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Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 4d ago
not sure why she is complaining? she's only 37. There's lots of time for her to 'find herself' and meet people until the time comes to settle. Relax sister, just 'explore' and get to know what you really want. You can always freeze your eggs? And there are just so many men our there that like experienced women that know what they want.
Also, women are just so much better in their 40s and 50s. Everyone knows that!
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 4d ago
the whole reason why small town girls want to go to the big city is so that they can sleep around without consequence. Women universally love travel and big cities because in small towns 'everyone knows everyone elses business'.
Thats ok for guys, because it does not harm our reputation if everyone knows that we pull every weekend - it only enhances our reputation. But women know that once they have slept with about 10 guys, the entire town knows that they are whores.
No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
She was watching The Husband Experience on NetFlix with her dog.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
Haha she's trying to avoid the consequences of a reputation that is well known by the locals is what I am hearing from that.
Those are the kind of women that will sleep their way around a social circle in a very obvious order by social status of the men, and then whine that no one [who knows about their past] is willing to trust them [to be anything other than social climbing fuckpuppets]. So they start having to hunt farther and farther afield in the hopes of hoodwinking a provider.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 5d ago
True. Cue the trips to Bali or Spain, or if she can't afford that she'll jump to a gambling town out of state for a quick dip.
The most deadly thing to a slut as we know is her own history.
Been reflecting, and I love women, but the current hive-mind programming is so aggressively skewed to the top 1% that anything failing that means either you're invisible or getting compared to a long list of requirements that can kick you off the ladder pretty fast.
I have sympathy for the younger guys, I can only imagine how isolating it can be now with every woman seemingly fused with her mobile validation machine in her pocket. And I say that as someone who loves tech, but I get how it can be taken too far.
Even I turn off my phone and look around me, don't need to have it constantly open on some app or scrolling forever through a feed largely populated by AI-driven algos. Dead Internet theory may be real to an extent of all the crap being pushed out there, with no human behind it.
What was the stat, that most of Meta or other networks are largely bot activity? Its unreal. Does this lead to the 'great unplugging' after a while? I have to wonder...
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 4d ago
excellent post man.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 4d ago
I deleted all my social media accounts several years back and it was one of the best decisions I've ever made. The only reason I have a smart phone is for the logistical capacity (calendar, photos, notebook, etc all in one device).
If I really need to know about something someone I actually know will tell me.
I really can't recommend it enough. 10/10 would become a digital hermit again.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
Love the mental gymnastic contortions with this one: She decries the men online wanting, quote, "the husband experience (full loyalty and commitment)". I'm trying to translate what that means in womanese. If it's what I, in man-speak think it means, the men want to wife her up and such, she could hold them off while getting red carpet beta treatment. She could have a dozen "friend" orbiters.
Or perhaps what it means to her is that "the husband experience" means, hilariously, well, I don't take my wife out that often and eat inside (yes, a $10 Filet mignon steak from costco tastes better cooked at home than one bought for $40 at Longhorn.). They probably want to do netflix, popcorn, and sex. That's a date for us.
Others weigh in. What do you think she means by that word salad?
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
She means whatever is most beneficial to her at any given moment. But I may be a bit of a cynic.
Basically she wants all the benefits of a relationship but none of the obligations. Like, cuddling while watching a movie in a house that he paid for, while she still gets to gobble strange cock behind the local bowling alley.
She can't do it behind the local bar though, because the guys there already know what STD's she has.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 1w ago
I interpret it closer to @overkill_engine
She's not upset that men are proposing marriage. She's upset that men want loyalty and commitment from her. Meanwhile, she wants loyalty and commitment from them: this random dude she's been dating is expected to come over and watch netflix and nurse her to health from her cold.
I mean, if we're just randomly dating, what more does she expect than a text saying "feel better soon!" and then a plan to meet up again when you're feeling better? I'm supposed to come over and make hot soup and bundle you in a blanket like a loving husband? While you get to still randomly scroll Tinder and dial up dick when you're feeling horny later? Yeah, I think that's what she's trying to say.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
The part that gets me is her utter failure to grasp that her espoused views are utterly repellent to the kind of man that might ever be willing to stick around and give her husband/boyfriend bennies. Usually a sign of a woman whose internal imagery of men is a cardboard cutout caricature at best.
And of course her dial-a-dick appointments don't care because they don't need to.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
@overkill_engine She's saying "husband experience" like it's a BAD thing though "when you've been barely talking for 5 minutes". This implies they're moving too fast to intimacy but what does she mean by that? I've heard that some men are too fast to talk about marriage as a gripe by women and I personally realized that stating I was dating with intent to marriage was an "ick" for most modern women. But she says "husband experience" which is puzzling to me.
Maybe that's her or her clique's term for marriage sex?
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 6d ago
They're expecting her to not sleep around on them. For her this is a problem because the only men that will bother to care about her also want her to be somewhat monogamous.
Combine that with the avoidance of men she went to school with and it paints a pretty clear picture of her having earned some hobag tags in her day or otherwise not being the greatest person.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 6d ago
Again it's puzzling because that's in the first 5 minutes of the phone call as she claims? Typically, first date/phone calls typically are not all that serious and rather about what you like to do, your job, whether you have a bunch of other men's kids around, etc. Women are notorious for lying about what actually happens and what was said though.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 6d ago
I wouldn't take her super literally on the 5 minutes thing either and just treat it like an idiom than an exact measurement.
