Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
MelkorHimself
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Pic889 1y ago
I should be doing better things with my time, but here we go: https://imgur.com/a/QnGcEE6
Inspired from the following post on Reddit (this was too good to stay in Reddit): https://www.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/vf5nri/comment/icv89k5/
DextroShade 1y ago
That is a rough 31, plus it's obvious that she is overweight and thus fails the fitness test. Ladies, it's really simple what men want:
Fit
Feminine
Childless
Cooperative
Low body count
I'd a woman can manage these she can get a good man, but the very idea that men might just have standards is offensive to them because so many of them know, deep down inside, that they fall short.
MelkorHimself Mod 1y ago
I saved this one for today because it doesn't explicitly show her complaining about jerks or a-holes, but what we can deduce is that this woman charges way too high of a price for what she offers. One of the most glaring aspects of this profile is the fact she uploaded a single photo. If you can't find six photos of yourself and won't bother to take more, that screams laziness. It doesn't help that the one pic she uploaded indicates she appears much older than her stated age. Here we have a woman talking about what she allegedly deserves when all she brings to the table is a haggard appearance and another man's child. She listed herself as a conservative Christian, so presumably she wants a man with similar political and religious views. Men in general don't want to be stepfathers and an ATM, and conservative Christian men in particular do not want to seriously date, let alone marry, single mothers. This woman's tone screams entitlement coupled with a blatant lack of self awareness.
Tell me you want to die alone without actually telling me you want to die alone.
MentORPHEUS TRP Endorsed 1y ago
I think it's because of all the time and effort it takes her to put on "normal people" makeup. She's usually in character on Broadway, typecast into her role because her face is actually cracked like that IRL.
kevin32 Ambassador for NiceGuys™ 1y ago
Thanks for considering but she doesn't have to only complain about jerks to fit the theme, it's only 1 of the elements we allow. The stuff you highlighted in the profile fits other elements of rule 5 and is a combination of Bailout and Entitlement Princess, and therefore fits the theme for weekday posting.
Shitpost Saturday is mainly for women being trashy, rude or unreasonable while not necessarily seeking commitment or needing a bailout. Examples can be found on our announcement thread.
@moorekom, @Typo-MAGAshiv, @goodmansaysfuckyou
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 1y ago
I'll add my agreement to this human centipede of agreement
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
yes! FEED HER!
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 1y ago
Do you know what a human centipede is?
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Of course! That was a direct quote from the movie. The mad "scientist" yells that line when the Japanese dude who was the first segment could no longer hold in his shit.
Terrible movie, 0/10, do not recommend.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Agreed. This is a great find.
More to follow; at work.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
Agreed. This fits entitlement princess very well.
@MelkorHimself
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
I'll occur with what @kevin32 wrote and add to it. She wrote, "I deserve a man who can be caring, loyal, passionate, and patient.." as something she "learned way later than (she) should have."
Given the fact that she has a bastard child by a man she's no longer with, the obvious inference is that he (and perhaps the other men she's chosen) were uncaring, disloyal, indifferent, and impatient in her estimation. In other words, she chose men like that in the past, and now that she's in her 30s with another mouth to feed she wants to switch from jerks to a good man.
She didn't directly complain about jerks, but her indirect complaints are as plain as day.
UpsideDB Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I usually assume that the guy she was dating was caring, loyal, passionate, and patient, then the woman got tired of him and/or she burned him out. Those are all two way streets. When she was no longer caring, loyal, passionate and patient with him he started down the road of apathy because men need love too. She went into take take take mode but never gave anything back. That will break any guy eventually.
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
All these lists and requirements are usually them indirectly revealing what they went for in the past
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I always wonder what the breaking point is for all of those toxic traits that they claim to hate. But really, I just assume that the man left her, and that she’d go back to the kind of men that left her a single mom in a heartbeat.
