Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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hijoton 1y ago
Check her tatoo on the right hand. It isn't the same on all the pics. That means that the pictures she took are a timeline.
redblow22 1y ago
I picked up a date at her parents house when I was in high school. At 35? Gee, Wally, are you going to the malt shop?
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Saint Kevin said it best: "we need to start calling women losers."
A mental exercise that I do every time I meet a woman is I ask myself "if this were a man, would i think he's a fucking loser?" Case in point - I know a local bartender. Her stats:
If you swapped those pronouns from "she" to "he", what would you call this man? A fucking loser.
Try it sometime next time you're out in the world. It will open your eyes.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Nice list, and I agree -- its funny how far a skinny chick can push things because most women in the USA are fatties. But even the 'fit' ones can be losers too. I know this one chick that I see doing the rounds at the bar -- she surfaces after the last dude she's been with wises up and dumps her ass.
But there she is, again and again, hanging out with all kinds of trash as usual - because the female hive-mind says "get those skeevy gang banger dudes, forget the high earners". I say this because I've never talked to her in depth, but I'm very comfortable. I could lift her up and provide for her in a way that she'd never have to work again.
But she doesn't know this -- and she never will, because frankly to me, she's a horrible whore and I wouldn't expend an iota of effort to provide anything to her.
I bet there are plenty of men out there, at the store, bar, gym, wherever - and they would be willing to commit to someone who isn't trash, but they are surrounded by it.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Most women are, frankly, losers.
The problem is that we not only tolerate it, we subsidize it - we fail to hold them to the equality they claim they want and instead allow conditional helplessness.
Women, if they were held to the same social standard as men and treated as such, would have a terrible fucking time.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
A social hierarchy doesn’t even independently exist for women. Their entire hierarchy revolves around the men that they get to deal with. In high school, girls were popular because the starting outside linebacker on the football team would give her the pipe. As long as someone is going to validate her, she’ll never see herself as a “loser”.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Oh I'm aware that women are grossly incapable of forming actual functioning social hierarchies without them being centered on male attention and validation.
But men can, and we need to start treating loser women like we do loser men
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
That we do. It’s really not that hard to not give these women attention. But as long as there’s someone out there willing to invite them over for a spin, they’ll be validated.
Like the dating profile of this woman should simply read “hey, I’m a single mom of (however many), and I can have a temper. But I’m working on this and I’m looking for a guy that I can spoil. All I care about is that he treats me well”. With that kind of humility, she might actually have some luck. Instead, she’s actually making demands of how this man should be beyond some basic human decency. As long as she can still get porked, she’s “much better” than the “losers and Incels”.
Given her politics, I bet she has a lot to say about “incels” too. Because ignore the 99% of them who are simply sad, lonely men, just slander them all as a bunch of Eugene’s (as the YouTuber Birdman would say) that are candidates to go on a school shooting spree.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
No kidding. The rabid ideologies are tanking all kinds of potential relationships. I like women demure and sexy. I don't like screeching dyed-hair harridans. But look at what we're surrounded with now. Finding a 'normal' chick isn't impossible, but they're fucking rare as hell. And we aren't even talking about the level of 'feminaut' indoctrination yet!
I'll admit there are times when I look at older movies, yes, even black and white celluloid, and wonder what it would've been like to be in that era. That's how bad its become.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
You mean having a time where you could work a job when you were 18, and by 23 you could have a home that you could support and a wife that was loyal to you and wanted a family? Who would want something like that? /sarc
UpsideDB Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
We're going to see a lot of this. The single mothers my age are finding out that men have given up/are sick of their shit by 40. They're also going to have problems finding a job when the child support goes dry. Poor work history is one part, that's the part they can control. The other part is really stacked against them.
As the owners the companies I do work for retire they're not passing down the business to their kids anymore. They sell the IP to a publicly traded company and close the doors being multi-millionaires. The labor is then condensed into smaller groups in cheaper nations. The businesses I see getting hit the hardest are "henhouses". Places that are all women with poor to moderate typing skills and no computer skills pecking away at keyboards all day.
It's the least skilled of any unskilled labor. 10,000 monkeys on 10,000 typewriters type results. The pay is low, the gossip/drama is high (I once got a "HIGH IMPORTANCE" ticket that one woman didn't like the HVAC vent blowing so close to her).
It's going to be "interesting" how they confront a soon to be rocketing old women unemployment rate without helping men.
redblow22 1y ago
how they confront a soon to be rocketing old woman unemployment rate
Rampant homelessness is how they'll confront it. With minimal to no plan for retirement, when they're physically unable to work, unless their children take them in, well, it's a bleak future
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
You're describing my wife's next-older sister. Late 50s with no money, no savings, no passive income, no property, no husband, no marketable skills worth mentioning, and no plan to fix any of that. Her eldest daughter and her husband have long-since resigned themselves to the idea that they're going to have to support her. On the macro level... I'm not sure: society cares more about women's comfort than men's lives, so things will have to get really bad before we see large numbers of homeless women.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
The state will find a way to make men subsidize women and their terrible choices, just like it always has.
