Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Typo-MAGAshiv
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago Stickied
With all the new people arriving these past few months, we're going to start reposting some previously posted material.
Here is the comment thread from last time for those of you who are interested.
Now if someone who isn't suspended from that other platform could crosspost this, I'd appreciate it. (Tag @moorekom, @goodmansaysfuckyou, @Kevin32)
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
Done. You want it locked?
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
I'm indifferent
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 1y ago
The first question to ask it how long is the period of time between meeting these men and having sex with them? A woman who wants a serious relationship should not be quick to jump into bed with a man, and most likely her particular timeframe must be quite low, given that they never make any relationship official. She fails at her role to gatekeep sex, and these men clearly are ready to exploit that.
I understand that there is a meta game shift in dating where sex is expected much sooner than the traditional model, and this is a clear case of that working against her favor. She is almost in a Catch-22 with these rules. I say almost, as another big issue is the her selection criteria. Clearly, the guys who are able to get sex from her are in the upper percentages of attractiveness, as the less attractive men are those that she herself cuts off from being in a relationship with. The men who are more attractive have options, and they do not see her as a good prospect. If she shifts her standards, she could have better success. Though she also has the fact that her threshold for waiting for sex is already low, and trying to raise that after she has already made it clear she is easy to convince to have sex early just puts her in an actual Catch-22 of making other men wait when she is not truly the type of woman who has real restraint.
Also, being divorced is a mark against her, given it shows she was not able to stick with that marriage. Any man aware of that will be less likely to want to commit as a result.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
The problem isn't how fast a woman chooses to have sex. It's the type of men she's choosing to have the sex with.
Woman are all too happy to get barebacked on Chad's mattress on the first date then think that the problem is the fast sex instead of the men they're choosing to have it with. They will then use that failure to in discernment to justify making a good man hold out.
Unfortunately for them, good men are putting their feet down and saying "no sex for me? I'm out." because we know full damn well that if a woman is into us, a 6-pack of bud light and a dim alley is all it would take to get her panties off. We are no longer doing the courtship dance for women who freely gave more of themselves to lesser men for nothing more than a beer and a crude flirtatious ass-grab.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
No shit, Carousel Carol
Also:
Zero humility in her self-reflection of the last three years. Not one thing she can think of that she's doing that is turning off men. Not one thing. It's all the guys she dates. Astounding.
UpsideDB Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She has to admit that she is the problem and ask men what that problem is. But unfortunately if she did that she'd get answers she didn't like with solutions that would take work. Rather than do anything about it she and her echo box would call all the men who gave helpful feedback "incels" and continue doing exactly what she did before that obviously isn't working.
It's exhausting to watch them put their hand on the burner over and over and acting just as shocked every time they get burned. "No no honey, it's not you, it's the stove's fault! You're allowed to want hot burners, don't settle!"
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
This is hands down the meme where the person puts a stick in the moving spoke of their bicycle and says "why are men I date son problematic!" As she holds her injured knee
It's exhausting to watch this but also righteously entertaining to see the results of their actions impact them
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago
She wonders if she's the problem, but all she can see herself being is "smart, witty, beautiful, independent, in good shape and incredibly empathetic". And it took her 3 years to convince herself of that. Call me a pessimist, but I'm guessing there's more to her than being "witty".
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
"incredibly empathetic"
Yeah, empathetic enough to lead guys on without any shame at all on apps in which swiping on each other heavily implies mutual attraction
I'd go a step further and say it took 3 years to gaslight herself about it. Imagine how many things she's doing wrong that it took a solid three years for her to suppress her realization that she's the problem
Oddest-One-Here 1y ago
"Incredibly empathetic" = "I can read your emotional state and use that to exploit you".
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
Womanese is really something else
DextroShade 1y ago
I would like to see her answer these questions:
Height?
Weight?
Dress size?
Age?
