Hi all
I've lived in England most of my life. When I moved to Asia I found it much easier to get women like 1OOOx easier there were more girls / dates than I knew what to do with.
Even though the success is great part of me thinks that its cheating or taking the easy way out to "swap to easy mode" by moving country. Like people who cant win on the hard mode of a computer game switch to easy mode.
Is it wrong to feel like its giving up / taking the easy way out? Like you cant cope on hard mode so you switch to easy mode.
I think it would be nice for a middle ground level of difficulty instead of the current seemingly too easy or too hard options that we currently have.
Anyway I guess you will think I'm crazy for asking this and if you dont like this question there is no pressure to answer I'm just interested in what you think.
My attempt to answer - I guess you will say who cares as long as you are getting hot girls.
mattyanon Admin 1mo ago
Cheating??? Oh hell no. You take the hit on MOVING COUNTRY. You deserve to reap the rewards.
Is it cheating to be born handsome? tall? female? Probably yes.
Is it cheating to maximise what life gives you? Oh hell no.
If you want harder, go for hotter girls.
If it's still too easy, then tick that part of your life as sorted and work on other things :)
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 1mo ago
1) You don't need other people's permission to do what you enjoy. There's nothing wrong with what you're doing. If it works for you and you enjoy it, why not?
2) most women in the west aren't "a video game on hard mode". They're awful bitches who don't know how to treat a man. There are good ones here, but they're few and far between.
3) I would also caution you that women are still women anywhere you go. Their culture and personalities might be different, but the underlying nature is all the same. If you bring one of them back to the UK with you, I'd give it 5 years tops before she's infected with the feminist mind virus and no better than the women you were trying to avoid.
For my part, I never had trouble getting laid in the US once I learned what I was doing, at least until I fucked up by getting married. If I end up single again whether due to death or divorce, I'll likely stick to here. I just don't find most Asian chicks all that attractive. I mean, there are beautiful women in all races/ethnicities, but most Asian chicks look like they haven't gone through puberty yet and have janky teeth.
But do what works for you and makes you happy. It's your life, your decisions, and your results/consequences.
Again, just remember that women are still women anywhere you go.
Limey111 1mo ago
If you dont mind me asking why did you get married? Why do you regard it as a fuckup and how does your wife treat you?
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 1mo ago
Because I was in LuuUuuUuuRrrRv and young and naive and still plugged in (no Red Pill back then except as a prop in "The Matrix"). There were also other factors at play, such as an upcoming deployment to Iraq.
Because in a normal relationship, the ability to walk away unscathed is a man's most powerful tool, and I'm too financially intertwined to do that.
Mostly great, most of the time. But there are occasions where I question my own sanity for having allowed a woman in my life for this long.
Limey111 1mo ago
Thats a good answer thank you. Its more of a concern that I am giving up or something I guess. Some Asian women are hot athough I do like English girls and its easier if you have the same language and culture.
No-Stress-Cat 1 1mo ago
Reminds me of a girl I met at a street dance. I swear she looked like she was 12, but she was 23. As soon as she started talking like a 23-year-old it broke my brain.
Musicgoon78 3 1mo ago
I can't believe you're bitching about getting laid.
Go out in a wife beater and sweatpants with gravy stains on them. See if you get women when you are looking like shit.
I don't have problems getting women, but I don't think it's hard at all. Guys want bigger problems instead of success. Challenge yourself in other ways.
Limey111 1mo ago
I wasn't complaining at all I think you misunderstood me.
First-light 2 1mo ago
As with most answers it depends. Do you want to reproduce with a woman of your own people? If so, this easy mode is only good for training. If not, it is not that important. It is also worth noting that it might be optimal to breed with women both of your own kind and of other peoples. There is strength in the maintaining a successful blood line and there is also value in injecting a little new blood if it is of high quality. If one is trading high on race, one can get good genes.
If you are planning on returning to Blighty, then practise the things that will help you when you get back there. For most of us these things are the longer term things -how to manage her shit form day to day- not the actual getting into her underwear.
A good confidence boost does us all good. It can't really be bad unless it wastes your time and money or teaches you long term bad habits
Limey111 1mo ago
This is a good answer thank you
Musicgoon78 3 1mo ago
Sounds racist as fuck to me bro. What is this bloodline sperg shit?
