I don't care. You are not there to please women. Your psychosexual role is that to be a man she pleasures, that she captivates, excites and seduces.

It's very fucked up that most of our mental models for what a man needs to do or act comes from hollywood. Where essentially you have boys acting like women - losers, seducing, sacrificing and winning over the firm popular idealized female. Romance is a female ego trip - written by women(momma's boys) for women. Honestly - it's very weird after you unlock adult relationships to see how much our society is obssesed with teenage crushes and infantilized de-gendered sexual relationships.

Normal relationships do not work like that. You excite her with the life you have, the access she has to your life, the mental wrestling you always win with wit and humor. A woman's imperative is that of being part of a awesome dude's life. Literally by living your best life and just letting her tag along you satisfy her sexual market needs. It won't be super satisfying from a dopaminergic standpoint(because there's no effort on her part) - but the serotonin will flow.

Honestly - incels are just blatantly wrong about women's biology pushing them to handsome guys. It's just society telling women do act more like men - i.e. go for physical traits. But, realistically they never enjoy it, because hunks, especially young hunks have no lifestyle, no status apart from their immediate peer group. Add to that the lack of challenge in getting with a fuckboi and the fact that women now need elite gymnasts and 2 sex toys to get off in the bedroom and you kinda see why masculine frame, i.e. "big dick energy" as the lady folk call it is the single most important differentiator for men.

Knowing that - and I do mean knowing it, not just reading this in a forum, but actually seeing a hot young thing leaving her 10% BF boyfriend just to be fingered in a back alley by a bald, 30 year old, humorless arsehole - that breaks the disney narrative.

That breaks your hope of getting yours once you become a high value man for women (as both male and female twats think) and karmic rewards of unicorns with a piss fetish, but only for your piss, nobody else's. You don't have to be hot, you do have to be a man. Unshakable aloof frame, look like you lift, sexually unapologetic and living in abundance. Then you will be in a position to pick what women you want, not stand in line and depend on momentary female whims... like skinny or big, is it her 14th day of her cycle or her 26th. Does she want cuddles or piledriver. Should she pick romance, or status.... and all that BS drudgery that made men, boys actually as anxious as the clerk at the pizza shop when Karen walks in.

I have self-injury scars on my arm from 10 years ago. They are not thin like razor cuts but also not super thick either.

I have absolutely no idea if women either never notice them, just don't care, or assume they are from something else. But I never, ever mention it and it quite literally has never seemed to impact my connections with women

Get out of your head, women are on board for the whole package deal you have to offer, not most singular traits. If you're doing game and building attraction right it is most likely not going to fuck you over

You handle it by realizing that they're not fucking you over like you think. You're quite literally getting women into your bed. You got them there with a whole package deal, not just physical traits