Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Typo-MAGAshiv
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
So she's putting in sex tokens and hoping a relationship falls out?
"Men don't owe you commitment, inspin!"
RedPill115 1y ago
Yes....feminist themes are largely self projection.
"nice guys" are accussing men of acting exactly like women, the most aggressive women get 99% of the time is being a friend with a guy hanging around hoping he makes a move on her.
Their accussation is really that men are acting like women.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Recommended Reading: https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2010/09/03/sex-cartel/
I am noticing is they are trying to put the value back into sex and what they are also realizing that their real value is the sex they bring to the table. After giving it away to Chad for free for 3 generations, they are realizing that sex has been devalued and the SMP is deregulated. Back in the olden days, the only way I was going to get sex was to marry. Who would have thought that Grandma's saying about free milk and a cow was right. Oh you're old Grandma, the 50's is over, men and women can have judgement free sex and women can fuck to our hearts content. Now they are literally trying to put the Genie back into the bottle and make sex worth the exchange rate for commitment, resources and protection.
Speaking of Genie out of the bottle; the sexual market place is deregulated. Which means that if she pulls the born again virgin card or thinks that making you wait for sex will raise her value, the sad fact is that there hundreds, no thousands of girls that don't subscribe to that and will cut her throat to steal her potential man and are more that willing to put out. Basically the other girls out there are messing up her game of making you wait for sex.
This seriously blows my mind. Didn't feminist and women in general for the last 60 years tell us that they can have promiscuous sex the same way a man can? Plus its a good thing to be sex positive, being a slut is empowering, not to judge them, the past is the past, we need to MAN UP and move on, don't slut shame, they are equal to a man so they can have sex the same way as a man, don't judge me ...Did I leave out anything else they have been preaching for. the. last. 60. years.
Now the current dating strategy is to hide that you are a slut, satisfy those tingles with a FWB (or ONS with a guy from Tinder) and keep the main guy you want a commitment from in a perpetual state of blue balls? The reason being is that the main guy is a keeper and those WhereAreAllTheGoodMen type of guys don't wife up a slut.
That's what blows my mind, all that being a slut is cool feminism crap is wrong and deep down in the recess of their brain, they really knew that. All that crap they have spoon fed us they deep down know it's wrong and it goes against our very basic biological instincts. That guys basically don't want to give their commitment resources and protection to the village bicycle and I have suspected for years that they know that too. What's the meme I see floating around the internet: That men want debt free virgins with no tattoos.
So the latest round in the war of the sexes is for women to use chameleon tactics, pretend to be a decent, moral girl, and straight out LIE!
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Dalrock is always great.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
And for no reason at all, men collectively start just assuming lying is the default setting from women.
Lionsmane8 1y ago
Boohoohoo, not fair
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
More people should study economics, with a strong emphasis on marketing.
For some idiotic reason, most people simply refuse to understand that the mating market is a market that obeys the same laws as any other market.
There is a very limited supply of the kind of men she wants, and a very high demand for them. The cost to "buy" such things (i.e., marriage) is very high, and this woman can't pay it. What she can afford to do is "rent" (i.e., NSA sex) for as long as she can offer something the "owner" wants (in other words, she has to be hot and compliant).
Her problem is that she's upset that other women just like her are renting something she wants to buy... for the price of a rental. But by participating in the rental market herself, she's part of what destroyed the appeal of ownership. If she and all the women she's trying to outbid suddenly stopped renting, those men would have no choice but to allow themselves to be bought. But since she is unwilling to do that, why should the other women? Also, if those guys stopped alley-catting around and each settled down with one woman, what makes her think that she would be one of the lucky few who would be chosen?
When I met my wife, multiple women were expressing interest in me, and those women might well have wished that I didn't have options (leaving aside the matter of preselection), but when it was time to decide, only one woman got a ring from me. I dated T, R, P, J, K, T, L, S, L, M, S, C, K, B, and a few others whose names I don't remember, but I only married the best one.
I am far from being a Chad, and if even I had the luxury of swatting women away when they were looking for high MMV, what are the odds that the writer would be the top pick of a guy with many more options than I ever had?
Of course the writer is alpha-widowed, too. She has become accustomed to having sex with men who are very attractive (which undoubtedly factors heavily into her estimation of how skilled they are in bed), so she will consider any man she can get exclusivity from to be beneath her. Some poor dude would be in competition with a man who doesn't even exist: the idealized amalgamation of every "hawt" guy she's ever been with. She is incapable of being happy with any one flesh-and-blood man, and she will carry that discontent into any long term exclusive relationship.
Oh well... it's not like nobody warned her.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Remember the days when sexual access was predicated on marriage? Pepperridge Farms remembers...
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I saw the end run of this in Thailand. In any red light district there is serious competition among prostitutes so the price is very low. The girls who want to play the "buy me an overpriced drink and not get sex" game lose out big time. Even the simpiest simp eventually runs into a whore desperate for money and gets sex.
