Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Initial-Glove
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Initial-Glove Wahmyns 1y ago
OP really thought she was going to get sympathy and envy, which some commenters did provide, ofc. Most thought it was a troll and some even tried to hit her with reality. Bc she's a total idiot, she didnt get it.
OP is single in her 30s, has zero to offer yo a man but an ass and a spoiled brat child. Oh! And STEM!! All that is gonna land CHAD!
Still a worthwhile read for laughs.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Yeah if she wants to date up, she'd need to provide feminine value, not masculine. CEO Chad is not going risk frivorce and alimony for a fat (her measurements are COPE AS FUCK) old single mom that acts like a shitty off brand version of men.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It’s insane how they don’t understand this. Winners want a wife to come home to that will make them smile, not a ball buster that will constantly compete over everything.
Historically when I’ve tried to date “career” women, it went one of two ways. Either “I didn’t make enough”, or her feeling inadequate. And also, the inadequate feeling ones would often exaggerate how hard their job is, like I’m supposed to feel bad about being compensated well.
DextroShade 1y ago
I don't feel sorry for her at all as she's just another entitled bitchy black woman; however I do pity her child for having to be raised by her. She can either suck it up and accept the she is going to have to "settle" (in reality the man would be the one settling) or die alone.
Initial-Glove Wahmyns 1y ago
She'll die alone. She'll think its bc no one is gudenuf but doesn't realize water seeks it's own level
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Notice how she mentioned that she “doesn’t want to date someone making less than herself”?
Well, she’s in the Midwest. I’m not sure where, but I assume that if it were Chicago, she’d have said that. So let’s look at some various Midwestern states and what percent of people make $100k or more:
Ohio: 14% Michigan: 17% Indiana: 14% Illinois: 21% Wisconsin: 16%
So she wants something like a top 15% person who is also going to deal with her kids. And remember, this is just $100k+. For all intents and purposes, she may be seeking $150k+. How’s that look?
Ohio: 7% Michigan: 8% Indiana: 5% Illinois: 10% Wisconsin: 7%
You’d think someone who “is in STEM” would have the intellectual ability to see that these aren’t good numbers if you’re only open to people at that level or higher. Those men can have anyone. Why take a woman with a nice booty and a spoiled rotten child w/ baby daddy issues, when they can have a woman with a nice booty and none of the baby daddy drama?
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Last time I was single, I was 34 and gladly trying to hit up women who were like 20 on dating apps. Plenty of us around who go for the younger. Did she stop to think that
1) she didn’t notice because she wanted Tyrone Or 2) those men chose other women?
Yes, it’s true that age gaps don’t become too common until later on (I even asked my girl now, who is 28, if she would’ve dated me when I was 26 and she was 18, and she basically said no; funny how the slider for maximum age seems to go up 2 years for every year a woman ages). But they exist. And there’s plenty of men who do what guys like Marc Anthony and Dane Cook do, and go get a younger woman. While it doesn’t happen often, 1 in 100 kids in America are being born to dads who are 50+. Assuming that you want kids, you want to go with the youngest option available.
Let’s not even get into her horrendous single mom parenting. That kid is being raised to be an entitled brat.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
She was argumentative about demanding why the chad 30 something guy didn't grab her up at 19 rather than the player baby-daddy. The answer to that is women's equality which she embraced: Her high STEM income, along with white women who also claim to be "historically oppressed" made the successful black men that might want her rare. This is a problem for "successful" hypergamous white women as well in that they push men out of the workplace and then gripe there are few of them to snag.
No news to anyone here but worth pointing out more clearly than the logical commenter is that her high income to demand a higher income from a man isn't an asset, but rather just an additional demand. She is "independent" meaning that her higher income only means she's more bitchy and less grateful for his bringing it to the table (literally). She brags about easily paying to go out regularly to expensive restaurants and then demands men pay for them for her as an entitlement. She literally believes nothing to offer (other than an aging ass, literally) is an "offer".
To tell if someone is delusional watch how they respond to logic. A person who wants to genuinely change their life may be hurt by hearing harsh truths, but will at least consider the alternative point of view.
One (good) thing is that such entitled women tend to be delusional and, therefore (for me at least), easy to avoid getting trapped. Just a little red pill wisdom will cause these women, like a thief looking at your car with a club on the steering wheel, to move on to easier prey.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Absolutely. It’s quite hilarious that these women will take opportunities from men via government mandates, corporate diversity initiatives and ESG investor bribery, then complain that there’s not as many men at her “level” as she expected.
