I started my red pill journey 4 years ago, and have made SIGNIFICANT progress from being a kiss-less virgin. I've learned lots of lessons since then and I am at a place better than some people now. I have a pretty good physique, I've pulled some hot women, career/school is doing good. But I just feel like I've bottomed out and can't make good strides anymore. I just feel like I've peaked even though I definitely haven't since I still have much more to build.
I feel like everyone else is living my dreams and I don't know what to do. My one friend hooked up with a really hot milf and he was telling me about that crazy experience. Like something out of a movie lol. Given he is 6'4, but point still is valid. My other friend got my dream job. I don't get it, I'm doing everything in my power. I don't party all the time, I focus on school and work, I go to the gym EVERY SINGLE DAY. Meditate, everything else. I'm lost and I don't know what to do.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
I was like that in college, especially in the beginning. Next thing you know I'm living in crack-head neighborhoods eating beans and rice as a starving college student. It made me very resilient. I just got zeroed out at age 47 and it didn't even phase me because I know I can make it anywhere. Plenty of guys would kill themselves if they were in my shoes.
nfc66 2y ago
So are you making any progress in any of the aspects of life you want to? If not, why?
You say you've hooked up with hot women but you're jealous of your buddy hooking up with a hot milf. Why? Do you feel like you couldn't pull it off yourself? Did you try?
I feel what you're saying and I've been there and still do at times. You have to understand that a lot of stuff is really random and there's only so much you can control. A lot of people that you see as successes got lucky once or twice and made it. That doesn't discredit any of the hard work they might have done beforehand but chance had to strike
You may never get lucky and may never get to where others are. So two options: a) Give up completely. Bukowski would commonly say "I wanted the whole world or nothing". He lived like that too b) Keep improving
I would recommend going with b
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