Ffs man you quite literally post the same problem every single time on here

Go make friends and go talk to everyone.

90% of talking to women is the exact same as talking to everyone else. There is almost no discernable difference between talking to anyone and talking to women

The other 10% is game and being attractive and not being unattractive

Dude, you just DO NOT want to take advice and you just want to bitch and whine about it month after month because you are being too anti-social to fix your social skills

Edit:

You could quite literally talk to them like a platonic friend and a fair amount of them will still be interested if you have any value. You don't even need to run game at all on many of them if you have value and have social skills and just make basic plans

It's not optimal but the bar is actually that low if you've done anything to take care of yourself. The average man is nowhere near any semblance of competition

Flirting & small talk in general is like oil. It needs a proper warmup before it becomes smooth. Cant expect an engine to run smooth on cold oil mate.

Small talk, escalate, fail, repeat & after a few encounters the muscle memory kicks in & you're back in the game.

^ Based on my own experience btw

here's a top tip:

Just talk to women as if they were some random dude. Seriously. Hear me out.

We all know that putting pussy on a pedestal is a losers game. But also, it gives them the ick. I think you need to rethink the entire concept of 'game'. You say 'my game is pretty tight'.

Next time you're talking to a woman, just pretend she's not a woman. Just pretend she's a cool dude that you kind of know around campus (picking uni as an example). Just chat with her, poke some fun in a kind way, have a few jokes. And then say ' ok see you around' and walk on.

This is the low key, ultra casual, no stakes, low investment interaction that you need. You need to actually NOT CARE where interactions lead to. True outcome indifference is key. You cannot fake it. you have to be genuinely disinterested in the outcome. you must be acutely aware that there hot women in tight yoga pants are everywhere, and that none is irreplaceable.

Some people call it nonchalance. But women see this as confidence and it's the mark of a guy that has his shit together, does not even have to try to pull.

I do quite a bit of public speaking, sort of lecture events. A coach once told me to pick a random friendly face, and just orientate your lecture to them. Just explain it to one person, and then the presentation feels more natural. Actors do this too. The imagine that they have an audience of one person.

So talking to women, just imagine that she is a dude. You don't need to impress this dude, you're just chatting, making friends, enjoying the hang.

That will get you 90% there. That is what confidence looks like to a chic. No need for game, no need of negging or dissing. No need to put in a 'performance'.

Most things to do with women are about your pain price point. How much are you prepared to work to ingratiate yourself, how much time and energy are you prepared to invest and how much shit are you prepared to put up with in return for the interaction?

The older women get the more pain input they tend to require. So as men get older they tend to go off women more or less. Women are more miserable, requiring more effort for less gain. Maybe you are just starting to experience this?

It's called maturity. It's the same old shit, different woman playing the same games as every other woman does. It's the male equivalent of the woman who hears constantly, "You're so beautiful." It gets old really fast, and it sounds like you're just burning out. Which is not necessarily a bad thing.

You're coming from a place of scarcity instead of abundance. You want to be a pussy slayer, but instead of being able to take it or leave it, you're putting it on a pedestal, then getting angry when they're not handing it to you on a silver platter. Women can sense that, in your body language, your expressions, your tone of voice, and even in the way you touch them.

The problem is you're focusing on the end game instead of what's going on in the present. You have to pull them in by being in the here and now. You have to set the tone and rhythm of the interaction, and guide them into the flow. It's just like any other dance: you lead and they follow, but they can't catch up and get in sync if you're two steps ahead of them.

Here's the thing bro. This isn't a race. Slow down. Think before you open your mouth and be mindful. Being honest is great, but deliver you words in an easy to digest package.

You can be all gas and no brakes. Move slower with intention, respond slower after thinking about what to say and work on simply having fun. It sounds like you're busy trying to get to results and not enjoying the flirting process.