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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
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JudgeSmales Jr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
“I’m looking for a man who has goals and ambition, is intelligent, trustworthy, a provider, supportive, considerate, kind, assertive, masculine, honest, faithful, intentional, has a healthy self-esteem and a sense of humour, loves to go out, and likes fitness. These basic qualities are hard to find these days,” she said.
Me: Is that all? Any other "basic qualities" I'm required to have?
Also note that the article buries the lead. At the end, it finally gets to the woman who admits: "Being single is very expensive." She can thank her feminist sistas who came before her. You got this,gurl!
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 7mo ago
Not sure whether this should be flaired Inspin Tears or Single Women Tears. Moderators please reflair if needed. I cannot post this to the Reddit site so if someone could do so it would be appreciated.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 7mo ago
Either one fits.
I had my eye on this article earlier this week for a weekend post, but never did finish reading it.
FUCKER BEAT ME TO IT!
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 7mo ago
I sensed someone was going to beat me to the punch on this. Pity neither of us can post it to Reddit though. Listen, someone please post it to Reddit? I'd say to Man Up but that would violate Rule 1.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
Most women who read the guardian are not relationship material. They simply want more than they are worth and are like overpriced cars on a dealer's forecourt. The cars get less valuable every day but the dealer will not sell at a price that gets buyers, so they get less valuable next day.
Princess thinks she is worth a huge list of demands that start with equality ad end with a man doing all the male heavy lifting in the relationship. Princess wasted her best child bearing years getting qualified in some supposed education. Still she is better off alone than with a no good man. You go gurl!
Clearing these women out of the dating pool will only remove opportunities for male disappointment.
cundardunfinished Jr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
These women don't understand that plenty of these men exist, but don't exist for them. Just like there are plenty of 10/10 big titted blondes that I will probably never get with.
"There’s also the Peter Pan syndrome: a lot of men here don’t seem to want to grow up and take on the responsibilities of adulthood or a committed partnership,”
Don't want to "grow up"... for YOU. Why would I risk my financial situation and re-orient my life to a 48 year old woman who thinks the extremely high standards she's set for me are a "low bar" that in her eyes I am consistently failing to meet? It sounds exhausting. The time to get me to do that was when you were 20 years old and I was too, but instead you had "Riley Reid" syndrome and were sucking every dick in a 100 ft radius.
I get a lot of matches with these types of women in online dating (in their 30s) and what's also common is they are sexless, joyless people. They have been so used up by that age that there is nothing left to give, instead they go through the motions conducting job interviews for the position of boyfriend. If accepted you will be under a probationary period indefinitely and if you're lucky some starfish sex once every two weeks to keep you on the hook.
user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
I doubt that, but it's worst if true.
cundardunfinished Jr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
There is at least a subset that has been ran through so much by then that they legitimately aren't on the carousel anymore. They are a dead bedroom in waiting. I say sexless because they have an aversion to flirting and insist on sticking to a rote interview format devoid of any humor or innuendo. God forbid you try to introduce these things you will be labeled a creep.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 7mo ago
I chuckle when so-called Strong and Independent Women try to shame men for not wanting to "grow up and take responsibilities" when these women certainly aren't putting up their own assets they earn for themselves because they want to feel like a little girl.
I read a woman shaming a man for wanting a home cooked meal or her doing laundry for him "What are you? A child?" but yet these women want to feel like Daddy is taking care of them by paying for free meals and looking tough so she can act badly in public and he'll beat up anyone who dares offend "her honor."
If these women actually took the initiative they want to shame men into undertaking, they'd all easily be married: Go up to multiple men, strike up conversations, and steer a way towards a coffee date and pay for the coffee. Boom! She could land top grade beta males easily and perhaps even an alpha or two.
Want a laugh? Watch this (comments turned off) video: "How I hacked online dating | Amy Webb". A frumpy, aging woman lands a tall, professional man simply by actually putting an "effort" into her dating search instead of just "starfish "waiting for the perfect man to approach.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 7mo ago
EFFORT IS A TOOL OF THE PATRIARCHY!
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 7mo ago
My grandmothers were amazing women. One co-ran a Polish grocery store which was a pillar of the community, ran a charity "New Mothers" to help new mothers with figuring out how to deal with infants while the husband was off at the coal mines. The other was born into utter poverty and grabbed a man whom her older sister had rejected and then owned two homes and worked a normal job.
I say all this because when women refer to "traditional dating", they refer to 19th century romance novels about the upper class as if that was the norm sort of like girls watching Reality TV thinking that's Reality. Normal women were "oppressed" back then as, in, they basically had to live adult lives.