Well, the vast majority of people getting bachelors degrees right now are women. Soon, the corporate world will be majority women, as men Nope out in favor of blue collar trades or consulting (if you’re a good salesman, you can probably do quite well as an independent contractor and bill yourself at a high price).
But really, what motivated men to succeed in this world is women. Men pushed themselves in order to be a prospect for the best woman possible, so that their kid could have the best genetics and nurture possible. Men love nice homes and cars, but men can exist just fine in a tiny 600 square foot bachelor pad in a low CoL area and live like a minimalist. If all men have available to them is low quality women, or don’t have women available to them at all, they might just give up and live a bare minimum lifestyle. We will see more of this as more men say screw it, start working the bare minimum required to survive and living simple.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
One (minor) quibble about your reasoning, and this is so we don't sell ourselves short as men, is that the golden era of feminine entitlement was the 1950's when there were plenty of jobs for men to be providers for women to stay at home all day surrounded by labor-saving appliances and watch soap operas and drink and do quaaludes and gripe about how oppressed they were.
Before that, women didn't choose men as prospects based upon his work ethic but rather her FATHER did. It's highly unfair, but successful men received dowries from the father to take a daughter off of his hands and benefit the woman's family and poorer men might have to pay a "bride price". Women weren't "equally" entitled to the family pursestrings to demand he work hard to impress her although he had to guarantee basic support for her and his offspring, but he could require her AND THE KIDS to work and did. Google "child labor laws history".
Women worked in the fields alongside the men with something like 80% of employment being agricultural. They worked in the factories, as barmaids, or as maids. They "had their own money" which they were expected to hand over to the husband who was the "head of household."
This notion of men as sexual beggar and servant to his wife is a modern one based upon a romantic "chivalrous" ideal of knights "courting" "ladies". "Ladies" were daughters of noble families with land and the knights were warriors with political connections to the King because they served in combat. It's similar today to many (smart) upper class women who marry policemen because, hey, they might come in handy if there's legal issues with their father's businesses. Basically, Knights married for money, NOT the "ladies".
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I noticed a lot of guys tell fat chicks they like big asses in order to get laid...
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
God damn she kept getting force fed red pills
Initial-Glove Wahmyns 1y ago
Is there any other way to give them? Lol
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Ma'am,
No.
Regards, Men that you think you deserve.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She makes six figures!
For men, this means “great, I can be the primary breadwinner of the family, I have a lot of options in dating”
For women, this means “I don’t want no scrubs”. Like what’s the point of making all that money if you don’t want to be a breadwinner? The only men who will find her income attractive are men who can’t provide for a family. aka the “scrubs” (never mind that an honorable man making $50k a year would be grouped in there, based on her diatribe).
In fact, this is exactly why men don’t suffer nearly the same penalty for having children with another woman, as a woman does for having a child from another man. As long as the man still has resources after he provides for his current kid, he’s still attractive. It’s not an expense for a woman. Kids are an expense for a man, since women are looking for guys at their income level or higher.
All of her dating problems go away if she accepts being the masculine provider for a man who is trying to level up. But…she’s never going to accept that. Only the best for the queen.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Its been said before by better than myself, but you can't line up all the zeroes following the sixth-figure and fuck it, so it isn't worth much.
She reminds me of this quote:
"There are three classes of people: those who see, those who see when they are shown, those who do not see." -- Leonardo da Vinci
This bitch will NEVER see the truth.
Initial-Glove Wahmyns 1y ago
Right. The only guys who care about her income and job, which would take her away from wifely duties and homemaking, btw, would be bums looking for a free couch.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Basically a man trying to go from his childhood bedroom to her bedroom. Like what women used to do traditionally. If she wants to be the man, why not fully embrace it?
Initial-Glove Wahmyns 1y ago
She wants to be the breadwinner..
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Doesn’t seem it. She “can’t date a man making less than her”.
Initial-Glove Wahmyns 1y ago
And in the same exact breath enjoys spending hundreds on dinner alone..
Consistency. Gdam patriarchy!!
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Her income demands are already setting the expectation of alimony.
Nope.
redblow22 1y ago
The 3rd paragraph is the death knell. She admits, proudly it seems, that she never tells her child "no."
So, you have a 3 year old, turning 4, who's wants really run the show.
In what universe does telling potential suitors that they're complete failures as a parent a selling point?
Calling this gal "delusional" seems to me to be severely underestimating the Marianas Trench depths of a shitshow spending more than 5 minutes with this gal would be.
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