Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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[deleted] 4y ago
It's fine, they'll just vote to have the government extract resources from single men to support them.
potste 4y ago
Yep, because a real, long term relationship is all about you being constantly worshipped.
[deleted] 4y ago
Buy stock in Ben & Jerry and Petco.
[too bad that they are not public]
[deleted] 4y ago
Wow. This is reality men. Take it in.
Redhood616 4y ago
Crabs in a bucket!
“Hmm I’m a lonely, unhappy, unwed 30y/o but instead if giving honest advice so others don’t make the same mistakes as me, i’ll lie and watch as others follow in my footsteps”
This is a fundamental difference between men and women. Check out r/MGTOW and you’ll see plenty of posts & comments of older men talking about the mistakes they made and giving proper advice to younger men. Meanwhile women dominated subs are filled with posts of women making bad decisions, failing to take agency and commenters saying “yass queen”
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 4y ago
Say you own a stock that hit its all time high but you didn't sell. Now it's going down. And you have a crystal ball that tells you with 100% certainty that the stock will continue to decline. Not only will it never exceed its peak, it'll never exceed its price today.
What do you do? Any sane person would swallow hard, and sell, sell, sell for whatever they can get before tomorrow comes.
In these women's cases, they instead sit there thinking "that's okay. I'm just going to wait. At some point, I'm certain I'll get a higher price than that all time high that I didn't think was high enough". And all of her girlfriends encourage her to keep holding, because she "deserves" that imaginary price she has in her head. No one tells her the truth that the world doesn't give a shit what you think you deserve, and if your price is sure to continue declining, you best sell today for whatever price you can get.
Soon enough, the guys she attracts in a year are not only worse than what she wants or thinks she deserves, they're worse than what she could get right now. So she'll keep waiting. Eventually she'll buy a cat, you know temporarily, just to keep her company until that perfect guy arrives, any day now...
Enzo95 4y ago
They have no time to get married while spending their huge fortunes, spewing their bullshit politics, adoring satan and abusing children.
RedditisCANCER999 4y ago
what i love about stuff like this is that as a man, it's still cool to be alone and a drifter (at any age), look at any work of fiction and the hero is often an unsettled loner (think clint eastwood).
so being along as a middle aged man has no sting to it at all, but women seem to get their validation from status and support so to them its like their life blood to be in a relationship. and being alone and older carries a massive stigma of failure and "damaged goods"
you can tell women are embarassed and ashamed about being single when it comes up in later life, wereas men are in early life, but not in later life.
before you know it you end up as an "amy horton" and entertain the world with your tragic ramblings
[deleted] 4y ago
Means she is a slut. Likes to travel and fuck dudes. That's why you're unmarried you simple quim.
golanginator 4y ago
They are just holding out for the right man. If Sharon Stone could do it so can they.
Traksimuss 4y ago
The right man will come, and will keep her company in the evenings. Meet Mr. Pebbles.
StingRayFins 4y ago
Dang, mid 30s to 40 and still "waiting" for the right one. Sorry to break it to them but if you cannot find anyone in 20-25 years it's most likely not happening. Problem isn't the guys, it's you.
bigdaveyl 4y ago
This is what I keep thinking. It takes two to tango, and it's always the other person.
StingRayFins 4y ago
Yea but who's the one initiating all the divorces, child support, alimony, and accusations? One isn't willing to tango while demanding the other person to show up. That's the problem. Statement is still accurate.
BluepillProfessor 4y ago
While you wait for perfection, the clock of life keeps on ticking.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago
So empowered. You really went, girl.
But now, you go away, girl.
mustangfrank 4y ago
Now, you are gone girl.
[deleted] 4y ago
The first comment must be a troll. This can't be real.
MikeRocksBoat 4y ago
Wait Wail Wall
Celtero 4y ago
...And they don't realize their eggs are dying, all the quality men are already with someone, and their chances are only going to get worse.
