Because we were trading notes on r/TheRedPill and figuring it all out in real time????

How am I supposed to stand out now? It’s like I’m the same spot before I founded the red pill in 2019.

It's clear you are stuck/fixated on misconceptions and overthinking it. Work on your social skills and get in shape

Read the sidebar

race to the bottom devaluation. guru after guru repurposing, writing a new book, doing new workshops, dropping new video lessons, capturing everybody with a pulse in their sales funnel, etc.

nobody wants to read a book so they don't read rational male and a neo-guru condenses the book into a short form video. so there's tons of people persisting on base level condensed RP knowledge like work out, get money, stoicism, monk mode, pua, whatever.

so the information out there is cheap and everywhere and many people know about it. i date college girls and they use terms like mogging, red pilled, lil bro'd (dont worry they all love me but i little bro them all because you're so hot). they say shit like "ARE YOU PUSH PULLING ME?!?!?" and "dude do you think you're just going to neg me and i'll like it?" etc

when a woman is obsessing over a top man she resorts to reading manosphere material to try to understand him even if he may not be reading it at all.

So this bothered me enough to create an account...

You are missing the obvious. It doesn't matter that the red pill is not being actively gatekept. Most men choose not to follow it regardless. Just look at how many men are obese today. According to the red pill, they should be shredded. They know this; They don't even need to be red pilled to know. Yet they don't act.

How many men are actually capable of plating multiple girls at once? Most will fold when she pushes for a relationship.

Not long ago, a story popped up on this very site about someone actively trying to teach a friend about the red pill and it didn't work. The overwhelming consensus was that it was an exercise in futility. Everyone had the same experience.

It does not matter. Read the sidebar, follow the advice and you are way ahead of the average man, because even amongst those trying to be redpilled very few actually put in the effort.

I always wanted the red pill to become more mainstream. Actually in the long term all men can be winners if they change the market place. We want less slutty women -yes women who do not put out so easily just because a guy acts a bit chadly. We want more respect, less expectation of simping, more rights for men in law and less tolerance of bad female behaviour in wester culture. All that can only happen with men being more red pilled.

Of course the darting market will react to it -both women and men. What it is important to see is that the late 20th/ very early 21st century dating market was an outlier. It was a freak show. Women were mega sluts who almost defied Briffault's law in that they were sleeping with men from whom almost no benefit was derived except the girl felt affirmed. This was only possible in a market in which the value of women was plummeting. Older women were actually telling younger women this was good for them and empowering. This could only ever be short lived.

These women were very easy to game short term. but recently there have been a few re-setting factors in the market. Men treating women as lower value, shorter term things that are more easily manipulated and deserving of less simping is one thing. This could be called red pilled.

Men actually being honest about what they want is another thing that is certainly red pilled -they want pleasant natured women, submissive and low body count. This flies in the face of the feminism. Feminism was a big driver of the explosion in sluts that were easy to access by pretending to be a bit "alpha". If women are reacting to this even in a very limited way, they will be becoming less slutty, less attitude filled, harder to game short term. If it is just starting to happen -well good.

It is true that it is a zero sum game in some ways. Men are in competition at least in how they drive the market, just as when we buy gold we are all basically in competition. If no one else wanted the stuff you could pick it up for the price per pond of scrap lead. If men are content to let women slut around, absolve them of responsibility even for their own upkeep and still simp out on them, then women will be easy to pick up short term for fake alpha types.

But women are not gold. They are not incorruptible and every young. They are not fungible like 1 ounce gold eagles -one woman is not as good as another. Women will be as incorruptible and valuable as the market asks them to be (well a bit less actually because they are good at pretending and manipulating). Men are becoming more savvy. Women are reacting. Well good because they were trash. 95% of them are certainly not what a man actually wants long term. Its about time they get less easy and less entitled.

What??

You develop a personality and a life instead of coming on here larping and bitching. These tools aren't someone's personality. FFS...

Because I use to be a fat guy that was red pill aware which was rare 5-6 years ago and still was able to get woman,

Something that you wouldn't have been able to do if the gatekeeping had happened like you said it should

now being into self improvement and only barely getting anything. How am I supposed to stand out now? It’s like I’m the same spot before I found the red pill in 2019.

Yeah... you can't be the fat guy any more. Sorry :)

If you spent even a fraction of the energy doing the things that you should be doing instead of coming here to whine like a woman, you'd not be having so many issues and would be far ahead of any competition.

I mean fuck's sake, we got dudes that keep coming back here still having issues after months of us telling them to get out there and do the fucking work instead of expecting a Pussy Puzzle Password. Those are your competition.

You can't figure out how to surpass them then you're just being a lazy pud.

Who let the femboy in?

Jesus, dude, grow a pair. This isn't a competition, it's shared knowledge. There's a fuck ton of undiscovered money out there to be made. There's a fuck ton more women than men on this planet. You just gotta have the balls to go out and get it.