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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
20 Men don't like fat women
deeplydisturbed FDS Dinner Donor 2y ago
Okay, let's "unpack" this one...
1) Hookup Culture Makes It Difficult To Date
Correction: Female promiscuity, framed as "female empowerment" under the guise of "the sexual revolution" as come home to roost. This is exactly what women FORCED society to accept. This is not a problem, it is a feature.
2) You’re Using The Wrong Dating App
Correction: You are using dating apps. Period.
3) Some Men Are Intimidated By Strong Women
Correction: MOST men are repulsed by entitled, cocky, arrogant, aggressive, egotistical, or otherwise narcissistic women. You say "Strong" I say "Insufferable"
4) The “Man-Child” Phenomenon
Correction: The Phenomenon of men listening to women and accepting their terms. Dating sucks (according to this very article) and men are walking away and enjoying themselves. AKA "Men enjoying life without women is"Childish"
5) People Have Emotional Baggages
Correction: Men and Women get burned in relationships. You understand this when it is a woman who gets burned. When it is a man? "BAGGAGE"
(Side note: "Because of hookup and app dating culture, it’s easy to burn through a long list of partners really quickly.")
Yeah, how's that working for you ladies?
6) Being A “Commitmentphobe” Is Normal
Correction: Offering commitment to a woman who is not worth it is ABNORMAL.
7) You’re Failing to Understand What Drives Men
Well. No correction needed on this one. This one can stay on the list.
8) You’re Too Easy To Get
Correction: You HAVE been too easy to get. And the only way out of this is to lie to your future partner about your past (and we all know that a relationship built on lies is the key to bliss). And on top of that you are going to attempt to play hard to get with the one good man who shows promise? Just let that rattle around in your brain housing group for a second.
9) People Tend To Hold Out For The “Best”
Correction: This is your brain on Hypergamy, and you are addicted for life.
10) Good Men Are Already In A Relationship
No correction on this one either. This one stays too.
11) You Might Not Be Looking for the Same Kind of Love
Correction: "Authors like to make up new whackadoodle Bullshit terms to seem cool to their editors". (Otherwise, no more $50 per piece writing gigs on Thought Catalog.)
12) You Don’t Know How To Lead Love
"Lead Love"
Really? File this under "I''ll take more bullshit phrases for $200 Alex"
13) You Aren’t Ready To Negotiate Right
Yeah, because love, intimacy, and desire can be negotiated.
14) You’re Waiting For Your Perfect Man (Who Doesn’t Exist)
Lazy sloppy writing. Just a Repeat of #9.
15) You’re Letting The Small Things Get In the Way
No correction needed. Women indeed do this.
16) You Act Too Desperate and It Turns Guys Off
Correction: You act like an idiot and good men refuse to tolerate your crap. Take your "diamond in the rough" self back to Tinder. They will gladly take you there.
17) You Aren’t Really Trying
No correction necessary. Another keeper for our list.
18) Your Social Skills Could Use Some Serious Work
Another keeper, with an addendum. Your social skills and value system need serious work.
19) You Haven’t Improved Yourself in a Long Time
Yet another keeper.
So gents, this list can be boiled down to the following:
TEN Reasons why you cannot get a good man to commit:
A) You have wasted your youth chasing meaningless pleasures. Good men are seeking good women who have spent that time learning how to build a family and a good marriage.
B) You are listening to a subset of women who do not have your best interests in mind. Stop listening to them or stop complaining about their results. You have to pick one.
C) You have no idea what a good man really is.
7) You’re Failing to Understand What Drives GOOD Men
10) Good Men Are Already In A Relationship
15) You’re Letting The Small Things Get In the Way AND CAUSING YOUR PROBLEMS
16) You Act Too Desperate and It Turns GOD MEN Off
17) You Aren’t Really Trying to FIND A GOOD MAN
18) Your Social Skills Could Use Some Serious Work
19) You Haven’t Improved Yourself in a Long Time
There you go ladies (and gents). All the hard work done for you. Good luck out there.