When I came of age in the 1980's I was honestly confused in that the single women I met were utterly awful and I expressed my concerns and people told me that this was "normal". It's like going to a restaurant and seeing trash junk food made badly and hearing "That's the best food there is! It's normal!" I was told I was crazy. I then left the states for a while and realized I wasn't crazy after all.
cundardunfinished Jr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
They just out themselves are terrible partners. The reason I have given up responsibilities in relationships is because the woman wanted me to, she cooked and cleaned for me to secure commitment. Sometimes these same women after the light switch moment will accuse you of 'wanting a second mother.' Sometimes they just outright refuse to do it at all and wonder why they can't secure commitment to begin with.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 7mo ago
Also, as we get into the millennial and younger bracket, bunch of these women at 30 and 40 plus just simply do not know how to perform a basic adult task like cooking any meal that did not come from a box.
They don't seem to grasp that a man isn't going to want to come home from busting his ass at out earning and out status'ing her in order to not have her continuously shit test him just to still have to be both halves of the fucking relationship while she's effectively an expensive roommate who is welching out on paying their half of the rent. They're not 19 year old debt free virgins anymore that can get away with that, so the average man isn't going to slide into the DM's of these crones.
And as noted elsewhere, Chad was NEVER going to put in any effort because he doesn't have to, so relying on him to do so is a fool's errand.
Dumb cunts keep pricing themselves out of what little market they have left at their age.
throwaway415 7mo ago
roastie cope fest lol
Thetruth 7mo ago
This article is a great reminder of the blatant double standard that exists in many spheres of society in regards to men and women, I encourage any of y'all to read it. The guardian literally choose the top losers of the female gender. Directly from the article: "I’m single by choice because dating nowadays is a waste of time,” said Valerie Gregorio, a 27-year-old from Maryland. “I’m not looking for anyone, I value my freedom and independence too much. I still live with my family because everything is too expensive...I’m ready to accept being single for the rest of my life.”
This is the equivalent of Time magazine interviewing a basement dwelling 27 year old dungeons and dragons expert in an article about how relationships are difficult in 21st century. The guardian found various losers, weirdos, and female equivalents of autistic men and made them believe it's absolutely not there fault they're single and forgotten. In the article, These females only attract men who they refer to as losers and NEVER got a stand-up guy yet it's absolutely NOT their fault. If a woman happens to be lurking and luckily reads this, here's the golden ticket to never end up like those females: don't date men who have more options than you. Simple. Don't lie to yourself, you know who those men are. Be real with yourself, you only have 1 life and a few hundred ovaries. Don't end up like some of these losers in the article.
We also need to popularize shaming female losers just like male losers. I do it all the time in real life. If I see a female not contributing to society or her family and friends, living parasitically, and just completely skill-less, I don't hesitate to call her a loser, basement dweller, bum, etc. just as I would with her male equivalent. This trend of allowing losers to have voices because they have vaginas must end
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 7mo ago
Bravo.
I'm chuckling how early now women inspins are becoming, even in their mid-20's versus their late 30's as before. Mid-20's women have PLENTY of options: Clean themselves up a bit, get rid of the nose piercing, drop a few pounds, and just start CHATTING with men. That's all. Basically, the absolute minimum.
Men in the basement are there because life IS tough for them now. Yes, that's no excuse but at least it's understandable but these women are losers due to excessive entitlement, laziness, and, well, bitchiness. Utterly worthless human beings yet at the age of 25 or before 30, they give up. Astonishing.
I have a daughter and she matters to me. I cannot imagine letting her ruin her life if I have something to say about it.
What these women despise are men who are "normies" because they regard men, in general, with contempt. It's as simple as that. "feminism" is about dehumanizing men. We're not human. We can only be TOLERATED by them if we're rich and handsome, and barely at that. Who wants to live with someone such as this? Who wants someone whose basically a resentful sex worker out to throw us out of the door when it's opportunistic to do so?
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 7mo ago
And yet they are surprised when men would rather patronize women that have the business sense to at least fake enthusiasm long enough to get paid.
Thetruth 7mo ago
Hopefully you succeed raising your daughter in this bizarro world. You're definitely right about women becoming inspins earlier, My 22 year old sister is possibly an example. Because my parents are baby boomers and foolishly believed that discipline is for raising boys only and not girls, she's now a spoiled young adult who's awkward with human interactions in general. No job, not in school, living at her mother's house, no plans for the future, and huge entitlement (she blindly believes every man should be able to afford an at least $30k engagement ring, for example). I told my dad that she is basically living like what his generation would call an "invalid" and if she were a boy he would absolutely explode on a daily basis but because she's a girl "let's pray about it". We are actively handicapping roughly one half of our population, it's insane
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 7mo ago
Dumb cunts need to stop chasing men too far above them in the rankings, of fucking course Chad isn't putting much effort into his slumpbuster fucks. He can just swipe right on a replacement.
user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
This alone tells you she's trying for a guy out of her range.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 7mo ago
Yup. Entire thing was a giant checklist of fucking up by trying to fuck too far up. I swear, one of the things women need viciously browbeaten into them when growing up, is that it is easier for a man to put cock into them than it is any other form of effort.