Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
kevin32
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago Stickied
Women don't want to win, they want a winner.
Women like this study, work and improve themselves so that they can demand a better man than they could get. Unfortunately for them, as Kevin Samuels points out, men do not care about how good a woman is at imitating men and men's dating strategies. Men look for feminine women and this is especially true for masculine men who are winners.
A masculine man wants a feminine woman. A woman's money, education, status etc. do not register. Men, especially a man of means, can afford to reach down and lift a woman up. As Patrice put it, we do not look for a finished product. That is what women want. Men look for pliable raw material, which is why most men look for younger, pretty women with a submissive tendency.
This woman thinks she deserves a top tier man and explicitly said that she would not feel comfortable submitting to any other man. For all their "improvement", most of these women still want a man better than them and worse yet, they think they deserve him. Rare is the woman who would fulfill the traditional male role of building up his partner and even more rare is the woman who finds happiness and fulfillment in her role as the traditional masculine entity in a family.
Women's obsession with the concept of "power couples" and their uncompromising thirst for hypergamy does not allow them to accept this simple truth. And since they cannot stand the thought of being submissive to a man, they attack housewives who really care for the well-being of their men & their family and the men who go for young women who possess potential (pliability) as shallow pedophiles.
The enmity women like this have for Kevin Samuels (and the men whom they claim they want) stems from the ugly truth that Samuels is painting here and their disinterest in letting go of their delusion. Women like this end up alone and miserable because to them the idea of a man they think they deserve is more important than the man they can actually get. These women are not interested in being happy or living a happy life, they want to prove that they are high value to their sisterhood. These women do not register as high value woman to men and especially not to the high value men they claim they want.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Women like this would be well served by the understanding that they are competing not just with women in their bracket, but with every woman when it comes to obtaining a "HVM". Including those that are younger, not in debt, less baggage ridden, more fertile, healthier, prettier, and childless.
And as pointed out in other comments on this post, imitating male value traits does not make a woman more attractive to a high value male - because if men and women were attracted to the same exact things, then men would just fuck and marry other men.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Literally the only thing “imitating high value men” does is help women run in similar social circles to men. This is likely getting deconstructed a bit, though, thanks to more remote work (and less happy hours and other post-work get togethers). You just aren’t going to meet the friend of your coworker some day and hit it off.
In her case, it’s even more dire. Sure she makes solid money, but she’s the head honcho of her job. She isn’t working with high value people, her employees will mostly be low paid unskilled laborers. She maybe could be active with the local chamber of commerce, but besides that? Nothing. She’s even admitted that she doesn’t know men who make the kind of money that she’s looking for in a man.
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Her best option would have been to go the chamber of commerce route and maybe try and leverage that into political office? But very few can manage that . But would certainly get you in different circles
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I mean don’t get me wrong, there are statistical benefits to high earner women if you’re a man that wants marriage. College education is correlated to lower divorce rates (Massachusetts has some of the lowest divorce rates in the country, for example). Also the idea that as a man, you don’t have to care what polite society thinks of your choice of spouse.
But without that social circle, her income is useless as a mate attractor. Meanwhile, I could move somewhere random tomorrow, like wyoming. The instant women hear my job title, they’d be interested in me.
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It’s the part everyone overlooked in this video due to all the “average at best” stuff focusing on her looks. He got her to admit she does not know any men other than family members who meet her demands. Doesn’t mix with them. Hasn’t ever met any in the real world
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yup, and that’s the issue with a lot of these modern women. They want it, but they don’t know what it is that they want. Then if they ever come across the kind of man that they’d want for their whole life, they don’t understand what he wants.
Take a look around. Those successful men with millions in the bank; if they’re walking around with a “career woman” their own age, it’s probably because they met that woman when both were in their 20’s. Men with status at her age, they’re going for women a decade younger.
DextroShade 1y ago
Kevin Samuels was a legend. What's really sad is that he was actually trying to help these women but they would have none of it because taking his advice means they wouldn't get everything they want (as if they were going to anyway) and screamed at him like spoiled children throwing a temper tantrum. Feminism has told women that is better for to die alone and be eaten by their cats then to settle down with a regular decent guy making $50,000 a year. All he did was tell them the truth and they despised him for it because they preferred their comforting lies and delusions. Their reactions to his untimely death have been despicable.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
For most of American (and especially world) history, it was just accepted that husband and wife would have to contribute to the total success of a household. And when urbanization became common, it was common for both parents to work.
Even now, for much of America, real day to day life is that dad makes $50k, mom makes $40k, and with that they live in a modest 3 bedroom worth $250k. And it works decently enough. Instead, you have these “independent women” making $80k a year and struggling on their own in the city. And these women want HVM, not to cherish and support them, but for help.
kevin32 Ambassador for NiceGuys™ 1y ago
This video is permanently sidebarred, and every marriage-minded woman should watch it.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Before the age of 16 preferably. They need to understand that their best years to find a mate is when they’re young and pretty, not when they’re older and established. If you want to “have it all”, it’s never been easier to learn remotely. Get married young, your youngest kid is in school when you’re early 30’s, you finish college. Now you’ve 30+ years to have a career, uninterrupted.
(Just to clarify, I’m not endorsing marriage at 16 for women. More like 18-25)
Pic889 1y ago
Well, of course she deserves a 6-figure man. She divorced her husband who was making almost 6-figures a couple of years ago, and since women age like fine wine while men age like fine milk (or so did her favourite fashion magazine told her), now she is in for an upgrade to a 6-figure man. Anything else would be a downgrade and she would be settling!
Not to mention that she brings a fabulous kid to the relationship that would be any man's privilege to raise.
(/s although it should normally be redundant)
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It reminds me of the 3 questions they ask in The Walking Dead:
Do you want to be married?(How many walkers/betas you killed?)
Do you want kids?(How many people/proposals you killed?)
And then the whole spiel about what it costs to raise kids. Like these women never even studied home economics.