Also, this bitch literally admits to going on dates with dudes she isn't attracted to and then friendzones them aka foodie calls. The guys she does smash don't stay around meaning she is likely insufferable. She knows she is the problem but her fragile female ego can't let her admit it.
Oddest-One-Here 1y ago
Instead of dress size, I rather know her three sizes, bust, waist and hips, ideally measured in inches, that gives you a better indication of her shape.
Her waist size should be the smallest of the three and if her waist size is larger than 85% of either her bust or hips, she is fat.
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Oddest-One-Here 1y ago
Anyone who brags on how amazing she is will certainly be a pain in the ass to deal with, but the other just as likely reason why Chad smashes and dashes is that he was simply dumpster-diving for some easy bedroom action.
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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Imagine trying to breast feed with nipple ring holes...
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Durek_The_Bald 1y ago
"I'm empathetic"
Sure, that may very well be. Wouldn't automatically distrust it.
"I'm incredibly empathetic"
Ring, ring, ring! Major narcissism alert.
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
How empathetic can you really be when she has dated several guys who she “isn’t physically attracted to” who end up in her friendzone. Somebody who is actually empathetic would put two and two together and stop playing with the feelings of others she knows ahead of time won’t meet her inflated criteria.
Then again, my experience tells me that when women speak about empathy they are wanting other people to be empathetic towards them, not the other way around. Solipsism at its finest.
Oddest-One-Here 1y ago
All being empathetic means is that she can read someone's emotions, it doesn't automatically to her being a genuine caring person.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I stand by the position that women do not have empathy, as evidenced by the way they treat everyone that doesn't provide them benefit.
adam-l TRP Endorsed 1y ago
They do, but it's the psychopath's empathy.
TriumphoftheSwill 1y ago
Why the FUCK would anyone date an old woman? I understand you want to fuck and you might actually get in a relationship with them, but date? Like fucking go out, pick her up, pay for dinner, listen to her bullshit and woo her like she's something to be earned? That's like working eighty hour weeks to afford a used 1983 Honda.
Why do women think men have to pursue them no matter how old, fat, saggy, screeching, bitchy, neurotic, smelly and combative they get? Ladies, 'dating' stops sometime in your mid twenties. Be happy with what you get after that.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
In answer to that question, it's the middle-aged/actor paradigm in that when someone has made it in life, such as a celebrity actor when he's 19 or a guy when he's 35 or so and has a good job, we tend to freeze there in our mental viewpoint of the world around us. We've "made it" and while we may try to improve ourselves such as getting into shape, our worldview is set when we feel that we've got "things figured out." So that's why someone such as Tom Cruise can act like an impulsive 19 year old: Because he had made it at that age.
I'm in my mid-50's and I "feel" 30 something. Yeah, I sometimes have to worry about blowing out my back but nonetheless, my "mental" state is still there. I perhaps will have a reset coming up when I reach retirement age.
Women believe, from a young age, that they're ENTITLED to men treating them like princesses and they justify this by defining "real" men, or masculine men, as serving their definition of him. It's like men believing that women exist to cook and clean up after us. We'd get laughed out of this expectation because of the strong culture discouraging such an entitlement, but women are encouraged to think this way and it's burned into their mindset.
One reason why women should get married young is that it freezes their image into the brain of the man they marry. Just as she sees herself in the mirror as a 23 year old version of herself just with a few more wrinkles, I see my wife as she was on her wedding day, but just with a few more bumps here and there. It's like when you look at a picture and need to see a word mixed up in a jumbled photo and you pick it out because you're looking for it. Once you have this mental image, it persists.
So it's kind of funny, really, that when a 50 something guy gets dressed for a date he may have a potbelly and gray hair but he sees a 35 year old version of himself sort of done up (badly) for Halloween. He does his best to fix his costume and goes out on the date seeing himself as a 50 year old version of that 35 year old.
And the woman does the same: She thinks she's 23 but just with some baggage at 40. So the solipsism kicks in when she says (mentally) "Oh my God! There's this homely 50 something thinking he can date me, a slightly aged 23 year old!"