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Probably varies . One of the things is likely to be hitting 29/30 and freaking out
I was shocked to read a story on the front page of the bbc about a 34 year old who had frozen her eggs “due to the pandemic”. But it seemed she had done it this year not at the start. Spent her savings on it as well. The usual “want to focus on her career” line
She was pretty as well. She would have had legions of men wanting to give her whatever she wanted at 24.
Of course it never goes into what she was doing pre pandemic because it isn’t relevant to the story. It was still quite a sad state of affairs. I’d put money on all that money being completely wasted. Either she will never use them or will try and 40 and it won’t work
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
I suppose the logic of women freezing their eggs at 34 is to try to buy a few more years to try to search for "the one" because they realize that the clock is striking midnight. So, in her mind, if she starts dating seriously immediately (rather than CC or being a Corporate Nun) and in the next 2 years meets an "acceptable" man, and they date for a year, he proposes, marries a year later, and they try to have kids after a honeymoon she'll be, say, 37 or so? This way, she's doing this with 34 year old eggs instead of 37. Sort of like trying to squeeze the last toothpaste out of the tube.
Side observation: Have you ever noticed that the "last bit of toothpaste" sometimes lasts for weeks? :-)
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
The odds aren’t great though. And in the article she said she did it to “take the pressure off”. Which really doesn’t sound like what you said at all. So not going out immediately and dating with intent . It sounded like she still wanted to focus on her career - I guess because these women (still) think that will help them get the man
The gamble must be that the tech to get them implanted improves the success rate over the next 5 years. And there probably is loads of vested interest in researching this as it allows the global economy to squeeze as much as they can from their female wage slaves
A niggle is that if I met someone, especially a 35-36 year old who would have an extensive past and presumably loads of baggage, I’d want to date them for substantially more than one year before kids became a factor
But I guess that doesn’t apply to the average blue piller
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Apparently a 35 year old woman freezing 10 eggs has a 30% success rate. Hope that career is worth it.
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
And it sounded like the cost just to freeze is like £10k
I presume that doesn’t include the cost to try and implant them
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yeah I’ve no idea if there’s hidden costs. But from what I’ve noticed, women don’t even realize how “old” an age like 34 is. They bought the propaganda of spending their 20’s in perpetual adolescence, thinking that they can have the life that their moms pursued a decade earlier in life.
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Some truly panic when hitting 29 because they realise. No idea if the one in this article did as well and then went firmly in denial
The two in my experience had extra panic as they had just been ditched from 5/6 year relationships so I imagine in their mind they were like “if I was cheated on by them then I’m going to need to vet the next person for an equal period of time which would make me 35…”
Or just the general panic that it was a harsh sign that being married with a kid (at least on the way) by 30 was definitely off the table. Rug pulled from their feet. Although they probably should have known it was not going to happen after being in a relationship that long with no sign of a ring
What I’m rambling is that I’d expect many do realise and have that panic around 30 and then firmly enter a denial phase. But perhaps some are just in denial the whole way through. It likely depends on the relationship status of their family and social circle
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
The “If we match and I message you…” part - that is how bumble works! WTF
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago
Doing the absolute average is already too much for them.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
That reminds me of this gem.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago
This... Is really something else. But considering women cannot even go to the bathroom by themselves, it's no surprise they break down when alone for longer than sixty minutes.
TriumphoftheSwill 1y ago
She's really plain. I'd give her about a 4 for looks. Not that ugly but definitely not attractive. Problem is so many women are fat that men give her more attention so it blows up her ego.
Oddest-One-Here 1y ago
As a rule, seeing the word 'deserve' in a woman's profile should count as one or more red flags by itself depending on what she claims to deserve.
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
And how many times it appears
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 1y ago
Yes. Because you only deserve what you earn. What exactly did she do to earn the rights to a good man???
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Existed!
Check your privilege!
