Women feel like you're some serial killer/rapist the first time they meet you until you've proven otherwise. But I don't know what makes them comfortable and trusting with someone. How could a man make a woman comfortable and trusting as fast as possible?
Oasis5675
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Ti123 1y ago
It’s not just women. Just talk to people learn how to make people comfortable around you then you could do that with women. More often then not women are comfortable around you but because you uncomfortable around women they become weary and then uncomfortable. Public speaking is the quickest way to learn how to be comfortable around crowds and if you could do that then one or two people won’t bother you
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Friendly but not "nice"
Treat servers and other randoms etc near you well
Show good social calibration. Tell stories about friends, mention family. Etc
Obviously that's stuff you could do. You should also avoid doing everything that would likewise make her feel that you are dangerous
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Law 12: Use selective honesty and generosity to disarm your victim
One sincere and honest move will cover over dozens of dishonest ones. Open-hearted gestures of honesty and generosity bring down the guard of even the most suspicious people. Once your selective honesty opens a hole in their armor, you can deceive and manipulate them at will. A timely gift—a Trojan horse—will serve the same purpose.
Oasis5675 1y ago
Can you give an example
Hanscheezburger 1y ago
more down to earth examples of selective honesty: share some personal stories - how you felt when your dog died, how you were bullied at school when you were a fat kid but overcame it. Some stories that show vulnerability without making yourself look bad.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
It's basically what narcissists/BPDs do when they first meet you. Love bombing. Buying gifts, pretending to be some holier than thou person. In the case of the Tinder swindler he would take women he just met on a private jet to some exotic place all while posing as a diamond company owner. These women then gave him tens of thousands of dollars because they trusted him.
wswZtyqNGQ 1y ago
Social proof: have other women signal that they trust you. Works 100% of the time.
Bulba 1y ago
Social proof.