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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
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Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 3y ago
I'm really puzzled why / how the article sees this as a 'beautiful' woman. She is very average, with bulging frog like eyes. Fake hair, smothered in make up, fake nails, fake everything. She's just average, lets be honest.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
She's pregnant at 46, that's impressive and doubly so for a woman who has never had a baby before, but my immediate question is, will she make it to term and will it be healthy, there is a reason why it is not recommended to put off having babies til you are well past your prime years.
Initial-Glove Wahmyns 3y ago
Regrets being a corporate ladder climbing bootlicking nun
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
Just what every child deserves. To be 16 years old and having your single mother already be SS eligible.
Also with all of the rambling of her being “beautiful” (and let’s be real, she’s better looking than most women her age), the best that she could do for a man was a guy who barely even remembered that she was there. If she weren’t so baby rabid that she elected to go make one all by herself, you know that she’d have dealt with it for at least months.
How long before this woman just hires a nanny so that she can go back to work?
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 3y ago
As soon as the instagram pictures are taken with the adorable outfits and pumpkin patch studio backgrounds. Once she's one-upped her frenemies (especially Becky that bitch/best friend from high school who never went to college but has a great husband and adorable kids that she keeps mentioning with so much pride in her facebook page), she'll drop her off with the nanny. Which is typically a couple months after birth.
Also, if she works for CNN international and indeed has to travel a lot, that means either she'll be paying for the nanny to travel with her, with no regard to how much it messes up a small baby to not have a stable sleep routine in a familiar room every night; or the baby will spend days with the live-in nanny while Momma is away on business.
Bottomline is that she has a schedule that would prevent most thoughtful people from even having a dog (some people with her schedule can't even keep plants alive). But that won't deter her from bringing a child into this world if that's what her narcissism demands.
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 3y ago
I bet she is angling to monetize the entire experience! She can use Instagram to talk about 'her journey' and the 'incredible miracle'. Babies are fantastic content! She'll be so much more relevant now, to her demographic.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
She’ll probably be like Taylor Lorenz’s family and just dump her off at boarding schools simply because she has the money. Or some sort of technique of throwing money at something to balance out her natural inability to do it.
The fact that she was married, and they didn’t have kids, tells me all I have to know about this one. She either kept putting it off until it became an issue for the guy, or he chose not to impregnate her.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 3y ago
Yep. Seems about right.
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 3y ago
This is female empowerment for you.
Just read the article, you'll feel the female empowerment oozing out from within her sorrow.
If we want to fix this issue, we need much more female empowerment, but in reverse. This will never happen under our current system.
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 3y ago
Yup - single moms are 'empowered' 'dynamic!' - doing it for themselves! Yeah! But boo to those single dads - those deadbeats.
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 3y ago
Imagine being married to this insufferable bitch.....
Imagine seeing her without all the lights, clothing and fakeup.
Just imagine for a moment.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
Oh look, another "divestor" that isn't getting the outcomes she thought she would get.
I'm pointing this out because black women who think that their results will change by dating white men are doing it because they have a faulty premise:
"My relationships with black men have failed because of black men."
So they try to date other men and - fucking shocker - they get the same results (hence this divorced leftover woman who then left another man because he wasn't moving at a pace she wanted). Their problem is that the correct premise is:
"My relationships with black men have failed because of me."
If they had this mentality, they would realize that their problems are easily fixable and, more importantly, it would expand their options exponentially.
But black women will never learn.
Initial-Glove Wahmyns 3y ago
I never thought of it this way. I always considered the interracial dating solely as "corporate climbing" and status, more so than just "I'm done with black man".
Welp. She doesn't see herself, her age, her desires, her attitude.. as the problem. And this kid will suffer behind it.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
Nah, there’s something with a lot of black women that make them bigoted towards the men of their own race. Just like how there’s white women who go chase black men. Obviously men will go for women out of their race as well, but that’s usually done as a preference and not some sort of weird self-loathing.
A great example of the black woman who hates black men is Malika Andrews. Go see how she talked to men like Stephen A Smith, and then jive that with the fact that she’s dating a white man 12 years older than her.
Like Kevin Samuels said, most black men are making it out here just fine (61% are in the middle class), but then these chicks chase rappers, athletes, and Pookie and blame those other men for all of their resulting problems.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
I call it the 20/60/20 problem:
Women expect all men to have the stats of the top 20%, fuck with the bottom 20%, and then say that the middle 60% aint shit.
I just stay toxic .
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
Generally when all of your relationships fail, you’re the only common denominator. The problem is, this woman has likely heard that she’s the greatest thing since sliced bread and that men would be “lucky” to have such a “beautiful and successful” woman.
She does have parents from Sierra Leone, and I have heard that women from that part of the world flock to white men. I’ll never understand the fascination with white skin in majority non white nations (the best example being Bollywood in India, where being white is damn near a requirement to succeed), but it exists.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
Personally, I have a rule about dating:
"Date the people who act like they want you in their lives."
I can't really stand behind an idea of being exclusive to an ethnicity (although I skew towards Latina and Native women) when the world is full of women who will treat me with respect. It's gimping yourself to only draw from one pool of prospective mates, especially when -statistically - that group isn't looking at your group.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
Yeah it’s such a simple rule, and it’s crazy that so many men don’t follow it. All just to have access to sex. If she acts like you aren’t important, then go find someone who sees you as vital.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
Pregnancy after age 45 years is infrequent and the mother and baby should be considered as a high risk. There is a greater incidence of spontaneous abortion, gestational trophoblastic disease and chromosomal abnormalities in the fetus.
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 3y ago
in the medical profession, a mother after 30 is considered a 'geriatric mother' - I'm not making this up. Because the risks are so much higher when you're past 30.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
When you care more about the status of being a mother than the health and well being of your child, this is how you behave
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
And the mainstream cheers you on. Nowhere in the article did they talk about how risky this is. Just about how empowered she is and how successful.
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 3y ago
thats because facts are sexist! Now go and sit on the naughty step, you sexist pig.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 3y ago
We don't know details outside of that she went the IVF route (obviously, since she doesn't have a babby daddy...) But she could have used a donor egg. In fact, I'm betting that's what she did. At 46, as you mention, the chance of having a normal egg, even with all the best IVF treatments available to rich people, is pretty low.
More likely, after trying once and getting nothing, she went with a donor egg and donor sperm. At that point, given the lack of any genetic tie, it raises the question, why not just adopt some poor orphan who needs a parent?
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
It says she went the sperm donor route, which would be the cheapest option and use her eggs. I think the idea that women run out of eggs is overblown but they can be damaged. The risk also comes from ageing of the uterus and all of the systems that support a pregnancy.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
She's hoping that she will feel more like a real mother if it came out of her body.
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 3y ago
Yes, but also, if she does the pregnancy, she'll be able to 'document her incredible journey' on social media. I'm expecting lots of blog posts and pictures so that her followers can cheer her on.