Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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goodmansaysfuckyou Big Dick Energy Misogynist 1y ago Stickied
Now that she has a kid and is at the age that the wall will soon be impacted, she is no longer big on partying and hookups. It is that good old epiphany kicking in making her realize that she needs a long term provider to settle down with. No more fake men for her...she needs a 'genuine man' now.
Come on guys. Line up to be the the Knight in Shining Armour for the chance at a hope for maybe sleeping with this chick once or twice a year.
kevin32 Ambassador for NiceGuys™ 1y ago Stickied
While @goodmansaysfuckyou is correct that she's in her epiphany phase, there are a few indicators that she's still Chasing Chad and not quite seeking Beta Bucks yet. She's a washed-up MILF now, but you can tell she was hot stuff in her 20s. Given her lip work and physique she likely did some modeling and dated both Chads and 6-figure men whose looks and money she's supposedly "no longer impressed" by.
While we generalize dual-mating strategy as Alpha Fucks > Beta Bucks, the nuance is that it's Alpha Fucks > (Alpha Bucks) > Beta Bucks. She chases Chads during her epiphany phase because she's given these men sex over the years and feels these men owe her commitment.
What she's saying is "I used to pick men mainly for looks, money and things, but now I want a man who is self-aware, kind, and genuine while still possessing the looks, money and things to which I'm accustomed." She will then swipe right on Chads who will adapt their sexual strategy by playing the gentleman and giving her empty promises of commitment. It's only when she keeps getting pumped and dumped will her language change to the more desperate "tired of games", "my kids come first" bailout-seeking.
I discuss Epiphany Phase women in depth here.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago Stickied
I would argue that she is playing both sides by adopting the FDS strategy of looking for a greater beta and looking for an AB at the same time. This is typical for girls like her in their epiphany stage.
While her entire frame is that now that she has "experimented", she has "matured" and she only wants a guy who is "mature" himself, this is likely to work on beta men only since Alpha bucks guys do not listen to these dumbass demands. They're still alpha and look for desire. Beauty, desire and compliance factor into a relationship with alpha men and especially with AB men. All these disclaimers would put them off of this girl. To an extent, I suspect she knows it too. I would argue that she is being somewhat realistic about her prospects: while she would like to catch an AB, she is still hunting for the beta bucks, which would explain her attempt to set the tone by making you chase her from the get go.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
cc: @goodmansaysfuckyou, @typo-magashiv
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
I'm chuckling because saying "self-aware, kind, and genuine" combined with "looks/money no longer impress" means that she's compatible (in theory) with the 80 percenter category on OLD who are rejected by women into those latter things. She'll get thousands of right swaps in a week.
Then what she'll do is run all her matches through a filter: Only the hottest, richest guys to take her out and she demanded they be, quote, "self-aware, kind, and genuine". What Could Possibly Go Wrong? After all, she stated UP FRONT what she wanted, and MEN (as in ALL men) are responsible for LYING to her!!!
During her fungirl phase, she could exploit beta bucks by having them take her out to dinner and then when the guys were at the POGO stage, she could bow out by saying "Well, I don't have the tingles or chemistry isn't right! Sorry!" But these guys can use the same "lie" on her: "I'm sorry, but we seem to be arguing a lot lately. We just don't seem compatible." In her 20's, she could afford to waste BB's time but at her age, wasting time with BB's is less and less of an option.
goodmansaysfuckyou Big Dick Energy Misogynist 1y ago
Hey no shit no fucking around. I'm glad you're around to translate the shit that I can't seem to word correctly.
This is exactly what I was going for.
Guys read @kevin32 s comment then read it again.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
Sticky this please.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Yeah, I kind of had the hunch her "no longer impressed by..." garbage had an underlying "but I still fucking expect ____!"
But rum is kicking in, so doubted lol
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
No longer impressed could easily mean “have seen it all and am jaded now”. There might well be no level of looks or money that could impress her now. Definitely the former. I assume there is probably someone in a different wealth class than what she has experienced previously - but they are off limits for her now
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Most likely she cannot figure out how to get the pin back in the fat grenade....
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
"Free-spirited" with bolt-on tits, bolt-on lips, and bolt-on ass. Hard pass on Ms. Potato Head.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Loads to unpack
1) 34, single mom. That’s bad news 2) I think it’s been mentioned, but she has a big tattoo on her shoulder in the top right and nowhere else. Curiously it’s also one of two pictures that aren’t showing off her body. Methinks she’s put a little weight on. 3) “no hookups”. Gee, wonder how this little one of hers came to be formed? “No hookups” is basically a code phrase for “I’ve been totally damaged by the cc and I wish I didn’t enjoy it, but I do”. Because the cc is like what cigarettes used to be. At least with cigarettes, they have products on the market that can make your brain eventually stop craving them. Not so much with the cc. 4) why is she moving far enough away to require a new social network? That in itself isn’t a red flag, but it is a yellow one. Is she in her mid 30’s and not financially settled in?
