This girl I was messing around with for a few months left me for a drug dealer short man, during the last bit of this fling she was literally messaging this dude on my bed. I didn’t think anything of it as I believed they were friends.
So anyway a friend posted a picture of us having a drink, so this girl messages my friend and says is (my name) there I want to see him. She turns up and I tried it on with her, she deliberately showed me her phone screen saver which was her and this dude. So anyway I get a little too drunk and ringing this dude to come down.
So the problem I’m having is trying to move on from her because she’s always the first one to view my story, sends me breadcrumbs messages, post pictures of her and other guys.
I know Ams said to never delete a women’s number but he said if a ex girlfriend is showing this kind of behavior, that would warrant her getting deleted. I just don’t want to come across as being butthurt because we are in the friend group. Also I have this dude on Snapchat aswell so he posts pictures of them together, I do t have any contact with him though so blocking him would come across as being butthurt by.
I will also add that they knew each other before I met her and they were dating previously.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated in this kinda painful situation.
Blingo123 2y ago
She’s also living with this guy in a hotel, taking drugs, funded by him being a drug dealer.
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Tell the police, for fun
SheLarror1234 2y ago
Do what you have to do. This is an exception. In this case its because the dude is a drug dealer, and already in a relationship with her before you. Meaning you were her weak monkeybranch. Also, you don't want to get involved with people of this nature; women who take recreational drugs, and women who are in relationships with drug dealers. This guy could also be some jealous, crazy, wannabe gangstar for this girl, and you want to stay away from that.
Think of the situation as a RISK to your life. One day she can tell you to linkup. And with her doing that manipulative, "keeping the flames warm" thing, you agree. Next thing you know your setup, robbed or shot, all because of some drugdealer trying to be a mafia boss, or because her or/and his $$$ supply running short.
delete and forget. Same with the guy.
Blingo123 2y ago
Yeah I get where you coming from, I live in a small city of 100,000 so crime rates are very very low and gun crime is non existent.
You know when you say I was her monkey branch, do you mean she branch swung from me or to me?
It just sucks because I’m 6’4 and he’s like 5’6 and half my weight so I could easily beat him up. Not that I would though I stay on the right side of the law.
SheLarror1234 2y ago
From him to you. She's basically just a harot. Probably a druggie getting discount/free supply and likes the exuberant lifestyle her boyfriend "plug" gives her. Most of these women often associate drug dealers with "mafia alpha boss" as well. Blame media I guess.
And imo even if crime rate was low i would still take that precaution. That would be enough reason alone. The chick might not set you up IRL, but their minds are still on that level of unrighteousness. She's a security risk imo
Blingo123 2y ago
Your right about her being a druggie and yeah I’m going to take your advice and cut her off completely.
Pedal_Moonpower 2y ago
You should be not as m7CH affraid of death as loosing teeth as that would take much time to fix and there is no separate police stats for this. But that on a side, because, don't stick ur dck in crazy.
Dont delete her n7mber. You cant block n7MBE4 you don't have in phonebokk
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
She's stringing you on, block her.
yep
block him too, who cares what he thinks.
Block the idiots and go out and find better for yourself.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
Run Forrest! RUNNNN!!!