Basically she's upset that the local dudes she can get are either completely non invested in her at all, or expecting to not be sloppy 37ths if she wants some investment from them, and are telling her that early. (which tells me its pretty obvious that she sleeps around if she's getting such polarized reactions)
Usual fried ice bullshit. Princess might have to actually date with a purpose to achieve anything beyond cocksleeve status.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Great question. What IS the point? Welcome to the very question men have been asking for years. Perhaps the answer lies in the very things you listed - "full loyalty and commitment" - that you seem incapable of providing to a man.
I completely agree with you. Enjoy watching "It's a Wonderful Life", sledding, and a warm mug of cocoa with... your dog.
I feel so sorry for you. If only there was a way to somehow avoid these dire consequences!
I'm sure your [non-canine] soulmate is right around the corner, waiting to snuggle up and watch Christmas romcoms with you all day!
Until then, believe in the magic of the [non-specific] holidays! Smile, because of your dog, and because I'm absolutely sure you will not be spending the next 50 Christmases by yourself getting fatter and more and more depressed!
Press 1 to doubt
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 6d ago
"all these Christmas movies mess us up"
That's not necessarily a BAD thing. Birthdays, New Year's Eve resolutions, Valentine's Day, Christmas, are reminders to us to perhaps pause and reflect for a moment where our lives are going. The book/play Scrooge is about a man reforming himself due to reflections on Christmas Eve.
When it comes to men, she probably spent her entire life with the attitude that men exist to "provide" for her in exchange for p-sleeve. She didn't bother to reflect that Christmas-after-Christmas for 17 years whether she was responsible to do anything as time was marching on. She hit major milestones including 30 and for 7 years after that, didn't take significant actions because her whole world paradigm is: "The point of men is for me to do nothing."
I suppose that was just too much mental lift to ask of her. ALL she can accomplish is to get depressed. She can't do more than that.
When women say "man up" or other shaming ploys, they are essentially equating adult responsibilities to men. That they are incapable of these tough actions and decisions. This relates to a recent holiday post I made of a woman griping her relatives observing her single, childless status. That's because she was not taking action and didn't want to be reminded she was just destroying her life.
As a father, I hold my child accountable. If she isn't making her life better, I sit her down and explain to her the consequences of her decisions even if the decision is to do nothing because that is a decision after all.
"You can choose a ready guide in some celestial voice. If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice. You can choose from phantom fears and kindness that can kill. I will choose a path that's clear, I will choose Freewill" -- Rush
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 1w ago
Few things: those Christmas movies are mainly written for women. Because they're the ones still buying into the fantasy of abandoning their "strong independent life" in the big city and moving to a small town where some hunky non-college-educated dude is waiting to sweep her off her feet. If you feel they're selling you a lie, take it up with the sisterhood trying to profit off it.
It's funny she dismisses meeting people IRL. So most of the guys in the bars know who she is. This is only a problem if you have a bad reputation with them (could be a slut, bitch, psycho, whatever). If, after knowing you for a few years in school, they thought you were a great girl, at least a few of them would probably happily date you, or set you up with their friends and family.
Here's what I suspect happened. In high school, she couldn't wait to get out of her small town, treated the guys there (and probably the women too) like shit, because she knew she was going to go to college, then get a fabulous job in the big city (undoubtedly doing something "fun" like fashion, or supreme court judge, or cupcake baking) and meet a fabulous hot rich guy and together have that instagram-worthy life she knew was just around the corner. She burned all her bridges acting superior to her colleagues because she never thought she'd need them.
And now... it didn't work out. Her BA in underwater basket weaving from a shitty (but expensive) college didn't lead to that high status, high excitement, high pay job in the glamorous big city that she was expecting to get. And the hot rich guys there have plenty of options from all the other women coming in by the busloads from Kansas every day. Eventually with her student loans she couldn't afford rent even with 5 roommates in a shitty hovel in the bad part of town, far away from the glamor and the glitz.
So she decided to move back to her old town, probably living with her parents again. And all those old guys are still around, probably doing pretty okay for themselves, even if they're not a hedge fund trader, but they want nothing to do with her because they remember what she was like in high school. So now she sits and watches Netflix with her dog, being ghosted by strangers.
Come to think of it, now I know why she hates those Hallmark Christmas movies: she's living one, except for the happy ending...
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 4d ago
The Engineer Comedian has a whole powerpoint on The Hallmark formula. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TwgiAXYIDkk
Here's another theory: I love going to my HS reunions because some of the people have grown and become better. The losers generally don't go because they don't want to be mocked. Again, there's media for this (playing as I type this) Glory Days! https://youtu.be/6vQpW9XRiyM?list=RD6vQpW9XRiyM&t=36
It was touching that some of the jerks I had known turned out to be decent people. The girls were sweet to me and some even said, whether they're lying or not, that they liked me. To me, they're all still 18 and if they're sweet, especially so.
In the eyes of a kind man, a kind woman can look young beautiful forever. Look at Pierce Brosnan and his wife. She is good to him and gave him kids, so she's ALWAYS pretty to him. That's what marriage is about: It's about hooking a man in her youth and that image is burned in his brain. The same goes with my own body image: I tend to think of myself as 30 so that's what I'm looking at in the mirror.
She's worried that she's gotten long-in-the-tooth and the guys will look down on her. She can't handle being judged particularly if she was harsh on them. As I said, the losers self-edit out.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 5d ago
Made me think of this (@ 2:42), kind of an inside joke here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eTDsJd1l7Aw
JudgeSmales 5d ago
"Eventually with her student loans she couldn't afford rent even with 5 roommates in a shitty hovel in the bad part of town, far away from the glamor and the glitz."
It's all fun and games and Sex and the City fantasies until she steps in a pile of homeless-person shit outside her apartment lobby door. Sorry, m'lady, this is the life you chose. No refunds.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 6d ago
Well, it's happy for someone. Just not her. :D
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3d ago
womp, womp