Right now I'm using coffee bagel, Bumble and okcupid. First date i got catfished on coffee bagel by some 40 year old woman pretending to be 25. Met her for lunch and wow, still did the date but never called her after. Second one I met was on Bumble, pretty attractive 8, southeastern european girl who moved to the US about 5 years ago. Wasted about 2 weeks on her before meeting for a date and realizing we weren't compatible. Pics were accurate, and our conversations were great and felt natural, but she had a lifestyle that didn't work for me. Third date was with a girl I met on okcupid, flubbed that in a mini rebound from the euro chick by making our initial chat too sexual. I'm not looking for hookups and she obviously was only interested in my dick since she tried to get wasted during the date. She got mad when I stopped her from getting drunk (for context she said she rarely drinks multiple times and was a lightweight). Could use some tips, are there better apps around that I don't know about for finding LTR?
Talking to two girls on coffee bagel right now, kinda been taking it easy and not looking for more matches right now. Seems to be going alright with them but idk. Sent out number requests yesterday, but our communications have been slow. Usually takes each of us up to a day to reply to anything. Timer on coffee runs out today so I sent number requests yesterday.
Anyway if anyone knows of some better apps or has any quick tips on getting some better qual matches or higher numbers of them to chose from I'd appreciate it. I'm attractive but a shorty so my dating pool is somewhat limited, only really go for 5'3 and below since I'm about 5'6. Never paid any money for boosts or w/e. I dunno if my profile will be shown to less girls if I use a boost. I feel like maybe once you open that box they will delist you until you pay them again.
SefSermak 2y ago
For Chad 5-percenter: any app is good. For regulars 95-percenters: none.
NeoSpartan 2y ago
I really doubt I'm a 5%er. I'm very short and at best an 8. It still works alright. I matched with 2 girls on hinge yesterday, both are quite hot. One is a single mom though :( but I'm still gonna try and bang her I think :) The other one is a redhead, fucking stoked :D Never ever been with a redhead, she seems cool too. Just take good pics and be picky in your swipes and it works, it is possible to match with girls in your league. The single mom is hotter than me I think, but.. 25 y/o single mom of 2 so...
whytehorse2021 2y ago
I think it's all instagram or snapchat or some shit like that nowadays. I don't even bother anymore. It's a complete waste of time with terrible results for 90% of men.
NeoSpartan 2y ago
The european girl had an instagram with some simps sending her hearts and compliments on it. I don't think instagram would work as a dating app tho, only made an acct to take a peek at hers. I don't think you can browse people by location and relationship status, dunno tho deleted it after the thing with her ended and didn't really use it except to dm her a couple times. Plus, it's hard to imagine a girl who gets virtual upcummies all the time actually dating one of those betas who spam every hot girl they follow.
The apps are def worse now though, which is why I asked the question. Had a shittier profile in 2018, yet got more high quality matches. I'm pretty unplugged from the pleb scene though so maybe there is a new app that more girls use? If anyone knows of one I'd appreciate it. I would have thought with covid going on it would have been better in 2021, but it definitely isn't. Tinder especially is a total shitshow now. I got like half the likes I got last time with the noob boost and like 8 of them were fucking trannies lmao.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
Yeah all I get are non-passing trannies and fat chicks. I think of those apps as an advertisement for your brand and a buffer between you and intimacy. My profile is basically an advertisement for a woman with low n-count who is fit, feminine,friendly, submissive, cooperative, and wants to be a housewife. So basically it excludes 99% of modern women. Nowadays if I want sex I just walk up to a prostitute and negotiate a price, which is usually cheaper than a date and always ends with sex within a few minutes of getting to a room. You can try to game them and get passionate desirous sex like Rollo talks about if that's your thing. Get one for a whole weekend and go for that girlfriend experience. I'd rather just have a list of hoes I put my dick in and cum and it just depends on my mood which one I take. Sometimes I want puss in boots, sometimes I want shorty, sometimes I want chicks with dicks, etc.
NeoSpartan 2y ago
Huh, well I just want a normal girl who is attractive and doesn't have a bunch of weird baggage or tattoos or a high notch count. Never used a hooker. My profile is like pretty much blank, a couple sentences about my main hobbies. I tell them about myself after we match. Dunno who rollo is. I deleted tinder anyway, I think it probably has too bad of a rep at this point to be viable for what I'm trying to find. But like I said, I'm not really in the loop on things. Don't read the news, don't use social media, etc. Just go to the gym, hike, read, work, do mountain biking and shit like that and travel places. I'm like a guy from 1950's cryostasis or something just ignoring the filth and trying to live his best life in this clownworld. Mostly happy until recently but finding a suitable wife is fucking hard to do in LA. I have to swipe left a lot... no tats, no noserings, natural hair color, nothing in the bio about politics and has to be under 5'4 since I'm a manlet and want to be at least a few inches taller than the girl. I'm playing on hard mode and it sucks, swiping through all those broken minded girls is depressing tbh. Wish I lived in Idaho or somethin. Might do after I save up enough to get a decent down payment on a house and prices stop being so retarded.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
Oh, well, after lots of studying women's profiles I learned that you just make a list of demands. It sounds counter-intuitive but that's how their brains work. They don't give a fuck about you, your hobbies, etc. They give a fuck about what you are, not who you are. Are you rich? Tall? Handsome? Muscular? Stick a photo of you all muscular in a stereo-typically rich place and watch them come running.
However, since you want a wife, I can make a call and get you a fit, feminine, friendly, submissive, cooperative Muslim woman from Indonesia where my wife comes from. You'd automatically qualify as tall, rich, and handsome as a Westerner and their society keeps hypergamy in check.
NeoSpartan 2y ago
Right, I've considered that. On that okcupid app I get like dozens of young really hot girls from the SEA and stuff messaging me, but idk, I'd have to fly out there right? It's def something to consider though. They do have a much better culture than the USA does, I can't stand a lot of the girls in the USA's personalities. I might do it at some point. I'm not rich though. Muscular and moderately handsome is all I got really. 5'6ish and make like 50k since I only work like 30 or so hrs per week most of the time.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
Yeah, I hear ya. An average American guy is a catch in many places in the world. It's like day and night difference. I gave up on modern women in 2005. The juice isn't worth the squeeze.
NeoSpartan 2y ago
It might be fun to be an uber chad lol. Maybe I'll go to SEA next summer or something. If they are really more trad there it might be worth bringing one back. One of my buddies did that, he seems happy with her, been together about 6 months now. Plus she's way out his league lol. Might be a good idea, thanks :)
whytehorse2021 2y ago
Or he's way out of her league. It just depends on which side of the ocean. Western women have their heads so far up their asses they are losing great guys to Asians that are average.
NeoSpartan 2y ago
She was already over here, came from east asia like 5 yrs ago I think. But yeah, it's slim pickings with western women. The majority of them suck. This shitty culture and environment has rotted a lot of their brains.