Hi guys I'm looking for general advice on how to get and keep a plate cooking for me. So far my plan is to present it as:
- Way for her to demonstrate her love for me
- Way for her to nourish me
- Way for the two of us to build - I will work while she cooks so it's ensuring we have a brighter future
- Way for her to share her culture
Context - I'm mostly seeing FOB Asian girls, they are proud of their heritage and want to share their cuisine so should be easy in that sense. I have a Thai girl who just straight up said she wants to cook for me and now it's a regular thing, but this one was obviously very easy and didn't need any convincing. On the flip side there's a Chinese girl who says she can't cook at all :/
Tooktheredpill 2y ago
“Come on over and we’ll cook dinner together.”
That’s all you need to do and you both cook together, build rapport, kino, and have fun together. It’s that easy, if she’s really into you.
The first time, AND every now and then, you cook together, and every so often, she cooks for you and you cook for the both of you. FWBs, plates, or whatever the label is- those relationships are always reciprocal. Just make it fun and NO serious topics. Save those for your buddies.
Good luck!
whytehorse2021 2y ago
It's all fine until she makes fish flavored cupcakes. Or how about spaghetti that consists of ramen noodles and ketchup? Actually Thai food is pretty good. Enjoy the coagulated blood.
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
If her cooking for you is important, find girls who like to cook for you.
It's that simple.