Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Created by kevin32
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago Stickied
Also i don't know how I missed this but all uploads of women here need to have their face unidentifiable with the new content policy. It's better to blur eyes i would say this doesn't pass the face obscuring test.
most of the face, particularly the eyes should be blurred or covered. There is a case to be made this woman would be recognizable to someone based on the amount of her face that is showing
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago Stickied
I saw this post yesterday and didn't have time to comment, so I just upvoted the post with the intent of addressing the new rules and content policy today.
@Seagram7 - I haven't seen you as active lately, so you may have missed this announcement which is pinned to the top of the WAATGM forum.
Essentially, faces must be obscured to the point that no one who knows the Carol IRL would recognize her, and the text must have portions that make the screenshot relevant to WAATGM underlined, circled, or otherwise highlighted to conform with the Fair Use portion of copyright laws.
I'll leave this one up for now, mainly because I think her face is obscured enough (just barely), and a text conversation really shouldn't be copyrightable I would think (but I'm no lawyer).
Be aware that in the off chance that the fat pig-like thing in the OP contacts us, we will have to remove the post.
However, as long as you conform to that linked announcement in the future, we'll be enabled to tell subject Carols to fuck off.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
I think editing comments still fucks up tags, c so tagging @Seagram7 again to make sure you see this thread.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
For some reason my eyes are bleeding.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
My fucking retina is being stripped away looking at her pics.
Musicgoon78 1y ago
Dayuuummm! She's a Big-Un!
That's a bit too much to wrangle....
PoopBeast Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I would have responded with "I don't think I can afford to take you to dinner" and let her stew over why that might be.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
Ugh, she's got the body of a grocery bag full of mashed potatoes and oats.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
That's incredibly unkind to potatoes and oats.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I take solace in the fact that no matter how much screeching they do on social media, no matter how many advertising campaigns try to present it as a good thing, and no matter what other people tell them to their face, being a fat sack of shit single mother will always knock them down to the bottom of the social ladder. The people constantly reassuring them "you go girl!" and "beauty at every size!" are either fellow single mothers or people trying to save face for social brownie points. In an ideal society they would be a pump and dump at best, but in clown world they could find a beta provider except their own hubris makes them think they can still land Chad.
Their egos are so massive these days it's actually insane. They have a sense of superiority more akin to tv and feminist mythology's description of men in the 1950's, which is even more insane. They really believe that is was all "give give give" for women throughout all of history and that now it is their turn to do the taking. That is to say, they know exactly what they're doing and even think it's justified. Their attitudes legit make me wonder if our female ancestors see the things I do and feel sad that men have to live life with no women. No woman's support, no love, no family. It's horrendous
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago Stickied
How do you know she's a single mom? Stretch marks on the stomach?
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago Stickied
I went back and looked, thinking maybe that you and I had overlooked something, but no. There's no evidence that she's a single mom. Going by what is present in that screenshot, she's just an entitled fatty. Fatties and former fatties get stretch marks too.
@Seagram7 - for all that I absolutely agree that single moms aren't worthy of a man's commitment, let's keep our comments (and especially post titles)¹ accurate.
Bloopies and feminists lurk our forum and subreddit, and will run with anything that makes us look ignorant or like we're just pulling things out of our asses. Let's not give them ammunition by making shit up or making assumptions.
Clause corrected for accuracy.
1: nothing wrong with this particular post's title; just for future knowledge
AbusiveFather1 1y ago
in an ideal society they wouldn't even show face outside. when i first arrived in america (i'm from eastern europe) i was shocked to my core to witness these landwhales wear bikinis at the beach. where i'm from, they wouldn't even show their face outside - but they're also a tiny minority of women in the first place, whereas here it's 2 out of 3 (absurd)
No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Her ego is bigger than her ass.
PoopBeast Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
And sadly, neither are as big as her stomach
NPC070201 1y ago
I spent several years working as the youth director at a YMCA. We had a very active youth program-summer and holiday camps, basketball league, home school PE, after school programs, etc. We had a very robust youth program and I had about 600 kids involved in all my programs together each year. The ages were 6-12. Being a YMCA, the vast majority of the kids I worked with came from single parent homes.
I say all that to say this: I interacted with literally hundreds of different single mothers over the course of about 4 years. One of the biggest things I learned is that, as a group, single mothers are the most selfish group of people on the planet. That doesn't include widows, not does it include divorced mothers whose husbands cheated on them. As I group, I'm talking about never been married women and women who initiated a divorce for a frivolous reason.