Tooktheredpill 2y ago
@deeplydisturbed
This shit is gold brother. Thanks for taking the time to type it out. Men, pay attention.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2y ago
I agree it's a word salad, I but I think it gets better as it goes on. For example: It hooks the woman in by saying "Why are you feeling like you can do better?" and then the author explains that is precisely why she's blowing relationships and why the better men do BETTER than her.
A fundamental problem with advice guides for women (and I know about how hard it is to advice women, I'm married to one) is they grab the worst advice and try to feed their mental hamster: "I didn't read about needing adjust my own standards or improve so instead, I'll play hard to get! That's it! I just am too NICE to men! I need to reject those loser betas HARDER than I've been doing!"
Then it doesn't work and they say "I read advice but it's no good."
Heck, women probably read about relationships more than we do such as in Cosmo and such and it's the same confirmation-bias stuff telling them what they want to hear over and over again.
I laughed out loud at the assertion that men are just biologically programmed to protect and provide for women and that makes us happy. That would be like us here declaring "Women just love to clean up after men's messes so tread into the house with mud on your boots! She'll love it!" Men are only "intimidated" by "strong women" because strong men utilize that as an asset to support their mate, rather than compete with and criticize them. If "strong women" were like that, many quality men wouldn't mind.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 2y ago
This confirmation bias is a huge part of women routinely getting shit advice.
I don't know what percentage of women, but a damn high amount of them will bail at the slightest sign of advice that doesn't align with their solipsistic beliefs.
People know if they don't tell women what they want to hear, their female audience will bail. I never see any advice sources other than the Red Pill Women sub give women the brutal truth
Kevin Samuels tries and doesn't back down, but the women always fight him on it until he kicks them off the stream out of hopelessness
Any time I see female advice even approach the brutal truth at all, the advice still ends up playing to the female fantasy absolving them of any real accountability
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2y ago
Although there's clearly an AWALT effect, there are cultural and generational differences. My sister-in-law was griping once about how she worried about childbirth and such and my mother said (behind her back) how much of a crybaby the new generation was. That's not to say that women back then didn't have concerns, but they weren't shrinking violets about life. This isn't just about "feminist waves" degrading the female population but also generational factors in play with each other losing knowledge like some story that's told with details lost along the way.
As I raise a daughter, it's not just about "brutal truths" but, IMO, an edge. If I advise my daughter to start looking for a decent, good husband (as we discuss the criteria of such) together when she's 21, she has the "early bird/worm" edge ahead of women who wait until they're 26 much like, say, when I JUMP on a post Christmas sale on December 26th.
Family anecdote: My mother, I'll call her Julie, is temperamental and would complain if the kids waited for the last minute to buy her a gift (yeah, I know but hear me out), she said "It looks like I got Julie's pickings this year!" as in she got the last card on the shelf or last flowers so they were wilted. (My one sister required years of therapy :-)
Anyways, my point is that it's not a harsh reality to get an edge over others in social and personal development but rather an OPPORTUNITY. If I had a son, I would have given him HGH horse steroids at age 6 and had him on a red pill training regime at 8. I'm doing similar for my daughter (no roids, just red pills wisdom!)
So my point is that the red pill is harsh truths (hence the redness) but they are also simultaneously liberating. Yes, I had to give up these egalitarian fantasies and such but getting in touch with my inner caveman has been a delight. I feel like Conan sitting at the dinner table surrounded by civilized men afraid to cough at the wrong time. "What is best in life?"
There is no real "absolution of accountability". Yes, women get away with a lot under the law but in the end, even with all those goodies, without self-discipline, a basic knowledge of what's going on around you, it's like a bubble boy wandering in traffic. It's cruel to deny them red pill wisdom but simultaneously, as you point out, many of them don't want it and we can't force it upon them. As the Oompa Loompas put it: The parents are to blame.
If someone loves their child and gives them thousands to go to college (and do awful things) or even graduate and get a high paying job and... squander their best RMV years, that's an act of poor parenting. It's a love affair with the blue pill against that of their children's interests.