But then again, on the other side of the table, the 50 something guy sees a 40 something old woman and he's not impressed either but he never had an entitlement attitude to drag around from his 20's.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Not me but maybe that's a feature of autism: seeing things as they really are. I'm realistic enough to know that a woman getting with me at 50 and she's 20yrs younger is basically a retired hoe that got kicked off the CC or a myriad of other problems.
chunky 1y ago
And this really goes to when a woman is most marriage-worthy. Of all women in stable, long-term marriages that have lasted more then 20 years, 85% were married before 24. 50%, before 22. (Source: 2010 US Census)
Women over this age are a bad bet on building long-term success with.
Which makes sense. Young couples, still struggling to create careers, acquire educations, and build lives, share that struggle. And it is shared struggle that builds the strongest bonds. Don't take the woman who waits for the winner at the finish line. Take the one who will run with you.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
If a woman waits at the finish line to be claimed like a prize for winning, it's perfectly acceptable to group her into the same category as the other stuff that comes with success.
TheRedPike TRP Mod 1y ago
So... she leads on some uggo guys just to prop herself up. What a cunt
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
That kinda made me sad, ngl. For a "strong & independent" feminist to actually ask men what they think... that's some kind of humility there. It indicates severe loneliness and depression. She cries every night despite the claims of a "happy and fulfilled" life.
Not that she really wants a "level answer". No, she wants attention and validation. But just for fun, here's your level answer:
Take a LONG break from dating, lady. You will die alone. You missed your purpose in life, ruined your own marriage, and your fate is wine and cats. You will be a bitter, miserable old spinster with no one to help you.
Honestly I don't wish this on you, but that's your fate, and it's all your fault.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
I'd like to give the women useful advice (even if they refuse to take it) including something I believe could work.
Modern women's liberation meant that women didn't have to do anything for men (as we're often reminded how they don't "owe" us anything including basic courtesy and respect) and if we make a mistake, well, LOOK OUT! because they'll be offended in a heartbeat.
Instead, for a relationship to work, she needs to appreciate the value and virtues of doing something for someone else and enjoying that by itself. Helping an old person across the street and nobody knowing about it because you did something good for a good person. It's a different endorphin high than winning an award or going to an expensive restaurant, but there's value to it.
She says she tried "dating" men she wasn't attracted to (dinner dates) but she should try sleeping with them, cooking them dinner, cleaning his home, and being feminine and kind for a few months. Naturally she shouldn't do this for a total loser or a guy who becomes abusive, but that was the formula for beta male households for thousands of years and women were HAPP(IER) back then. They found some measure of contentment in being a provider in their own way rather than just being a consumer.
Intrepid_Place53900 1y ago
(I'd like to give women useful advice)
I'm in the USA, old like you. I'd like to also, but of course keep my mouth shut because of the crazy Karens'.
I agree with your concepts, she need to appreciate the value, etc. But this woman is beyond help, she greatly over estimates her self worth, she believes she deserves much more and she's used to having sex with men much above her and much much above a guy who'd actually commit to her.
She will likely end up with a guy with much more money than her and same SMV, but she'll be repulsed by him and give him a dead beadroom. The basic (she settled) syndrome.
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yes, as I've read happiness is the one thing you will never find if you go looking for it. Or another way to put it, "It is more blessed to give than to receive".
That's why I was saddened by this woman's rant. She cannot understand. She's asking for male advice, but literally doesn't have the ears to hear it. It's a hopeless situation and any good advice she actually gets will be like throwing pearls to swine.
OTOH, my wife makes it her daily goal to serve/obey God and her husband, in that order, and she is truly happy, a thankful woman. Contrasting her with this other woman is just laughable, like comparing a block of gold to a piece of shit.
maseboogie Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
If I'm reading that little pink marker at the top of her post correctly, she's 38. Hahaha....oh Carol:
The "smart" and "witty" let's me know she's a Thinks-she-knows-it-all who is quick to "correct" you with her overly-opinionated banter nobody asked for (comes standard on single women 35+).