See, being a single mother is a mindset. It's not something you'll find in widows. So many of these women, despite the fact that they were working jobs like being servers, or retail customer service or whatever....they still believed themselves to be above average and worthy of admiration. I mean, the entitlement was just off the fucking charts. And most of them believed that their child could do no wrong. I just absolutely could not believe how selfish and self-centered these people were. Whenever I had to discipline their child for breaking one of my rules, they would have a fit and try to bitch to me about it. I would cut them off immediately and tell them, "if you don't like the way I run my programs, then take your child somewhere else." Then I would just walk away. None of them ever did, of course. It just blew my fucking mind how entitled and delusional and self-centered these women were. The really sad part, is that most of these children would be growing up with that kind of influence in their daily lives.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Replace the word "child" with "I fucked Chad trophy" and the core of their mindset becomes way more apparent in that regard. Otherwise admitting their child isn't special (and thus neither are they) means they'd have to come down back to earth with the mere mortals.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
First off, thanks @NPC070201 for the wonderful anecdote. I have my own story from this afternoon: Took my daughter to The Nutcracker with my wife and we sat in the front row and there were two smaller girls behind us chattering all the way through the performance. Normally, I'd say something but I had just been admonished by a Karen at the grocery store a few hours earlier for the slightest infraction so I was in the mindset of minding my own business for a while.
After the lights came on I looked behind to see the parents of this offspring and it was two bourgeois white women, didn't know if they were lesbian or single mothers going together to the performance. Either way, no father to be seen because I saw most other children were with their fathers (since it's Saturday and going out with your child to a Christmas live event is fatherhood treasure day.).
I have noted that waitresses are sub-par from when I grew up in that they typically are poorly groomed (face piercings, etc) and poor manners and service and my wife then insists I tip 20% but I do 10%. Future, I'm thinking of tipping even less for some of the AWFUL service I've had in the past 10 restaurant outings we have had.
I wonder if people have become accustomed to lousy service at restaurants as "the new normal" and tip the waitresses 20 percent anyway?
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago Stickied
@NPC070201 and @Overkill_Engine and @polishknight -
While all of your comments were really good and I enjoyed the anecdotes, do keep in mind that there is zero evidence that the Carol in the OP is a single mom.
She's just an entitled fatty.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
No worries, was not implying that the woman in the OP was a single mom, just having a side discussion on the whole single mom attitude one often runs into where they think their shit doesn't stink like everyone else's just because they got Chad to use them as a slumpbuster.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
@NPC070201 @Overkill_Engine Agreed, I never said the OP is a single mom but just discussing single moms in general because he posted a fun anecdote so.I joined in.
This posting reminds me of one I found a while ago (posted here a few months ago) in a female incel forum somehow crossposted to a usual watering hole I mine for content where a self-labeled (quote) "ugly" woman complained that she wanted "princess" treatment that the most attractive women receive.
It begs the discussion of what "entitled" means: We ALL have a notion of what we're entitled to and that's a necessary survival skill: If we don't think we're entitled to anything, even if we earn it, we'd simply starve to death serving everyone else's needs for free.
One rationalization I commonly saw from the aging meal whores was the justification: "I make myself pretty for the date so he should pay for my time" (in other words, they admit they are whores) but at least there's some logic to it.
In the classic scene in Monty Python and the Holy Grail of the fat princess with "huge tracts of land", at least she had huge tracts of land.
It says a lot about a culture where women commonly think they deserve princess treatment when they have ZERO, repeat, ZERO princess attributes: Not beautiful, not well mannered, not rich. Are all frogs princes then?
NPC070201 1y ago
I don't have kids of my own, but I've always had a gift of being really good with children and teens, working with them, counseling them, etc. Which is one of the reason why I was offered that job. My heart hurt for those kids having to grow up with single mothers, especially the boys. I did my best to be a positive male role model for those kids, and some of them, I was the closer thing they'd ever had to what a father was supposed to be.
Something else I learned while there, which is something I've seen posted on here and on other forums before, is that, BY FAR, single fathers are much better parents then single mothers. A single father can teach his daughter how to choose good men and can teach his son how to be a good man. A single mother can do neither of those.
MentORPHEUS TRP Endorsed 1y ago
Oh wow, I didn't know the ChoosingBeggars subreddit was still going!
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
This woman should be grateful that anyone with a penis is willing to speak to her, much less get within fucking distance. She clearly needs her right to the buffet revoked.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It doesn't matter what she looks like - the photo has very little to do with it. The attitude makes even a 10/10 ugly.
Not sure why the OP wanted to include a picture of the average American woman.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
One stat I saw was approx ~40% of the US population is obese, so your comment rings true.