The cherry on top is the passivity. They're going to wait for someone. Like... maybe you should try to meet people instead? You know, join groups, take up a hobby, be an interesting and quality person. I'd be willing to bet their strategy is to just wait until the day they're watching Netflix, eating cheetos, and someone knocks on the door. Would you look at that, it's Mr. Right visiting to borrow a cup of sugar.
TheApricotCavalier 4y ago
I'm waiting for a rocketship. I could settle for any vehicle, but I don't want to compromise my standards. I'll be here waiting when the right one comes around.
originaldutchcow 4y ago
Lol, their last years of being fertile are getting wasted because they are waiting just for the right guy to come along. Not the 90% of the common men, They are losers.
AngryCockOfJustice 4y ago
"I have so much to give" -> Most likely they are used goods. You know them diddies and beef curtains. Did I mention financial liabilities and baggage of issues?
"waiting for right guy" -> waiting for naive beta orbiter ready to rescue this damsel in distress. Meanwhile, Chad, Zhang, Tyrone, Carlos, Ivan, Viktor, Ahmad, Wickerström, Rajesh, Owkido are taking their turns to fill her orifices.
redapple95 4y ago
What is the difference between Ivan and Viktor?
sleepyweaselisawake Plowing his way through muck while misquoting Office Space 4y ago
It's sad that none of the men she chose to date/fuck were good enough for a relationship.
It's pathetic post age 30 they're willing to wait for the right guy to come along. They expect men to line up for her approval. Meanwhile, the men she wants are either content being single, pursue younger women, or are already married.
askmrcia 4y ago
That's how she explains it. I bet she was shooting out of her league and giving the guys she KNEW wouldn't commit sex. Instead admitting it was her fault, she blames it on the men not being up to her standards.
Unless she has the look of a professional model or woman pro athlete working a good job then she isn't the catch that she think she is.
SwinginPastMyKnees_ 4y ago
The guys who she considers the "right one" will see her as the wrong woman.
sleepyweaselisawake Plowing his way through muck while misquoting Office Space 4y ago
Or, an easy fuck.
Emervila 4y ago
They are holding for the right guy.. but what are they holding? I mean they are giving the pussy away, when the comment says: if I had married of the guys I had dated previously, my life would be HELL it means she's not holding anything, she's been willingly giving pussy away to wrong guys while "waiting" for the good one? hamstering Olympics in that OP
[deleted] 4y ago
I think you guys are misreading this. She doesn’t mean her life would be hell because they were asshole Chads. She rejected them, not the other way around. She means her life would be hell because she would be married to an average boring beta.!
Emervila 4y ago
where? when? any of the guys which means all of them, she chose to be with them either she finished the relation or them it was her poor choice during 20 years what made her have 34YO and not 1 single good man for marriage or LTR
jihocech 4y ago
Sheryl Sandberg´s advice?
where_muh_good_mens 4y ago
Never married, my eggs are drying up, my friends and coworkers are getting married and having children, everyday on facebook I see classmates getting married and enjoying life, but I'm holding out for the right person too!
... 5 years later
I feel like I'm missing so much out on life, watching younger couples enjoy and share their life together. Dating never got any easier.
40 year old spinster literately foreshadowed their exact lives. They just aren't the insightful gender, are they.
SeekingLevelFive 4y ago
No eggs, empty egg carton.
SuperGoxxer 4y ago
Classic. Obligatory link -- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pNi0egotQ-w
"90% of eggs gone by age 30" -- lololol we knew it all the time.
Ivan_The_Reddish 4y ago
You don't have any eggs!
ClockworkOrange92618 4y ago
Alexa, set a reminder for 10 years from now so I ... aw who am I kidding we all know these women will be alone forever.
golanginator 4y ago
Let's be generous:
RemindMe! 20 years.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago
That's funny, but PLEASE tell me you don't have one of those spy-speakers in your house.
ClockworkOrange92618 4y ago
LOL god no. I only mention it for internet-joke-making purposes:)
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago
Wise man!
SuperGoxxer 4y ago
No kidding. I mean, its tough to have privacy to begin with and nobody is perfect at it -- but to install a mic/speaker combo that is wired to send things to remote servers at all hours... no thanks.