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
The title for this is perfect. What's unsaid, and what's implied, is far more interesting. The bitterness is expressed with the word "genuine" as in she thinks most of the "gentlemen" were just saying what it took to get into her pants. When she says "deserve", the imagination runs wild. Yes, most likely entitlement thinking but also perhaps simultaneously a statement of insecurity and doubt. She says she'll DM the guy first (which is a HUGE deal to women) perhaps meaning that the "losers" who DM her first are unworthy, she DMs them, and they don't respond, and she wants to remind us that she DESERVES a response?
Another possibility is that she says she shares equal custody with the baby daddy meaning that the guy isn't all that bad if he's looking after the kid 1/2 time. She's perhaps a failed monkey brancher whose going through remorse.
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
This is bumble - she has to DM first. It is a really weird comment. Unless she got lazy and copied her tinder text over
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Her height is probably a big problem here. I expect she automatically rules out anyone under 6ft. Many do but the tall ones are even more likely to. And are also likely to be ones to bitterly complain when short girls land “their guys” (as in the tall ones)
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
I just thought of something interesting about women such as this who claim to want a relationship with a "serious" gentlemen. She's clearly lying about her age to try to widen her playing field, but she could also lie about her height to make herself more approachable.
But of course, if she was that serious, she perhaps would have thought more about the wording of her ad to make it more appealing and cut back on the demands and stated more of what she brings which in this case, is not much.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I’ll admit that I couldn’t care less about a woman’s height. I’m 5’7”. I’d have gladly dated a woman who was taller. If she’s desperate enough, the height standard would go away real quick.
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
But a great many men either still do care or just naturally assume they won’t have a chance and so won’t bother wasting a swipe (and definitely not an in person approach)
I found this most on hinge which early on tried to double down of it’s claim about “quality matches” by seemingly giving you at most 10 “swipes” a day. What ever it was it was substantially lower than the others. It just isn’t worth messaging a tall woman as a short guy because the odds are so comparatively small
I too have no problem with tall women (as long as they don’t (substantially) outweigh me) but they sure as hell aren’t interested in me. I spoke regularly including via video chat with a lovely girl who was four inches taller than me. As soon as she found that out though (just as restriction were lifting) all talk of trying to meet vanished and suddenly she just wanted to be friends and she started making frequent references to a 6’9” friend who had helped her move her fridge and washing machine (to hammer the point home as he no doubt hammered her afterwards)
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
One of the biggest scams ever is how “gynocentric” these apps have become. Sending a message is obviously a crap shoot, but at least before swiping became the standard, men still had a chance of getting attention. But women complained about all of the messages, so we began to gatekeep contact through a mutual match.
Now women are even more motivated to be selective, because they can only allow 10 men to contact them per day. Who knows, the dude who is a 7 in looks might be awesome, but she’ll never notice him because she needs the 9+ guys.
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I’d never even thought about how the women have limited swipes and can only queue up a certain amount per day. But the hidden like doesn’t expire (I don’t think). The clock is only started once there is a match
reignoferror00 1y ago
She has a 4 year old boy, but it sounds like she is going through her "terrible 2's" - my everything, holding out for my perfect person, deserve, in order to get my attention, be a genuine gentleman ... don't waste my time, excited about people who can make me laugh ... translates into me, me, me ... mine, mine, mine ... deserve everything! ... needs to be perfect ... entertain me and only me right now! What a whiny smug self centered delusional bitch! A woman who was a decade younger, several points better looking, and without a kid but WITH HER ATTITUDE wouldn't be worth it for a man with half the desired qualities to be locked into a long term commitment - much less her.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I will give her what she deserves: the truth. She is fat, old and has a ton of baggage. Any man she finds attractive enough to message will have much better options on the same dating apps.
I guess no one told her to check her female privilege. She has overreached herself.
Scorpion69_ 1y ago
yeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhh, 31. totally not 47. bitches lying about their age is pretty normal, gotta be careful with that.
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
That’s probably a bit high if she has a 4 year old. But she does seem older than 31 by some degree
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Miss Piggy... and that's her BEST photo.