Soyciety can't exist with women suffering the consequences of their actions, so they shift those consequences to men.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
If there’s one major difference in the genders that I see in the world, it’s that men focus more on skills and women focus more on education. Hence why you see men in blue collar trades and hard skill white collar jobs, and tend to see more women in softer skill jobs. If you’re an engineer or a plumber and get derailed around age 55, it’s a setback. You can always go into work for yourself, take small jobs as a tradesman and consult as a white collar person. My best friend, his grandfather was consulting well into his 80’s.
Not an option when you’re like the people described, who are overwhelmingly women. No one is hiring a solo marketing professional on a consulting gig, they’ll hire an actual firm. It’s why recessions tend to be so bad on women; they aren’t actually involved in the production.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I'd probably pay her $30 for a good shagging. No strings attached. She kinda reminds me of this one time... in Russia...
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
Them Russian women are scary. They pick you up, throw you on the bed, and go, "Grrrrrr....TAKE IT LIKE A MAN!"
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I've had good experiences with Russian women
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Depends. The one I fucked was submissive and let me cum in her.
chunky 1y ago
She wants to be with a guy who wants to be with one person.
But she herself is not one person, she comes with extra people.
She's gonna have to bring more to the table.
Positive-Lifeguard80 1y ago
We don't look for a new mom, we already have one.
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
She's kinda cute. I'd shag her without a paper bag on her head.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
She checks most, but not all, of the boxes. No septum ring, normal hair color, and likes museums rather than the usual "foodie" who likes to "travel" on a man's dime.
That said, wow. I lol'd at this: She says she wants a man who wants to be, quote, "with one person" but she's a SINGLE MOTHER who LIVES WITH HER PARENTS. Whatever guy who doesn't want to be an incel and get some, er, easy action will have to put up with a LOT of people to get to it, but we see the bar for that is pretty low despite her beta male shit test.
She also posts her interests and given her naivety, should be easy to game. "I love wine tasting. Do you like that too?" She's desperate to get some alone time so saying you have some "fine" art at your bachelor pad stocked with BOTTLED wine should be all it takes.
Finally, about the dog: Yes, spinsters get mocked for having cats but cats are great. Low maintenance.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
Honestly, she might as well be flying a flag which says "I WANT A NEW APARTMENT"
Sure but after you get the second cat, it's basically over.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
We hear tales of spinsters with "cat houses" that smell like pee, and that can happen with multiple cats in particular. MORE than 2 is the danger zone, I think, in that it sometimes make sense to get 2 cats or 2 dogs (if someone is up for that) because they can be good companions for each other. My cat suffered from separation anxiety when I went on vacation even though I had a friend check up on him.
I know a single woman who got not just one HUGE dog, but two, for a tiny apartment and the dogs tore the apartment apart including the walls and carpets and she couldn't discipline them whatsoever. My suspicion is that the woman had no empathy for men so she didn't mind utilizing extortion to train the men to do her bidding but a dog? She couldn't stand to see the dog suffer from ordering it around or withholding food or affection.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Women with pets are a red flag.
They get pets because they can't get along with men and need control of something else that loves them unconditionally.
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Anybody else more concerned about “very left leaning” than the other two? Not that any of those pertinents are palatable. Either way, three strikes and you’re out.
I say this because I could maybe forgive someone for past indiscretions, granted they had taken steps to improve their situation. What I tend to find, especially in women, who are “very left leaning” is that they are waiting for someone (government, men, parents) to come and do the work for them or save them, but will also simultaneously blame them for feeling “oppressed”. That is completely and utterly opposed to any values that I have. I automatically screen out very left leaning people for this reason. I’m sure I miss a few people that are otherwise decent, but it’s a risk I’m willing to take.
That looks like brand new ink as well. Glad she is saving her money to better her life and the life of her spawn. Probably close to $2K of work there.
Don’t you dare judge her! Priorities and what not.
Responsibility is a tool of the Patriarchy!
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Nah I’m the same way. But really, any woman who is expecting a quality man to come in and deal with all of this, regardless of politics, is toxic. This is a concubine demanding wife treatment.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
If she were a virgin who lived at home waiting for the right man, this would be perfect but she's not. She is a tatted up fat single mom, which means she failed at numerous life check-boxes and now she's leeching off her parents because life is too hard.
Disgusting.