Same thing with "smart" appliances. I'd rather buy a "dumb" OLED display than a smart TV that sends all my viewing data over the wire somewhere.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago
Same. I want my private conversations to remain private. I'm so glad the wife is on the same page, and hates those things as much as I do.
SomeSqueakyCleanButt 4y ago
These bitches are all either dying alone crying themselves into the grave from loneliness, or they're gonna ruin some poor dudes life because, even though SHE CHOSE HIM, he's not what she wants or is willing to settle for anymore and she dEseRvEs bEtTer!
peguy2000 4y ago
I get a nice dose of schadenfreude whenever women try to cope being unwanted after 30.
The cock carousel has no mercy
TheApricotCavalier 4y ago
Its usually not the people who are the worst offenders who face the worst consequences. A lot of the sociopathic party girls who make us all suffer end up happily ever after; these leftover girls are the ones who didn't 'get' the game until too late.
RegRobillard 4y ago
I think it just boils down to looks, looks, looks. My half sister was a violent alcoholic who managed to get married to an old boyfriend when she was pushing 40, because she's extremely good looking. The guy was a decent catch too, tall, decent looking, his own house and a good job. The ones who get away with it now are the ones who would have gotten away with it anyways. Unfortunately nobody is warning average looking women about their realistic options, long-term.
StingRayFins 4y ago
I have a hard time believing this. From all the relationships I've seen they typically keep partying or they resort back to partying at some point and do it behind their spouse or end up divorcing.
i-love-cute-lolis 4y ago
And I get happy when I see men hitting 35+, their careers are going great, they have money, confidence, looks, and are banging 18 year olds
[deleted] 4y ago
Where would someone that age get 18 year old though?
drewc99 4y ago
Church is one example.
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[deleted] 4y ago
You’re a complete piece of shit.
THE_OBEAST 4y ago
...yo wtf
RegRobillard 4y ago
Well, name checks out
[deleted] 4y ago
What kind of dance class? Also what country?
i-love-cute-lolis 4y ago
Latin dance clases. So salsa, bachata, and such.
Country is Bulgaria.
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Westernhagen 4y ago
Your total focus now should be your mission.
That aside, your parents can't live your life for you, and they won't be on the hook to pay for any hasty or unwise decisions you make now.
ramaga 4y ago
Dude, I was you a couple of decades ago. When I was a 29-year-old lawyer I dated a nice woman who desperately wanted to marry me. I didn't marry her, though, for two reasons: (1) I hadn't finished sowing my wild oats yet (especially since I didn't lose my virginity until my early 20s) and (2) I thought I could do better than my then girlfriend. (I was right.)
In retrospect, I wouldn't do anything differently. Do NOT get married now. At 29, you're at the beginning of your legal career and the sky is the limit for you depending on your goals and how hard you're willing to work. Committing to one woman now will only slow you down. You've got to live for you, not your parents or anyone else.
Frankly, I wouldn't advise you to marry ever, but I can understand wanting to get married someday if you want to eventually have kids. Do not do it now though. Wait at least until your mid-30s or 40s. If you keep your nose to the grindstone career and workout-wise, the pool of women available to you will keep expanding regardless of how much older you are than them. I'm in my late 40s, for example, and I routinely have women in their early 20s throwing themselves at me. When I myself was in my early 20s that simply wasn't happening.
Focus on you and your mission (whatever that might be) and not on one woman in particular. There's plenty of time for that later.
ntvirtue 4y ago
If you are a lawyer you should KNOW what will happen to your bank account if you get married.
Kurt751990 4y ago
You wait and have your boomerite parents arrested for harrassment.
BurdenedChad 4y ago
I'd err on the side of building up your career first, because most women are codependent and stuck in a rut of short-term thinking, so they'll resent long hours and business trips. But if you do meet some rare unicorn with some hobbies/morals/cleverness, it might be worth locking her down. Relationships do require some sacrifice, which the WAATGMs refuse to acknowledge.
