This girl I've been dating for a few months got into a car wreck and has tremendous medical debt piling up and she has no insurance (we're in the States). I've felt REALLY good about this girl up until this happened, but now I have my doubts. She asked me for "help" without asking for money. I did not offer to pay her medical bills as that is an insanely unreasonable request IMO. We're talking a minimum of $20k here. Instead I sent her info on how she can get financial assistance and other options. Talking to her recently she causally mentions that another guy she's dating is paying all of her medical bills...which is mind blowing to me that any man would simp that hard, but she is very attractive (like a 9 or 10). I don't think she's lying, BTW. I don't think the simp is getting anything out of this, but hey, simps are gonna simp I guess.
This next part is going to be very hard to believe so I understand if you don't, but she isn't sleeping with me or the simp guy footing the bill. She's a virgin and is saving herself for marriage, which I can respect. Now I'm conflicted if I even want to continuing pursing her. One one hand, I know the simp guy has spent tons of money on her before, and still after that she and I still dated and got as physical as she's conformable with: making out, dry humping, feeling each other in our underwear. I know this sounds juvenile, but it is what it is.
I mention this because I'm confident that I am the "Alpha Fucks" in this situation and the simp guy is the "Beta Bucks" - which clearly is the case. Maybe I should just continue to demonstrate my value though other means. You can't be mad a hypergamy and women wanting financial provisioning, after all. The part that doesn't sit well with me is that I'm not going to pursue a woman that's only looking for financial provisioning. If she doesn't want me for who I actually am as person, then fuck her. I don't know if this is entirely the case with her, but that is my stance and I'm firm on it.
TL;DR - Her simp is paying all her medical bills, but she's not fucking him - is she still worth pursing? If so how do I beat the simp in non-financial ways? Thoughts?
Mark4812 2y ago
It always cracks me up when a guy says he 100% knows for a fact whether a woman is fucking a guy or not. Maybe she is maybe she isn't but the more important point is with women you only trust what they say when it can be proven. Millions of years of evolution as being the physically weaker gender has given women a far greater ability to manipulate us than we can them. They all do it and most do it through deception. She's manipulating the other guy into paying all her bills. What makes you think she's not manipulating you? Protect yourself at all times brother.
Second of all, the Red Pill Golden Rule of sex is this.....When a woman makes you wait for sex, the sex is NEVER worth the wait. Showing her you're willing to wait for sex is a demonstration of low value to the extreme. Remember, women MAKE rules for betas and BREAK rules for alphas. If she gives you the no sex till marriage rule she views you as a beta. Saving yourself for marriage is naive and childish - not something to respect. No marriage on earth can be healthy without both sexual and emotional chemistry. What the fuck happens if you get married to someone you've never fucked and then find out you're not sexually compatible? Just have shitty sex or no sex the rest of your life? It shows you she's emotionally immature and has way too high of a perceived value on her pussy. If she can make a man jump through the hoop of marriage for it, imagine all the hoops she's going to make him jump through to get it AFTER they get married? Get the fuck away from this chick is my advice. Way too many other hot young women out there
anon55 2y ago
Simp is getting duty sex. and you arent getting shit. That makes 2 simps.
Musicgoon425 2y ago
Your hamster is going strong son. You really missed alpha by a few miles.
So you're going to waste your time and our time (I read this bullshit) with a girl that won't fuck either of you.
I guarantee the right guy comes along and she will gargle his load.
Find yourself some other options and stop being pathetic. And remember to lift.
Doubleaxe90 2y ago
It seems like she has at least two simps, one for money and one for attention.
Typo-MAGAshiv 1 2y ago
No woman is worth "pursuing".
Is this the only woman you're seeing?
Random_IT_Admin 2y ago
No, I'm seeing other women as well.
At_least_a_M 2y ago
Go fuck other girls. If she end up letting you smash then so be it, but keep your options open as it sounds like you are developing oneitis for this girl.
On a side note, I can hardly believe that we as a society are living amongst men who are this level of simp. It's mind boggling why a man would pay for a plates bills at all. It's even more crazy since he's not getting anything out of of this situation. I sure hope the dude is very wealthy, but then again I can see this girl trying to lock him down as a long term provider if he is (sounds like that's the case).
Simps make vomit into my mouth. They are so pathetic.