Hey need quick advice brothers! I'm about to see my girl right now and she knows I've been flirting with her auntie and I know she's going to bring it up so how should I lie? I've already got hit with an ultimatum by hence why I'm seeing her right now. The auntie was feeling me but she kept saying my girl little sister said I was dating the older sister already which I denied of course and acted surprised. My girl ain't let me clap yet but is educated and taking the same courses as me in university while the auntie looks more freaky and down bad. Any advice on what way I can finesse her with a lie?
Guyandtheroadtovictory 2y ago
she's going to bring it up so how should I lie? I've already got hit with an ultimatum by hence why I'm seeing her right now
I always choose truth because I take accountability for my actions. Your given example (tagged above) made me feel that something wrong is going on here. Could be that auntie is an escape and soloution.
As lawyers say - we all lie, but the the bottom line is that - are you in line with your gut feeling, principles - are you feeling ok in your situation? Based on that you should lie purposely, I dont think so.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
Treat it like a shit test. She'll probably say "So you're flirting with my aunt?"
Agree and amplify:"Oh yeah, and your little sister too"
Psuedo-Gaslight: "What flirting? Got an active imagination haven't we?"
Pressure flip: "I bet you think I'm flirting with everyone because you have trust issues"
Agree and pressure flip: "Yes I did. Did you think we were exclusive or something?"
Disagree and pressure flip: "No I didn't. Did you think we were exclusive or something?"
Ignore
Misdirect: "What's that smell. Did you fart or something?"
Ridicule-reframe(nuclear option for mega bitches): "I bet you're jealous because she's got a nicer ass"
Sinful_Legacy 2y ago
Whoa this is really helpful I'll make sure to use these tactics well
Vermillion-Rx 2y ago
You think it'll stop here? You're gonna have to cover that lie with more lies. And then more after that.
If you lie your way through situations you'll be in a rabbit hole of lies that you constantly have to remember and keep straight
Sinful_Legacy 2y ago
I'm decently good at using my persona to conceive a web of lies that I can make myself believe and treat it as the norm with her. Thanks for the warning though as a slip up may occur from me if I go this route
Vermillion-Rx 2y ago
No problem