I've dropped some weight myself, just to maintain and to get more healthy. It didn't take GLP drugs, it didn't take some fad diet. It just was the simple formula of burning more cals than I was taking in.
It pisses me off when people ask me what Pharma pill I used to do so, because I put in the actual fucking work, lol. But that is the US currently in a nutshell, quick fix, easy solutions and no one wants to put in the work.
But that is also why I have a life many don't, because I applied myself - like many of the men here. No work equals no gains of any kind, and we understand this deeply.
The world at large is coming around, I think. But there are a lot of horrible women out there, and not just physically - so I agree with you completely.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
75% of the US is overweight/obese now. Not kidding or exaggerating.
Good on you for losing weight yourself. It's hard, I know. I'm 130 and have been within +/- 3 pounds of that target for around five years. It takes continual self-control and discipline, so foreign to our culture of excess and gluttony. There is no other way, and even if there was I wouldn't want it. I take pride in being able to control myself and my eating. It's a lot harder with a housewife who actually cooks every day to please me - I eat one meal per day and it's a friggin good one, custom tailored to my specs.
CICO is absolutely true, and the same works for personal finance. Basic math is a tool of the patriarchy!
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Agreed.
We could elaborate at LENGTH how things like trading are the ultimate in self-discipline, I'm sure. Most people don't even balance their personal finances either as you know. The amount of people doing crazy shit like putting groceries on credit cards and rolling that debt with interest is just... I can't even understand it unless you were in a very bad situation and had no other choice.
LOL about maths, so true - everything that makes women feel bad is "tool of the patriarchy" haha.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
recognizing patterns is a tool of the patriarchy! Check your privilege you misogynistic shitlord! REEEEEE!
JudgeSmales 1y ago
Her poor underwear should file for hazard pay for doing all that heavy lifting.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Its not the land whale entitlement that really gets me. Every fat girl has a thin one inside and they can't help but feel they should be beautiful and be courted.
The thing that really hits me is that she has decided that the unattractive first date offer (let me come round and attempt to bang you) somehow ties in with the Democrats losing and there being a small chance that the unborn may have more rights in future. If the democrats had won would it be a more attractive first offer? Would she have texted back "Sure we can always abort any progeny" They have a view that the whole world is out to get them.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Dating-whore entitlement logic appears to be this: "I'm a princess and old fashioned, when it suits me, but also I'm either historically oppressed or the man is going to not do dishes in the future, or something like that, so I'm OWED free goodies and princess treatment regardless."
I've read multiple books/articles on sociopaths and generally they become masters of playing the victim including projection (and projection of projection), until they become delusional hence many of them can become incredibly successful but nonetheless have miserable lives. I have coined an expression I haven't seen elsewhere:
"The greasiest wheel is the squeakiest".
It's not just women narcissists but also Type-A males who get too much of a good thing finding things to criticize about others and miserable about a world that isn't responding to their outrage but I encounter type A males 1/10th as much as the women.
In any case, my response to this woman's text would be: "Well, if this makes you feel any better, I have a stock of Plan B I can bring over with the booze and pizza".
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Because it's way more socially acceptable to punch a man in the mouth than it is a woman. Or otherwise recalibrate their attitude or filter them from them from the gene pool.
It's one of the reasons I am extremely OK with women that act poorly getting to die childless and alone. Part of the problem with women is there is almost no selection pressure on them, at least not to near the level that is on men. I forget where I saw the stat, but just being born a woman gives one about 80% chance of passing on your genes, whereas men do not enjoy odds remotely as generous.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Type-A males avoid this problem by seeking positions of authority as commonly referred to as "toxic masculinity."
Reminded of a story my sister told about her ex-husband whose a naval officer who loves to criticize others and is tight-assed to make sure he's untouchable. He keeps a perfectly clean home and rarely makes a mistake so it's hard to "catch him".
When he's on-base after a 6 months tour (so I heard, old story), he'd go around the base and write up sailors for failing to clean the cigarettes under bushes. A marine said: "This wouldn't happen in the Marines for obvious reasons..."
I've encountered these men often in my career (and personal life) and it surprises me (and then) how they are shocked when I stand up to them because somehow, in polite middle class culture, nobody gave them a knuckle sandwich or even told them off.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
The part that amuses me is that a woman still married him for at least a while. Despite it more than likely being completely obvious what a prig he was.
Edit: The implication being of course, that women care more about the trappings of authority than the character of the person holding it. Women demonstrate every day that a man can be an absolute shitweasel if he has enough looks and power/resources.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Don't you think she's fat enough already? You're such an enabler!