but at a premium. Guaranteed six footers, doctors, the works but SHE pays $1,000 per date. The doctor will pay for the date as well, but I'd front him the cash to pay for it so he doesn't feel foodie-call used.
Hmmm, wish my wife luck. She's in the final rounds of a dream job but if it doesn't pan out, we ought to do this.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1mo ago
I don't see that service doing very well
But who knows?
NPC070201 1mo ago
Just because they may be more visually appealing, that does not make them 'better' then you, friend. After reading through many of your comments, I'd guess that you're a pretty good dude. Just my two cents.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1mo ago
Thanks-- but never in my life did I truthfully consider myself to be a bad-looking person. I always thought, in terms of looks, I was somewhere in the middle. If I had a chance to change something about my appearance, I honestly don't know what I would change, which makes me think I probably don't need to change much of anything.
It wasn't until I moved overseas that women would remark on how attractive my eyes and teeth were. I always knew I had good eyes and good teeth, but women in the US won't comment when something looks good about you. They are happy to tell you that you look like a dork in that hat, however.
I suspect there's something cultural about it. If you're a non-native English speaker who speaks excellent, flawless, unaccented English, no one in the US will notice it. And if you speak English poorly, it frustrates the hell out of a lot of Americans; you get absolutely zero credit for spending years to become fluent in English. In Japan, even if you butcher their language, they applaud and tell you you're doing a great job; if you speak Japanese too well, they find that a little uncomfortable. You're always a foreigner to them, no matter what you say or do. The sharp fluent foreigners in Japan might even throw-in an intentional mistake once in a while, just to put people at ease.
That's not a perfect analogy, of course.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
Were you looking for a lady when you signed up to the site? Since its been a few years, what are your experiences with the concept of this site?
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1mo ago
He's been married for several years, and is just there to get laughs and material for this forum
Please correct me if I'm wrong, @Land_of_the_losers
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1mo ago
That's correct. I check it out when I have sufficient time and boredom.
Ronaldraygun77 1mo ago
Leading with your wallet will always attract gold-diggers, no one is surprised here.
If you’re an unattractive beta schlub before money, getting rich will just make you a massive schlub.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1mo ago
Are these the millionaires? It looks like men only is the tab highlighted and not the millionaires tab?
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1mo ago
It's the men-only chat, you need a membership to use the chat. I'm pretty certain the the ones I focused on were certified as millionaires.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1mo ago
Gotcha
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1mo ago
They would do good to realize that they are selecting for women that are effectively whores but also have a vested interest in not admitting it. (so, effectively worse than regular whores who are at least upfront that there is a transaction)
Because then men would demand fair compensation from them.
This is why much of TRP advice is centered around the need to improve one's fitness and social skills. Those are difficult to defraud from a man in a divorce. Unlike money.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1mo ago
hehehe. Happy Friday! What amuses me is how arrogant and entitled these women are that they think openly saying they're golddiggers is, itself, attractive to men, or at least 'real' men that want to impress a lady! They all think they're Lorelei: https://youtu.be/TF09CVCOyok?t=88
Here's the thing: While Marilyn Monroe could pull off that line with ease and create generations of entitled golddiggers to this day, including Anna Nicole Smith who used this as a model for her life right up to her overdose, it's amusing when single mother skanks with multiple face piercings on a millionaire dating site think it's a flex.
Interesting bit of trivia about Norma Jean: Some lucky guy was married to her back before she made it big and worked on a factory floor.
If I was that guy's father, I'd have disowned him immediately leaving him broke and she would have left him.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1mo ago
Yeah trying to pretend one is a higher class version of a streetwalker only works if one somehow manages to offer more value than said streetwalker. And the average gold-digger offers less value by default. So yeah.
Basically they keep running afoul of at least one of two sins:
1) Not offering fair value for the transaction.
2) Not being honest that it is a transaction.
The streetwalker at least manages to avoid both if she wants to make money. Even if she isn't "high class".
No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
Even millionaires look at women and go O.o