Outside the red light district ain't no women playing no games. If they get approached and asked out they're on their best behaviour and sex is part of the expectation. Otherwise, why would the guy even bother with her when he can get sex from a whore for less than the cost of a date? It's expected that the man will choose a low cost venue for a date as well. After all, he's paying :)
chunky 1y ago
Works that way in Budapest, too. I didn't play with hookers, but it was clear that local Hungarian women knew what they were up against.
Lionsmane8 1y ago
The modern dating market is Ebay on steroids.
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Economics is a tool of the patriarchy!
Why did we ever give women things like computers, phones, and dating apps? Women can't create (or even maintain) these things by themselves, and they have been a curse to women overall. This is why I don't give my wife or daughter unfettered access to any technology, why they don't have their own phones, etc.
In the dating market, the apps are giving women option paralysis and the illusion of endless "fulfillment" with no commitment or consequences. But no one told them that they are ruining themselves for life, that they are slowly turning themselves into the next generation of bitter, lonely, unmarried, childless Karens.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Giving a woman a choice is like asking her to carry a 50lb barbell.
She doesn't want it, and would love if someone else did all the work. I think this extends to EVERY choice, not just who they'll fuck.
Jules 1y ago
I agree with the supply and demand and price issues: She simply doesn't have the means (looks, personality) to afford to "buy" a man of the quality she wants. I sort of disagree with the rental thing though; to me, I think it is more like making down payments (as in, she is going down on the men, hehe) for a car or house you can't afford, and then get evicted/the car repossessed.
I'm not saying women can't enjoy the act (she sure appreciates those top guys being 'fucking good in bed'), but usually they want more than just casual fun. Same like with the car example - sure it would be nice to drive that shiny new car for the first time after the down payment, but the pleasure is short lived when the repo men come along and take it back (in a woman's case the dump after the pump)
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
I hear you, and all analogies break down at some point, so I think you're describing a different aspect if the problem than I am. I look at it this way: I travel a lot, which means that renting cars is part of my life. If I rent a car I know that someone else had it yesterday and someone else will have it tomorrow, and I may get the same car again next time (I've had that happen at a small airport I fly into occasionally). There is neither a down payment nor an expectation that that particular car will be mine for the asking the next time I fly in. Nobody is going to repossess it because everyone agreed in advance that I would return it. (If I try to steal it that's a different matter, but even then the cops are not going to "repossess" it.)
What you're describing is someone who takes out a loan for an item she cannot afford, nor can she afford the payments. There's utility in that analogy, too. [Edit: I suppose that your analogy is more akin to an apartment rental rather than a car rental like I envisioned. ]
Some women look at dating as being similar to a lease agreement: the vehicle is there for the lesee's exclusive use, but may be either returned or purchased at her discretion. What they don't understand is that from the other person's perspective, she is the item being leased and he has the option to return or purchase. Worse yet, she may consider herself to be leasing him and he may consider her to be a rental.
Oddest-One-Here 1y ago
Using the car analogy, a high value man is like an expensive make of car that increases in value over time like the Porsche 911, so if he is willing to hire his car out to certain women for the price of eager and willing pussy, she cannot do much with the Porsche 911 beyond driving it for a period of time and she is expected to look after it during her hire time, she might want to buy the car outright so she can do what she wishes with it including give it a new paint job or other mods, but as a proud owner of such a fancy car, the man has no interest in selling to her or in many cases these days, to anyone.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
They don't seem to understand that handing out free samples seriously damages the price of a commodity. Why would a man marry you (pay a very high price) to get what he wants when he only needs to buy you a few drinks (very low price) to get to what he wants?
Men have all sorts of failings and bad habits. But we're not irrational. One thing that men are good at is logic and reasoning.
Women:. why not try it? Just for a day?
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
My "free samples" example is this:
Imagine being the girl who hands out free samples from a candy box all day at Costco. Her job is to get somebody to buy the boxes. All day long she passes out free samples, and of course the good ones get picked first. At the end of the day when the store is about to close she realizes that she hasn't sold anything, so she grabs the next guy walking by and insists that he buy the box for full price, even though it's mostly empty and the candies left are the ones nobody likes, and even they have been poked and prodded. He walks away, and so does the next guy, and the next guy, and the guy after that. As the store closes and the lights go out she cries, 'Where Are All The Good Customers?"
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
That's a good analogy.
My original thinking, the reason I use the phrase 'free samples' is this: in their 20s, women try to get relationships by handing out free samples of themselves.
A one night stand is basically a free sample. Women think that guys will try this free sample and say : 'Wow - she is so great. I want to get into an LTR and then marry her, so that I can have what I had last night every night for the rest of my life".
