I'll try to keep it short. I was with my girlfriend for a little under a year. We've known each other since preschool and our families know each other well. The past year with her was really fun.
Her Pros:
- just graduated from PA school with no debt (her parents paid for school)
- conservative financially and politically
- adopted my diet (keto/carnivore)
- adores her father (although he was really tough on her growing up so I wonder if this is more Stockholm Syndrome)
- I've gone to Catholic school with her from preschool through high school
- her best friend is engaged to one of my best friends
- stays in very good shape (collegiate soccer goalie)
- likes to have sex
- went on a two week camping trip and she did really well even though it was her first time camping
- no tattoos or piercings
- her father is a self-made millionaire
- no STDs
Her Cons:
- started having sex in 7th/8th grade
- had sex with a couple of degenerate guys I knew from school
- tried to commit suicide freshman year of high school and was hospitalized for a few days
- has been on Lexapro (SSRI) and Lamotrigine (mood stabilizer) for ten years but has actively tapering her dosage after I expressed dissatisfaction (she will be off Lexapro in a week, then will begin to taper off Lamotrigine for several months)
- had a hoe phase (9 guys) senior year of college and has had sex with 15 guys (I think she was being honest but I don't think that includes sexual activity, only intercourse)
- her hoe phase mainly consisted of black guys (no offense to black guys, but we're both white and all of her previous boyfriends were white)
- is more masculine/assertive than other women
- somewhat of a feminist but not politically - more so she just wants to try to be as good as the guys
- only has one female friend and no other friends
- her grandpa was an alcoholic, her oldest brother had a year of alcoholism before going to AA and sobering up, her mother and older sister are on antidepressants, and her younger brother is struggling with alcoholism and just got put on antidepressants after getting a DUI
To provide more details on myself: I'm a millionaire (generating enough passive income to quit my job), software engineer (can work remotely) and have been lifting five days per week since high school. I am scuba certified, skydiving certified, play the piano and have a great social network. This was my first legitimate relationship and given the history/connection we have, I really am questioning my decision
NotaBene 1y ago
IMHO, of course, never wife up a non-virgin. Actually I'm very against marriage in general, why would a man in 2022 get married under the State? The only way I see marriage working is a "religious" wedding in the context of a tight community. The State's marriage contract... they can screw off.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
She isn't gf material.
redpillschool Admin 1y ago
But like.. do you like her?
Not sure why you typed out a resume like a woman shopping for husbands.
ethereumMakesMeCum 1y ago
I was just trying to weigh the pros vs the cons. No one is going to be perfect, but I feel like I lack experience to know if she's LTR material and counter the strong emotions of my first relationship
redpillschool Admin 1y ago
If everything in your.. online resume.. is correct, you've got a lot going for you. So, unless you really like this chick, I don't see any reason to hitch yourself to one cart at the moment.
Intrepid_Place53900 1y ago
ethereumMakesMeCum 1y ago
Yeah, they were athletes
Intrepid_Place53900 1y ago
dude, she was thrill seeking and is damaged. You are young with everything in front of you.
Picture this girl getting trained by the football team. You want to LTR her?
ethereumMakesMeCum 1y ago
Maybe I'm ignorant, but it just seems like at this point any girl that attended college (or is in their mid 20's in America) is going to have similar numbers/experience. At least with this one, I have history and our families know each other
Intrepid_Place53900 1y ago
let me re-phrase it for you.
most girls in USA in mid 20's, will have sexual experience.
Most hopefully within relationships , maybe a few quick hookups when she was real young
The girls you want to stay away from are the following.
Girls who mostly did ONS/hookups Girls who went thrill seeking
those girls are damaged, IMO of course.
Again, picture this girl (who say's only 9 black athletes), was she their fuck toy? How many at a time?
goodmansaysfuckyou 1y ago
Move on and forget that she ever existed. They are making new pussy every day, don't get hooked on one. Especially when that 'one' is a hoe.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Why wasn't she fucking you from ages 14-24? Suddenly, now that you're rich and hawt she's fucking you... She's a hoe. Should hoes get rewarded with hawt millionaires or should it be the women who save themselves for him?