As I’ve said, theres nothing wrong with a woman valuing a man’s resources and ability to provide for her. But, she owes that man her best years that she can give them. Not when she’s 34 with some other man’s kid in tow, and a developing mom body.
Scorpion69_ 1y ago
Ultra whore unattractive post wall single mom. Absolute wifey material. What could go wrong?
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago
Oh, I've met this girl - haven't we all? There's always a Marcy, a Denise, a Katherine, around, with dyed hair and a fake smile. All she has to offer is a personality that both conforms to the pack and competes with it - she has to have the same purse every other girl has, but hers needs to be better. The same kind of dress, but more expensive. She listen to the same musics, but somehow she was the one to discover that band. Spend too much time around her, and you'll feel your IQ dropping in real time.
goodmansaysfuckyou Big Dick Energy Misogynist 1y ago
Excellent take on this particular Carol.
Yep, that's how I know that the "no hookups" thing is bogus. For the right man they will be mainline performers on kink(dot)com.
jihocech 1y ago
Well, the Greeks send 2000 ships to Troy. Would you send at least one ship for her?
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago
She sunk too many ships - relationships, friendships, situationships. The one ship she has left is her whoreship.
Also, I apologise for the pun.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Well played!
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 1y ago
Are you?
goodmansaysfuckyou Big Dick Energy Misogynist 1y ago
Yep bit I'm just a lowly AI.
HopelessRomantic 1y ago
She's an apex predator that just wants a man with money to provide for her and the kid because she's been used to men throwing themselves at her for now so she's playing the field and seeing who is stupid enough to swipe right on her and offer her their bank account, house, and car.
chunky 1y ago
So, she's not impressed by money or looks anymore.
Let's let only poor, ugly guys date her.
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Note she said she isn’t impressed by that. Not that she doesn’t still require it. You just need the other things as well. It is slyly worded
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
I wonder how far apart in time some of these photos are.
Take a look at the top right and bottom right photos.
Top right photo has a tattoo on her left shoulder, and it's obviously been there a while.
Bottom right photo, that shoulder is tattoo-free.
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She’s a lot slimmer in the two on the right at the bottom than the two at the top on the left. I’d suggest they were pre kid(s)
I also wouldn’t be surprised if the oldest she was in any of them is 29/30. With maybe a 5+ year spread
ZZoMBiE13 1y ago
"Money, Looks, and Things no longer impress me" doesn't mean she's grown, she expects those before you'll even be considered. She wants all those AND MORE, so just spending your time building yourself up isn't even enough for this one. Gotta have all those things (blessings you can't control and a life spent working hard) and be her ticket to a life she can't afford or hasn't planned for when she's older.
See guys, she's no longer impressed by what you've done. It's about what you are... meaning do everything and expect nothing. Ah well, at least this one managed to stay attractive. Most of the time we have a walking fupa saying this exact same script.
SheLarror1234 1y ago
Yup. what most men forget is that hypergamy and onlnie shit has completely boosed these females ego. Its no longer just chads, but superheros who will be considered. Spoiled rotten gender.
She no longer cares for money looks and shit because she had it all her life already. People would say this is incel thinking but obviously the best way to solve the solution is to not give her any of those things and treat her as lesser, just like how the best way to fix a spoiled child is to show them reality.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
I'm reminded of the 2nd Superman film (one of the good sequels) in which Superman reveals himself to Lois Lane, and then becomes mortal out of his love for her and gets beaten up by a jerk trucker on the way back to NYC. The viewer suspects watching that she was probably disappointed in his new human persona.
The above woman says she wants "genuine" but would she be like the ending of "material girl" where a poor guy in an old pickup truck has roadside flowers and drives her off into the sunset? Highly doubtful. Most likely she'll get his by tons of sincere betas whom she'll milk and then dump him when he fails her shit test that he wasn't "sincere" enough.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Definitely a bait and switch. 34 and single should tell you all you need to know but keep in mind this is her putting her best foot forward as a single mom, post-wall, fat brunette with old photos of her glory hole days. I give her credit for not having a long list of demands or saying all men are shit which is a remarkably novel breath of fresh air.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago
She does; they're just implied. As many pointed, it's not that she's not seeking money, looks and things, it's just that they don't impress her anymore - that's her baseline.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yeah but you know what I mean. There's no height requirement, no expensive first date requirement, etc.
Profitglutton Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Bet you most of these pictures are at least 5 years old.
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
That was my immediate thought - that the most recent was 5 years old. But as pointed out in another comment - there is a definite spread there as well