Its me, M23, 1,75m / 5,8, 88kg with good physique, from a big city in germany.
I get along with girls pretty well and get a lot of attention. I made a lot of progress not falling into thr bestfriend category anymore but still have a huge barrier infront of me expressing my interest / sexual interest towards girls.
I had a little success experience about 2 weeks ago by openly flirting with a girl in front of someone else. By, at least a little bit, expressing my sexual interest in her, her interest in me increased a lot.
I am so scared of expressing my interest tho. Is it fear of success, of rejection, of creating a socially awkward experience?
Then the is my other big construction site: I live in a big city in germany with countless drop dead georgeous woman whom I just cant bring myself to approach. Im getting closer to doing it. Approaching them in my head, getting less nervous about the thought of it. I even did it already once or twice and it is such a great experience. little else makes me feel this alive. I love it.
Hope there is someone experiencing similar problems.
ItchyNipple 2y ago
https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8agtt0/my_experience_as_being_direct_vs_indirect/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb
I found this post myself, guess Im kinda gonna follow his advice of being cave-man-like direct