Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
This is what a life of hypergamous dating does to a woman. She has gotten used to 'dating' (being used) by men that are much more attractive than her. She has had 20+ years of updating. Which has warped her understanding of how attractive she actually is.
The truth is that men will down date furiously to get action. So men who are a 9 will go for 6's just to get sex. But then the 6's start to assume that they are 9s, because they end up judging themselves on the kind of 'partner' that they used to get (they weren't real partners, they were just looking for a few sex sessions, and then bounce).
These women don't know the rules of the game - when a woman is young, she can update quite a bit, if that's how she wants to spend her youth. But when she's old, then she is going to have to down date quite a bit, in order to get a mate.
We've got to be honest - most people are a 5. That is law of averages. 5 is half way between 10 and zero.
So its up to you ladies: if you are a 5, you can waste the best years of your life updating (banging 9s and 10s) and then waste so much time in 'situationships' that you're post wall. Now that you're post wall, you're only going to qualify for a 3 or lower (because you are a 5).
OR - you could spend your youth building a future with a man who is your equal - there is no reason why a 5 woman could not bag a 5 man, and create a union of equals that could lead to a happy life with kids, house etc.
But women don't want to settle for a man that is only the same rank as they are. That would be terrible.
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Somebody thinks highly of herself. She is obviously trying to bat way out of her league, regardless of what she claims. She has hit the wall and refuses to accept that most men, especially those with options, don’t want a self absorbed, entitled hag on the verge of menopause.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 1y ago
To be fair, she knows this...... but what's sickening is she is asking "how do I settle" rather than "how do I become more attractive so I can get what I want".
Oddest-One-Here 1y ago
Her best options are divorced men who cannot handle being single.
Initial-Glove Wahmyns 1y ago
I don't think she wants a real relationshit. She wants what she had at 20, guys chasing her and her being able to pick and choose.
She's not getting chosen anymore, regardless of how young she thinks she looks. If she were that hot, young guys would be banging down the door, but that's not the point. Now she's looking at 50 and she's in a plastic kiddie size pool with sparse options. She should have taken what was available back then but her ego wouldn't let her.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I set my age filter at a max of 28 because of the endless supply of leftover women with delusional expectations. So even if she found me attractive I'd never see her profile. If you want some great material for this sub just set your age range to 40+. I'm pretty sure most of the articles we see here are by single women age 40+.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yeah, in their 30’s, they usually don’t look so rough that a little makeup can’t fix it. So if they really want to, they can still find a decent man. It’s 40+ that women really start to realize that it’s all over.
Oddest-One-Here 1y ago
That's why women who regularly use dating apps will notice a wall of sorts as soon they turn 30 as the number of matches start to tank, not as low as what the average guy gets mind you, but far lower than she was getting at 29.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yeah and that's when they start complaining about the looks of the men.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
No surprise that she's striking out. I could have told her that, and I could have told her why.
Despite her words, her swiping habits show that she's only swiping on top-SMV Chad's. A 90% left-swipe rate can only mean that she's going for guys at the top of the pyramid. She's also going for guys who are too young for her.
Men her age who are in the top 10% of SMV (which is who she's choosing), have their filters set to screen out women her age. The algorithm doesn't care how young she thinks she looks: it just cares about the digits on her birth certificate.
Men willing to date a 42-year-old woman are men who don't have better options... precisely the men in that 90% group she's looking down upon.
Now add in the fact that she's in an eight-year on-again-off-again relationship, and she's really hurting her chances. It's time for her to either make it work with that guy or buy a dog.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
This is 100% the correct analysis. She is only interested in the top 10% of men, they are not interested in her.
I am willing to bet that it's her past that is holding her back - she thinks she is in the top 10% of women, because when she was in her 20s, she used to be able to score top 10% men. In truth, those top 10% men were down-dating.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago
The guy didn't go for commitment when she was 8 years younger, why would he do so now? She's just an easy lay who thinks she's marriage material - quite the unique condition, really.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
She's practice.
PoopBeast 1y ago
Remember back in the late nineties/early 2000s when everyone had this silly idea that women didn't really care about superficial things like looks and height, and all you would ever hear from anyone was "just be confident, bro"... I remember it feeling like this grand conspiracy that always kept me feeling gaslit; like I was the only one who could see something that was right in front of everyone's face...
Reading this just made me think that it's amazing how far we've come in understanding women since then...
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
The "confident" paradigm is that women want a "special", "magical" romance therefore the "chemistry". She's important, and special, and therefore deserves either a movie experience or a man that other women find attractive. She claims she doesn't want Brad Pitt but if she didn't know who Brad Pitt actually was, she'd probably rate him a 6. (This post is gold because she claims she doesn't rate men but yet... she just did.)
If any gender needs chemistry to perform in bed, it's men since we literally cannot physically perform without arousal. Think about it: If a woman says "I value you as a friend, not in that way", why can't she still have sex with him? If she wants him to drive her to the airport at 5AM, can he say "I see you as a friend, just not in that way?" Yes, it won't be "exciting" for her, but is petsitting, helping move furniture, and listening to friends' gripes about their problems exciting?
