Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
Link Flair:
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2 months ago
Original post with that title, forums.red version
Original post with that title, reddit version
My sticky comment at each one still applies.
Comment Stickied by Moderator
orbilius 2 months ago
I'm definitely not defending her - I would like to sort of "translate" what she's saying though.
In the first post, "isn't afraid to open up and be emotional" means, "Chad telling me that he loves me." She has convinced herself that she gets pumped and dumped because Chad is "afraid" to be in love ...or something.
Basically, she wants the right sort of man to be "emotional" ...in the sense that him being in love with her would give her power over him.
To be clear, she would still lose all tingles for Chad if he confessed love for her. Oh yes. She is just as damaged as any other modern woman. She chases bad boys and will lose attraction if you're not bad. But she thinks she wants love, so that's what the first comment means.
In the second post she specifically mentions a guy crying over her - meaning, a guy crying because he can't get her. She is describing a guy she hasn't had sex with (or even a guy she has just broken up with) crying over her and yes, that is very unattractive to women.
So, these were two different situations and in her mind, her position isn't contradictory.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2 months ago
Agreed, but from the context, it sounds like she was expressing contempt (mocking laughter) at a man who had been presumably somewhat intimate with her previously ("cry OVER me"). In essence, your point is correct in that she dreams of a man she respects willing to show vulnerability to her (so she has leverage to keep him around) BUT she doesn't want that leverage to impact her impression of him being "dominant". Also, she lacks empathy towards men altogether. Most modern women could be clinically diagnosed as psychopaths.
Psychopaths, particularly those who require empathy from others for their daily survival, don't want to admit they lack empathy for others because their own standards used against them would be fatal hence the mental gymnastics. They also need to put on an act (unlike a sociopath, they actually do have feelings so they need to mask them).
The opposite applies in that such women who say they don't want "players", "games" or "bad boys" find them irresistible because they represent dominant masculine energy that conveys status but since they justify themselves as entitled victims, will cry to others to shame the guy into being a "safe" bad boy somehow. The irony is that the psychopaths I know, most of them women (a few men), ultimately wound up with psychopaths with both of them pointing the fingers at each other.
Since they lack the ability to accept personal moral responsibility for their actions, this often translates into consequences of their life being out of control. Some psychopaths are successful CEO's or actors but the majority are simply train wrecks or, thanks to society, actually protected from the consequences of their actions for life, sadly.
No-Stress-Cat 2 months ago
Straight from the horse's mouth.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2 months ago
The first comment is for the progressive back-patting. The second is for a good laugh.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2 months ago
All women have that instinct/tendency; not all women choose to run with it like that bitch.
See my sticky comment at the linked posts in my stickied comment for this post.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2 months ago
I remember a post from the old WAATGM on reeedit about a girl that is realizing what people say in real life and on the internet and and how people really think and feel in real life might not be the same? In her case, she was finding out the hard way that men and women on the internet saying that the past dont matter, and no real men care about body count isnt how we really feel and act in real life.
This post reminds me of that. She is saying that it is OK for men to cry in front of her but when she really sees a man crying in front of her, her vag dries up like the Sahara.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 2 months ago
Not only that, but the people telling her to go ahead and spend her 20s hopping from bed to bed are not the same people who'll have good and healthy relationships in the future. Don't listen to a broke MF about how to get rich, don't go to your local drugdealer asking for the nearest clinic number, don't ask people with severe mental illness about how to live your life.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2 months ago
When I'm bored at work, I listen to yootube infidelity stories. It never ceases to amaze me that the wayward wives' are taking marriage advice from post-wall divorcees that couldnt hold her marriage together and they encourage her to cheat. That's who you are taking marriage advice from? A post-wall divorcee that is getting pumped and dumped and cant find a husband?
Here is a perfect example: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2aJkXVCfHYI&lc=UgyoAgrpRBr_YWxLSkt4AaABAg
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2 months ago
The problem is, variety sounds “exciting” to a bored woman. Maybe her marriage is fine, but she doesn’t want to drop her pants every day (you know, like a normal marriage, even husband doesn’t want sex daily for the most part). But in comes this woman who is talking about how she left her husband and now is getting all of these “new experiences” and how much fun she’s having. Sounds great! It’s only when they realize that the trade off is “none of the men want to do anything besides social events and nut inside of you” do they realize that they may have made an error.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 2 months ago
I love story with happy endings. During the quarantine my go-to channel was True Story; listening to karma while having some coffee was a great way to take the mind out of things.
HMSSink 2 months ago
Avoiding responsibility? Coming to a 'word dealer' for more of the same advice? Putting herself in a way of bad advice?
She told me, I wouldn't even think about it and then it happened.
Are sexual novels just the same, with human interaction removed? Prepping mind for instant action by lowering entry level to imagination and arousal?