As the young folks say: STOP THE CAP! You wouldn't be slumming in the OLD world if that were the case.
And how many women like her know this to be true yet they keep their blinders on saying "That ain't me?": You're an entitled, pompous, far past your prime divorcée who's near 40. The type of man you want is not trying to (re)wife up your masculine energy, empty egg carton having ass. That ship has sailed and the ship you were on previously (married), you ran into an iceberg.
reignoferror00 1y ago
Sounds like you've spent 3 years picking and choosing online validation to patch yourself up in an effort to inflate your ego. Don't think that will hold air for to long, the patches won't hold - reality does eventually creep in.
"Edited with more details" - not much in the way of details ; just a lot of word salad. For someone who has "learned oh so many lessons in dating and life", try naming just one where you made a mistake you took responsibility for.
This reminds me too much of my municipal government in the past. Contract out study after study until you get one with the answers that your want. She's going to reject anything that involves her being even slightly wrong, delusional or defective in favour of "you go girl!" advice. Of course, couldn't have made wrong decisions because perfect YOU is the one who made them. At your age you aren't aware of any of your personality/character flaws?
Instead of 3 years of convincing yourself you're not the problem (if it takes THAT long, doesn't that tell you anything at all???), how about some of that time used in some brutally honest self refection. I know, I know, crazy talk. Or even just listening to and considering someone besides those that are obviously blowing smoke up your ass.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
Sounds like womanese for, "I was getting shat on in the comments so I had to sprinkle sympathy-bait into my post to look more like a victim"
That's why it's word salad, because in between looking like a duplicitous ho, she needs to look like she's the one who's being wronged or confused. It's almost or is likely purposefully written that way to obscure the more damning aspects of her post with victim cards
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
They learn a little about her, and her value drops from “potential long term relationship” to “short term hole to fill up”.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She should have had the kids while she had the husband.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It's funny how all these women are now asking men for advice after failing abhorrently with the advice of women. It's really been coming in lately. Like "Guys, what wrong with me?". Bitch you had a husband and got divorced. You're 38 now and them eggs are almost gone. You're friend-zoning guys. Of course men don't see anything long term with you. You're a booty call at best now.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 1y ago
Thing is, I'm sure she got frank advice from a few women (her mom, or grandmother, maybe a good friend or two), but chose to listen to all the rest of the women who just told her "you go gurl!"
And that's what will happen here. As I've gotten older, I've stopped giving advice, especially to women. A woman at 38 is already set in her ways. She will not change. Change at this stage requires hitting rock bottom akin to an alcoholic who needs to end up homeless on the streets to finally stop drinking.
Couple that with feminist bullshit about "mansplaining" and everything that seeks to deny that men have any insight into a woman's life or any right to share that insight, and at this point, it's easier and safer to just shrug and say "Gosh, you're a great woman, I have no idea why you're single" and then get on with your life. Which is what most guys seem to be doing, judging by what these women say in their posts.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yeah but what is rock bottom? My mom's in her 70s and still hasn't hit bottom.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 1y ago
Guy has sex with her and then tells her he doesn't see a future with her. She has a meal with a guy and then tells her she doesn't see a future with him. But of course, it's only guys who "act" like they want something serious. It can never be that a guy does want something serious, tried his best to see if that was there with her, then ends thing when it's not working. Meanwhile, her intentions should always be seen as sincere, even though from the guy's perspective, it's the same deal: she wasted his time and money getting a free meal and then tells him she's not attracted to him.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Isn’t it funny that they’ll complain about being used? Then go ahead and use men. Difference is, I’m sure a lot of the men who got some good O’s came in with good intentions, then cut out when it wasn’t worth pursuing for them. She openly dated men that weren’t viable prospects and in her mind.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Not to mention, sex is mutual enjoyment.
Unless they went Dutch, paying for meals isn't mutual.