Definitely stay away from female lawyers, they turn into bitchy queen bee types by 30. But I suppose you know that already.
mustangfrank 4y ago
I have an attorney friend. He is 50's now, and never married. Why? He handled too many divorce cases and saw what happened to the man in the divorce. He was 5'10" but had the Hollywood leading man good looks. Pre-nup, but if you have kids, you will get fucked over. If is a tough call. I have 4 sons.
HiredNote 4y ago
One big problem with doing what your parents want: the consequences don't affect them at all. If you get married, and the relationship goes to shit, they don't lose out at all. They don't have to deal with the divorce, alimony, child support, miserable marriage, none of the downsides. Not one.
That's the reason why they're so gungho about you getting married. They have zero to lose. In fact, they gain grandchildren. Furthermore, when they get old, they can move into your house with your wife and kids when they're too old to take care of themselves. My parents have stated to me that if I get married, and if they have to move in with me and my family, they have people to talk to and be around. However, if I remain a bachelor, and they have to move in with me, they're going to have a lonely existence living in a bachelor pad, especially since I'll be at work most of the day.
So they're reasoning is entirely selfish. They know I could have a miserable marriage or a miserable divorce. But as long as they have grandkids and a house to stay when they get old, they are fine with me playing Russian roulette with my future.
HolyGourdofJerusalem 4y ago
Tell your parents to be patient. Work at your career without distraction for a while, then hope to find the elusive unicorn, because if you become successful there are going to be a lot of gold-diggers who won't reveal their true colors until it is too late.
drewc99 4y ago
Everyone should ideally settle down when their SMV reaches its peak. Women should settle down around age 20. Men should settle down around age 35, maybe age 40 for high end careers like a lawyer. And a person at their SMV peak should settle down with a person who is at their SMV peak as well.
In your case, enjoying yourself and focusing on your career until age 40 would be the smart thing to do, at which point you should settle down with a hot 20 year old. This will maximize your chances at a stable, secure, and happy family life.
Your parents are (unintentionally) trying to scam you by telling you to marry in your 20s. Just like women are being scammed by being told to enjoy themselves and marry in the 30s.
Jake4523 4y ago
I'm 27, no intention of EVER getting married. Work out, save money, and DON'T GET MARRIED. Unless you like being a slave to someone else who only loves you for the money you bring in
[deleted] 4y ago
Dont.
TheApricotCavalier 4y ago
Are you happy? Do you want your kids to have a life similar to yours? If the answer is yes, your parents are giving you good advice.
For me, its a resounding NO. I'm not gonna have a kid until I figure out a way to get him out of the slaughterhouse.
Overkillengine 4y ago
Who pays the bills and deals with the consequences when it does not work out as planned?
Ivan_The_Reddish 4y ago
At least now you know you can safely ignore any relationship advice your parents give you.
[deleted] 4y ago
You can start a family in your 50s easily. Not saying you should wait that long, but for you the clock isn't ticking as hard.
i-love-cute-lolis 4y ago
Don’t. It’s your fucking life, not theirs.
Getting married now will mean you’ll rush to find a woman, and your career can even suffer. Same goes for having a kid.
And as your value increases the caliber of woman you’ll be able to attract will be far higher than what you’ll attract now
drewc99 4y ago
Yes, not only would he need to settle for a much less attractive woman at this point in his life, but he would have to settle for a much older woman, which can be a huge pain point for a 45 year old rock star lawyer who is tied down with a 40 year old hag of a fat wife. I'm currently dating a woman 17 years younger than me. That means if you were to use me as a yardstick, his future life partner could be 12 (!) years old today. In other words, a long term relationship should not be anywhere on his horizon.
[deleted] 4y ago
Can I ask an honest question?
How do you get younger girls to date you? Aren't they turned off by your older age?
The reason I ask is because I don't see this very often in real life.
drewc99 4y ago
Many are, some aren't. For men, I think it actually is a matter of "holding out for the right one" because our SMV peaks so much later. Another factor is that most people guess my age as being 8-10 years younger than it is.
ransay3277 4y ago
Note to self. Invest in cat food, wine and meals for one.