But what they guy is thinking is: "Wow - that was great. I only had to buy her a few drinks and pretend to be interested in her star sign / listen to her nonsense and then I got to fuck her. This is fantastic. I could try a new free sample from a different girl every weekend".
All dating is a variation of this. Sometimes the women try to up the 'cost' of the free sample. They talk about 'serious dating' which means dinner, not drinks. But its the same principle. And this is quite a recent. Back in the day, you couldn't get women to give out free samples in exchange for drinks - which is why men got married really young. Marriage was the price for access to the pussy.
Then we had 'feminism' and women were allowed to do what they wanted, along with birth control. Now we don't need to marry a woman in order to bang her. You go to a bar as a young man, and its literally like a trade fare. There are hundreds of young women trying to give out free samples.
And they wonder why young men are not getting married in their 20s? It's because the cost of pussy has crashed due to the availability of free samples.
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woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 1y ago
Removed for rule 1 violation. You're making a good point but you've been around long enough to know better. Edit out the man-shaming language and I'll restore it.
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woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 1y ago
Fair point. I jumped the gun on that one. Serves me right for trying to mod when I'm barely conscious.
Mea culpa. Comment restored.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Usually using the man-shaming slur "simp" isn't going to go over well. I almost removed it myself, but you managed to keep it in a gray area.
saying something like "I can't believe how badly I simped for that woman" would be ok, as a) you're using it as a verb instead of a slur, and b) you're sharing your mistakes so others can learn from them.
Calling a dude a simp is a rule 1 violation, 99% of the time.
Context matters, of course.
CC: @woodsmoke
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
"the way they treat their beta bucks"
"the way they treat guys they aren't as into"
"the way they treat guys who pedestalize them just for being women"
"the way they treat nice guys"
"the way they treat men who don't induce overwhelming giney tingles"
"the way they treat men who fawn over them and display a lack of other options"
"the way they treat men for whom they feel they're settling"
Etc.
Lionsmane8 1y ago
We can hope. But their biology works against them. Their biology tells them to fuck Chad. Brad will always be there as a fallback when things go sour with Chad.
Jules 1y ago
If only there was a way to make sure the top 10%ers don't have harems and would commit to beautiful & empowered women like this one. A way to make sure women don't get pumped and dumped
We could brainstorm about that - maybe something like a mutual agreement or contract, where both sides agree on common goals and stay faithful, even if there might be hard times that can be weathered out eventually, making the bond even stronger? Just think of all the benefits that would bring, especially for the kids!
Why has nobody ever thought of something like that? I take that as final proof that the patriarchy is deeply misogynist, or else they would take care of that!!1one
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I can see that happening, I like this idea.
Nope, wait, the government would just get its dirty paws involved, co-opt it somehow, and then punish men for participating.
Lionsmane8 1y ago
Hah, I didn't detect the sarcasm until the very end.
maseboogie Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
All I read in her post was "FUCKING! FUCKING! FUCKING!" A reflection of what she brings to a man's life. Sweetie, you're providing your purpose to these men who are FAR above your caliber. Like KRS-One said about Roxanne Shanté on "The Bridge is Over,": She's only good for steady fuckin'.
chunky 1y ago
"Pussy's not all I want, unless that's all you got." - Patrice
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
Oh no! One of the sexes has options!
It's not fair that one of the sexes has unprecedented access to a dating market of hot people!
Oh wait. That's mostly women, even the average looking ones.
Sucks for you that top-tier men get to play the same script as you and most other women, hun
chunky 1y ago
This is the dating market that women created, and they don't like it. We could go back to the one that humans used for thousands of years, where daughters were set up by their families with husbands, and they'd be required to marry, often sight unseen. But I don't think she'd like that, either.
RedPill115 1y ago
The issue is that sexual instincts evolved in a tribal environment, our modern environment is so different womens instincts don't work well.
Women are always looking for an external force to push them the final step into things.
These are all gone, except #4.
Her instincts are trying to get nailed by Chad until it locks himdown with a baby. The next step is trying to control him so he doesn't leave. But with no social pressure and no baby it's not happening, no chad lockdown.
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I've seen this work well among homogenous/tight communities of people. It still works great when women are not given instant sexual access to thousands of men. Gotta keep them out of college too, detrimental for all women.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She just needs to be more selective! And maybe journal her efforts so she can track all the lessons learned. /s
The good news, sweaty, is that you are in the market, even if you do not like your current valuation. The bad news is that this is the highest you will ever get. And the downhill slide ends with a great splat at The Wall.
(I plan to have a popcorn stand off to the side of The Wall. I should be able to retire comfortably.)
DextroShade 1y ago
She and others like her would rather spend their prime years getting passed around by alphas and end up dying alone then marry a decent beta male and settle down. No successful society has ever operated this way.
aldabruzzo No busted Pillsbury biscuit cans 1y ago
Oh well.
I don't feel one bit sorry for you. You made your choice. Fucking deal with it.