Hey, i got this motorcycle riding girl in my neighbourhood. Im myself a rider and asker her for her number, so we could drive out with out motorcycles.
She instantly came at me to type in her number. I said I'll write her later. I did after one day, saying we could ride, if the wheater is fine. She said yes.
Then i knew, i would be away for one week and asked her two days later (the wheater was fine) if she wants to ride. She said she aint got time.
So i'll said "fine, another time. Write me if you are free!". She did not reply and did not contact me either.
If i post a whatsapp status, she is the first one to read it. I took a girl home, after this happened and since noticed she looks (sometimes) curiously up to my windows, when shes out working in the garden.
Where did i fuck up? Fucking another one since, no oneitis detected, but damn she is fine and i still want to get between her legs.
Keep on staying busy brethren.
johnnysmallseed 2y ago
If a girl doesn't make time for you then she isn't interested. You already approached with your hand out and she's declining. Don't go back on your knees.
SefSermak 2y ago
Block, ignore and move on to the next girl.
coolsocks00 1 2y ago
As i understand it she seems interested and she lives super close. Resorting to texting her asking for a date in such a scenario seems weak. I would give one shot at a strong approach that doesnt beat around the bush. You can ride your bikes later when you know if she is worth your time.
E.g. approach with intent as soon as you see her next time and set up something within a day or two, no later. If you really dont get the chance in person i would text her with an offer of a wine date at your place or similar showing intent. No asking, just offering.
If no luck you next her. Dont get affected, passive DHV, and she might even get back to you down the line, just dont bet on it.
Alex13 2y ago
I wrote that maybe wrong, i told her that i would write her to set up a "date". After i tried to set up one, she said she aint got time that day (it was the tomorrow at that point).
Yeah, ill try to set something up next time i see her, but if she says no, fuck off with her - bye.
P.S. Thought i made some major fuckups, that i hadnt regocnized, thats the reason i wrote this post.