(Posted this on asktrp previously but that forum is not that active. First time using this website. Its a bit confusing.)
So, I was chatting up this girl at the gym. Initially she was super interested telling me about her workouts and shit, working out near me and all that. As I showed a bit of interest, it seems like she has lost all interest. All this in a span of a couple of days. Now she seems to be running away. Now, I didn't do anything beta like talking too much or showing overt interest. Im an introvert but Im not socially awkward or anything also I look like a gangsta, I just dont talk much generally. Also, I find girls losing interest, the moment I show a bit of interest. I think she's lost interest, could it be a shit test though?
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Women flirt while they work out if they are attracted or not. It's them playing for time.
Secondly: are you sure she was interested in YOU,, rather than excited about talking about HER?
So you listen to her gabbing on and express no interest? That sounds pretty beta.
If you look like a gangsta but don't act like it, you will attracted girls who like the gangsta thing then they'll find out you're not that and bail. You need to be more congruent.
FriedrichEvola 2y ago
I was looking forward to an Ec's opinion on this. I realise now that Im fucking up by being too aloof/disinterested. Need to show more interest. Thanks for helping out mate.
r3z01v 2y ago
Is gangsta her type?
Also, "don't talk much" doesn't mean negesarily I don't blab. In my experience it comes from not having anything effective to say.
Either physical(like a lot of gangstas), or verbal, you do need to hook her. She won't pick you up, she won't seduce you, plan logistics and ride you hard until you fall asleep and just have you wait for it. (and if she does, she probably stole your stash or a kidney)
financehardo420 2y ago
shit test; pull back and let her come to you. it’s like fishing
FriedrichEvola 2y ago
Thanks for the advice.
Scorpion69_ 2y ago
Bruh it aint a shit test. She got bored coz u didnt escalate
FriedrichEvola 2y ago
Solid advice, thank you.