This hot me like a frying pan- So we know about alpha seed and beta need. But what does it mean if my mother had me with the alpha and I’m the seed that’s now 23 years old. Is this why I never respected my stepfather and part of the reason why I can’t wait to cut all ties with my mother? I know Rollo goes in depth with these intersexual dynamics through his essays; does anyone have one I should read? Thanks and Godspeed fellas. Edit: where’s the side bar? I go to the section and it’s blank for me
Vermillion-Rx 1y ago
For whatever reason the red pill me tribe has no sidebar content. The other ones like asktrp tribe do
Or alternatively:
https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/i-created-a-pdf-of-the-sidebar.358435
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Yeah Rollo has an essay about promise keepers. It's a very long, complicated, introspective psychological read but well worth it for guys like you. https://therationalmale.com/2012/11/21/promise-keepers/
I would take what Rollo says one step further and suggest that you resent your mother for taking all the resources of your dad that would be going into you if she had kept him around.
Skev77 1y ago
I’ll look into it. Thanks
Durek_The_Bald 1y ago
No, I don't think that's the reason you never respected your step father, and can't wait to cut ties with your mother. It's too simple an explanation, and sounds like rationalisation after-the-fact, because you discovered a mating concept in theory.
If a basic human mating strategy, no matter how unadvisable from you step father's point of view, is your only reason for resenting your mother and your step father, you're being autistic about TRP. Surely there must be far more to this than what you've alluded to so far.
Also, Rollo's work is very much big picture stuff. He doesn't dabble much in the nuances of human interaction and relationships. So you'd be well adviced not to stick everything of his onto the people in your life, and have that as your only explanatory model for everything. Yeah, your mother is a woman too. Did you expect her not to be?
Unless you were neglected or abused growing up, be grateful to the people who have sacrified for you, and don't put unreasonable expectations on them, just because you're just beginning to see "the light". People like your step father might not have been privy to the same information you have.