Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
Link Flair:
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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kevin32 Ambassador for NiceGuys™ 1y ago
Stats of contestants on the show.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago
There are days when I hate my job... And yet I never had to compile information about The Bachelor/The Bachelorette. I shouldn't complain too much.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
...and those women are still garbage!
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Confession that I watched this show, but I noticed that the quality level of the women went down over the course of 20 years. Back in early Y2K, the women were mostly ordinary, but clean: Single women, some with careers others just normal, and like warm puppies for the alpha male with a few psychos thrown in (perhaps made that way by editing.)
About 10 years ago, they started throwing in single mothers as The Bachelorette and contestants. Nice looking ones, ("Emily") but still, quality control was switching.
Then tatted up single mothers in the contestant pool and the Bachelorette show. Absolute awful stuff we see on profiles here. And the wokeness went up to 11. The host, Chris Harrison, was fired by the show for simply stating a female contestant thrown out for a PC incorrect move should be able to state her case. Cancel cultured after 20 years simply for wanting to see both sides. (He walked away with millions in the settlement though.)
In some ways, it's a neat mirror of the society that it influences. It's been copied overseas in other countries.
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UpsideDB Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Imagine the person that's at a bar at last call who desperately wants to go home with someone but kept making shots they couldn't land all night long. They look around at the people still there at 2am and think to themselves "Uhg, this is who I'm left to choose from?" while not ever looking in the mirror to see they're in the same damn position as everyone else still there.
That's a leftover. The type that say "People my age don't want serious commitments" after going their whole life brushing off any chance at a serious commitment. The hypocrites. The ones oblivious to their own actions. The ones who blame the other single people their age for their own singleness. They're the leftovers.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Kevin (and I think aldabruzzo) did a great writeup about what it means over on that other platform.
Go to the subreddit and check out the "about" for the leftovers flair.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It's a term coined by the Chinese to describe an unmarried woman in her late 20s. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sheng_nu
DextroShade 1y ago
It isn't about race, it's about culture. Men who go overseas to get a bride typically go to places that have more traditional, patriarchal values, places like Asia, Eastern Europe, the Middle East, South America, and Africa. These societies still shame female promiscuity and women who aren't married by a certain age while valuing the family unit. Women from these societies are a safer bet for marriage and child-rearing than the typical Western feminist harpies who tend to have high body counts, bad habits, and bastard children.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
And they're not fat.
MentORPHEUS TRP Endorsed 1y ago
Be careful buying into some generalized Asian Women mystique. My career and location have given me the chance to make decadal observations of couples where the man married an Asian women. Many were overseas military brides, others esp more recently were born and raised here. A few common archetypes emerge over many examples, and these are couples that have been together in the US for at least 20 years now.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Dude, my Asian wife has been in the US for 11 years and still can't drive. Fortunately I educated her about feminist lies so she never became Westernized.
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It's also common wisdom in RP land to not take a potential bride out of such a community if you happen to find one. They'll quickly adopt the norms and culture of the women they hang out with.
Most hilariously captured in Eddie Murphy's routine:
https://youtu.be/ts4sEBb2K3s
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
I'll share my story in that regard: My aunt whose what I would call a traditional, chivalrous feminist (not a blue haired one, but an entitlement queen) from the 1950's told my mother that my wife was a "green card whore" and mocked her. This includes even to this day despite me being with her for 20 years, married for 18. All three of her sons who married "proper" American career women are divorced, one remarried a younger, more traditional foreign-born woman.
When my wife came to the country, she says she experienced severe social isolation by the American women. "I open my mouth, they hear my accent, and they treat me badly." Well, that also meant they didn't indoctrinate and assimilate her into their ways. Nearly all of our friends are either English-as-a-second language or Americans who lean towards international thinking which suits me just fine for obvious reasons.
Funny story to give you an idea of what we deal with: My wife worked as a daytime nanny when she first came to the states and was looking after a child at a playground and chatting with an American woman. My wife lost track of where the boy was for a few minutes because he switched his hat with another child and my wife didn't know where he was. So she went around and looked for him for 10 minutes, found him, and all was well. The American woman snitched on her to the boss and she was fired. "How dare you lose my child for 10 minutes?!?!"
My wife is therefore quite sympathetic to my stories about American women having experienced them firsthand.
That being said, I think there is some inertia to a person's personality. Yes, it's possible to drag a person down into the muck despite good upbringing, but it helps. The American women hope that they can assimilate anyone, but this isn't the 1980's anymore when "American number 1" but rather a culture going through as severe an existential crisis as the USSR did back in 1980. Slavs tell me the temptations of consumerist culture are powerful: easy credit, TV showing off everything you can buy NOW, and so on. So it's doable but just something to keep a good eye on.
My 2 kopeki.
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Those women ostracizing her was actually a huge blessing for your marriage. Women can't stand the vacuum of "no pack" so they find one more to their liking or put up with a bad one and stay on the fringe, hoping for scraps from the more popular wolves. They will endure a lot of abuse just to be at the bottom of the ladder.
Being a Christian means I have (theoretically) easy access to a pack of good women for my wife to run in, but in practice it's not that easy. I've still had to be really selective in who I allow my wife to spend time with. You may think that's controlling, but it's not. I am just aware of the reality that my wife will become who her friends are, so I only want her hanging out with women who I want her to become. Easy, and I'm totally happy with the results.
She now trains other women to be good wives, but even then I'm selective in who is worthy of her time and teaching. Pearls to swine and all that.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
You can do it but you have to teach them about feminist lies.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
I ask a simple question: Why would a winner want a loser?
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Al_Walter_Chadwick 1y ago
It's not even about what the tattoo depicts, but the very fact of its existence in the first place. Tells you this is a person who doesn't think ahead much, and instead let impulses control them.
I've started seeing 50+ women with some really God awful faded and "bloated" (pigment spreading out) tattoos that may have been really "rad" back when they were in their early 20s. Now, on these 50+ women, it's a very trashy look.
Only reason they never got around to have them removed is that by the time they were in their early 30s, those starting to fade and bloat "rad" tats already had started disqualifying them from friendships with the more savvy and future oriented women, and from relationships and marriage with the more successful and desirable of men.
Leaving them to pick their friends and partners off the reject pile of polite society, where your choices are often limited to the more flawed and/or trashy side of society. In such circles, those ugly tats are much less of an impediment to relationships - romantic, professional or otherwise - but leave you cut off from the kind of networking needed to score interviews to the most desirable jobs, so you'll never have the opportunity to be told how much of an impediment having those tats are going to be to getting such jobs.
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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
The more deceptive ones will get the stamps on an easier to hide spot like in the upper pelvic/hip area, and then put on an innocent and demur act while they have clothes on.
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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
As usual, they want the excitement of the behavior and not the repercussions of it, and everything said is just powertalk to achieve that goal.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Women lie.
They are trying to avoid the social consequences of their slut banners.
goodmansaysfuckyou Big Dick Energy Misogynist 1y ago
@kevin32 You can lead a horse to water...
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I don't see any fat, short blue haired Karens in there.
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
Wait a minute....there are no Asian chicks in that picture! What a racist, non-inclusive shit show!