The irony of women's liberation may be that it has resulted in lowering women's overall libido where they have raised their standards and demands so high, they cannot enjoy normal sex. It's an argument I had with a woman friend of mine in that she didn't want to admit that all the hangups women have about sex means that they can't enjoy it fully.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
great comment - I think the irony of the womens liberation / modern feminism is that they have unwittingly turned themselves into whores. They say things like 'I know my worth' or 'I deserve this and that'. If you unpack what they are saying, they are saying that a woman is 'worth' something, simply by virtue of being female. It turned the concept of a woman into a commodity, and returned us to the stone age, where women would be bought and sold in the market place. Feminism is all about the commoditisation of women.
Women seem fine with being commoditised, if the price they get in exchange for themselves is high. The problem only occurs when their value declines.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
(Thanks!)
Actually, they aren't "fine" with it since they're in denial in order to avoid responsibility. They want to exploit their sexuality (in fact, most women now shame each other if they "give it away for free" or to a normal looking man) but they pretend that this is "traditional" behavior or as an entitlement. Our society shames women, and men for that matter, who engage in up-front sexual commerce but now almost requires it on the backend. For example: In American Gigilo, Richard Gere's character had to act like a husband coming home from work before having bedroom fun with his client.
Another aspect of commodification they hate is when women age and therefore have less value while men's value, which he has to earn (literally), doesn't. Women who become conventionally successful don't offer that to men hence they can't commodify it. I know a successful career woman who divorced her handsome husband because he couldn't keep up with her. Funny story: Just 2 weeks ago, my wife and I visited a post-Wall 55 y/o woman friend whose dating a 72 y/o man. He bought some party supplies for her at Costco and asked her to pay him back. My wife was enraged "How DARE he ask a woman to pay him back? She's giving him sex!" I laughed and she knows why I laughed.
reignoferror00 1y ago
Great comment - especially the "value you as a friend" paragraph. Another comparison, off the top of my head, would be someone that doesn't want to put in much effort at their job/career and is then upset that they aren't ever considered to be promoted. Most of us aren't excited to go to work but at least put in a half decent effort day to day.
The Brat Pitt as a 6 is spot on, especially because she is very likely getting interest from mostly truly average guys who of course she would rate as "2-3's"
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
For a laugh, google "Brad Pitt height".
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 1y ago
Her entire diatribe is about finding a man with whom she has sexual chemistry. And yet she claims that's not what she's looking for. Okay...
She says she doesn't want a man who looks old. Fine. There two groups of those men: men who are actually young, and older men who look young. The first group aren't looking to wife up a 40+ year old. Sure, if she's a sexy cougar that's giving no-strings-attached sex for very little effort, they'll bite, but they're not interested in an LTR with someone who'll be hitting menopause soon.
And as for the second group, older men who look younger: let's see. They look as good as a man 10 years younger, except they have 10 years more maturity, 10 years of career advancement, 10 years of savings, 10 years of establishing themselves in almost every way that women find attractive. They're even less likely to be interested in a 40-something woman when plenty of women 10,15, even 20 years younger than her are interested.
She may not be interested in older men, but plenty of younger women are, and that's her competition. What does she offer? She herself says she's not extraordinarily good looking, just happens to look young. That's it. Against her competition that's not much to offer the men she's after.
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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Not a lot to say that hasn’t already been said. What’s crazy is that this is from 2014 and she had been online dating “off and on” for 15 years; she started online dating in 1999? Must have been one of the OG Match.com users.
I mean you can’t tell someone to just like something that they don’t like. Example: if the only women left weighed 200 lbs or more, I probably wouldn’t want sex with any of them. Only real option that she has to get men that she’s attracted to is by being a sugar mama.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
The timestamp is because of a kink in the software (pocket) I used to capture the text. It is not as old as 2014.
fyi, @typo-magashiv
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
You could also find prospects through ICQ, AOL Instant Messenger, Yahoo! Messaging, hotornot.com, facethejury.com, Yahoo! Personals, and others (including gaming and message boards).
The internet had a lot more variety back then than younger folks realize. In many ways, it was actually better.
Oddest-One-Here 1y ago
The internet was a lot like the Wild West back in the 1990s, but during the 2000s, it was tamed.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Here's a possibility: maybe she's a lesbian in denial. She should go find some other women and start scissoring.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I really don't think so. I think she is an average woman. Average women, on average, think that they are entitled to an above average man. Which just doesn't work out. There aren't enough above average men to go around.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
I was goofing, just so ya know.
DextroShade 1y ago
You two choices: settle or die alone. It's really that simple. Keep in mind that the guy is also settling for your used-up 41 year-old ass.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Unlimited hypergamy is a ruthless bitch and so is she. She is going to get what she deserves.
reignoferror00 1y ago
I would have said her best shot would be trying some not bad looking average socially awkward guy with low self-confidence not too far out of a bad high school experience. Realistically a short-term relationship possibility. But although youth appears to be a big part of what she considers beauty, dollars to donuts I bet confidence would be to. Also doubt she would want to put the required effort and patience in to be in the role of a teacher.
This miniscule chance might become even smaller if even these men are a tiny bit wiser than I was at that age.
Nobody 30 and up, even ones that immediately meet her standards, would want to put up with her bullshit.
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
blah blah blah
You are old, used up, and will never be happy in a relationship because you have lost the ability to bond. Should have scooped up your ex while you had the chance. You will die alone.