I was seeing this girl 8 months ago. I want to make it clear that it was never an official relationship; she wanted to get engaged, move in together, and so on, but I told her clearly that the conditions weren’t right. She had too many red flags, and I didn’t enjoy spending time with her except for sex.

That said, unfortunately, I saw her for almost two years, and I was never convinced enough about her to be completely emotionally indifferent to her. The only thing I cared about was her dog.

However, I realized later that her lifestyle had influenced me; she represented everything I wouldn’t want to see in a woman. I hated every part of her.

Now, she’s contacted me again, probably looking for sex—knowing her as I do. Currently, I already have a plate that gives me peace of mind, unlike her.

I know full well that the standard is “no contact,” but that applies to previous failed relationships. I’ve never been in a relationship with this woman, and I repeat, I’ve always made that clear to her and to everyone else. Do you recommend I ignore her or use her as a cumdumpster? If I see her again, I don't want to hear a single word on her life, just sex.

Am I looking for excuse to see her again or my question is legitimate?