Edit: and a OF COURSE she wants a man who isn't going to judge her (i.e. have standards) because any man worth a shit would treat her like a pump and dump at best.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
Having encountered my share of far-left atheists I can say that her aversion to judgementalism goes entirely one way. People like her feel absolutely no reason to refrain from making judgments about people like me. (The fact that every one of those judgements will be wrong wouldn't faze her a bit, either.)
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
As an atheist, I don't understand people who make it their whole identity. For me, it's only a position on one question.
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 1y ago
I don't like the title. Because it gets into a what if scenario, instead of focusing on the bitch in question.
There's so much that's wrong with this bitch. You can have the title reflect that.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Let’s list off the red flags
hideous tattoo going all the way to her hand and raptor claws. If your nails make using a laptop keyboard difficult, then you are trashy looking. And the tattoo explains itself.
politics. One of the few things that annoy me more than a 35 year old woman dependent on the government or charity of others is that same woman with “political opinions”. Single moms make up one of the most reliable far left voting blocs in America now, and they cause all sorts of havoc as a result. But even if they’re right wing, mama bear types, do you really want the “wisdom” of these net negatives on society to guide us anywhere? She should shut up and listen to any guy who even remotely has his act together in order to learn, not demand that you acquiesce to her world views.
temper: don’t need much here, but basically she’s putting out ahead of time that she’s going to start stupid battles with you.
loyal / “monogamy”: you’ve already blown it on monogamy. A man raising another man’s kid is what can happen in polygamous societies. Also, any man you deal with, by definition, has to have his own place. You’re in no position to demand monogamy from a man, because he’d already be doing you a greater service than you can possibly repay. Remember that side chicks get the phallus while the wife gets the palace.
“420”. Seriously, you’re a 35 year old mother and you’re getting stoned? Do you not have errands to run and things to do with your kid or kids? And you live at home with your parents, where on earth are you getting money to smoke constantly? One joint a day can easily be $200+ a month.
This woman deserves her fate, which is being alone and fighting with her siblings when her parents pass away because they want to sell the house and are sick of her demanding to squat in it. At least until one of her kids is old enough for her to manipulate into supporting her.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
That rather suggests its own answer. Mom is free babysitter, dad supplies cash.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yeah, single moms who get their needs met by their own mom and dad are often times even worse than welfare queens. At least there’s only so many freebies that the government is willing to offer, and you often end up living in the worst neighborhoods. This girl, OTOH, never has to know struggle thanks to her parents.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
I've accepted her for who she is - a fucking loser and and absolute liability to get involved with.
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
She's not looking for a man, she's looking for a girlfriend.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
"That gets it"
That gets what? That fish-scale tattoos don't make you a real mermaid?
mallokrano 1y ago
I have a feeling that she would be completely disinterested in single fathers as well. A lot of women in her shoes for some reason hate the idea of Single Fathers even though they might be the only group of men who might be willing to put up with her (though they would be crazy for doing so). As most other men would want kids, which she is unwilling to provide. And considering she provides nothing else but being a leech, she isn't exactly providing much in return. The fact that she is a hardcore leftist likely means she has major mental health problems on top of all of the other red flags.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Back when I used to orbit, I was friends with a single mom (I know, oof). She began dating this single dad. The guy ended up dumping her; obv she wouldn’t tell me why, but he seemed quite frustrated at how out of control her daughter seemed to behave. So even though they were in the same position as single parents, they were totally different. He's out there working and trying to be a role model for his kid, while she’s playing girl time with her kid.
One thing Kevin samuels exposed is how not serious a lot of these single moms are. Not raising their kids to succeed at all.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Women hate single dads because we are, FOR SOME FUCKING REASON, responsible and put our children above everything else.
Women HATE knowing that they aren't the most important thing in our lives. They respect men who don't put them first, but their hamster hates it.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Single moms just had to exist to get primary custody. Single dads had to display that they are significantly better than the mom to get primary custody (and even that isn’t enough sometimes, even though it’s fun to hear when the judges clearly despise the woman in their courtroom).
It’s pretty evident by the numbers. The median income is like $50k for a single dad and $30k for a single mom. The best indicator that you’re growing up in poverty is that your household is led by a single mom.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
I just had an interesting thought: Maybe the reason why single women find single dads a turnoff is that her usual entitlement attitude towards men during courtship as vending machines is offset by having to show consideration for children? It's one thing to grift a normal guy out of free food and entertainment but to do so to a single father makes them look like a fairy tale wicked stepmother-in-training.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Some profiles scream mental issues. This one just cannonades it. There is nothing here for any man of self-respect or assets.
reignoferror00 1y ago
"a bit hot tempered and waiting for a man who gets it"
"it" being her hot temper directed his way; especially whenever he doesn't accept her for who she is "without need for control, alteration, or judgement". She's got enough of those qualities for both of you ... with plenty to spare
Oddly, other than the mention of being a single mother there isn't really anything she says about her kid. Not even a vague age range.