First-light 2 1mo ago
I think you might have been easily triggered by wording or by topic. We live in an age where liberals have said you are not allowed to use certain words or even talk about certain topics.
If we were talking dogs, horses or even strains of lab rats there would be no problem. But humans and suddenly its racist. Racist seems to be a very wide set of people these days. OK fine I am a racist but I still advise you not to be triggered by it or you will end up like a liberal getting triggered by everyone who does not hide what they really think behind walls of politically correct language and then you won't actually be able to discuss some topics that it might help to discuss.
No one disputes that there are differences in physical ability between races. Nor that there are differences in resistance to certain diseases. These alone would suggest that there was both risk and benefit to your children in breeding with someone outside your own race as well as risk and benefit to breeding with someone inside your own race. Believe me there are also some small mental differences -as one would expect both strengths and weaknesses.
The first cross between breeds usually has some problems and the advantage of hybrid vigour. I have myself seen it raising my own mixed race children. I have also raised children with women inside my own race. So I both know what I have seen first hand and, though I may be called a racist for saying these things, I also would hope that you would accept that I can see there is as much good overall in other races as in my own for I have lived with women of a race that is not mine and appreciated them for their strengths that are not my strengths.
At present westerners trade at a premium to their SMV in most of the rest of the world. If they "trade on their race", they may well be able to secure a healthier and more mentally capable woman than they could have back at home. This is an advantage when looking to reproduce. It is to some extent offset by the disadvantages that your children will have of having to choose and work to know where they belong in a way that you never had to. They will have the advantage of a foot in two distinct cultures but in the end they will probably have to choose one and make a go of it.
Over time a small flow of genes into a race tends to improve it while retaining its unique positive traits. This is very true for animals. Humans are animals too.
Racism is always a concern you will have if you breed outside your race. We currently live towards the end of a time of great racial tolerance in the west (greater rights have been given to outsiders than ever before in history). This will not last in its present form. It may not last at all. It is probably still safe to breed outside your race if you come from a place where your own race is strong. Its funny but in a small town where almost everyone is the same race, so long as you grow up there and your father is accepted as a good man, looking a bit different means nothing, you still belong to the group. Go to the big city and looking a bit different makes you belong to another hostile group. It won't go well over time for those who belong to other groups as a period of unprecedented prosperity ends and competition between groups sets in again. Who can even say which group will win in the end.
Believe me I think plenty about race. I need to for some of my children but I won't ignore facts. There are racial differences both positive and negative as races have grown up adapted to different conditions. Crying racism will not stop groups closing up as resources get short. Race is not the only thing that decides who is in a group but recently in history it has become a big flash point thanks to liberals. If we hide form reality and cry racist, we are not helping anyone.
Musicgoon78 3 1mo ago
I didn't read all of this lengthy tome. At any rate, this myopic form of thinking generalizes race based on tropes. It's all nature, no nurture and pays zero attention to individuality. This has nothing to do with political affiliation and everything to do with autistic assumptions. So yes, I think the whole focus of this is absolutely needless, baseless and irrelevant. It keeps humans divided, which in turn is deleterious.
As an individual I can think for myself. And I think this is pure autism.
Musicgoon78 3 1mo ago
Your whole argument hinges on treating people like livestock and calling it realism. That’s the issue. You’re not talking about culture, values, compatibility, or individual character — you’re reducing entire populations to genetic buckets and then acting like anyone who pushes back is ‘triggered.
That’s not analysis. It’s just essentialism dressed up as evolutionary talk. Humans aren’t dogs or horses, and dating isn’t selective breeding. People are individuals with their own personalities, histories, and choices.
If you want to talk about relationship dynamics, cool. But once you start framing race as destiny and partners as genetic upgrades, you’ve left the realm of useful advice and wandered into ideology. That’s why I called it out.
First-light 2 1mo ago
You are being rather rude. If you can't be bothered to read what I wrote and you are just being rude, I think I have little to add.
Yes culture is a very big part of a relationship and of raising children. You got that bit right.
Musicgoon78 3 1mo ago
I think it's rather assumptive to make sweeping generalizations and then label me as triggered and liberal. If you can't handle criticism don't post. The whole idea of a forum is not to homogenize the information. I real life you're going to have your views challenged. And that's exactly what I'm doing right now.
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 1mo ago Stickied
Guys, both of you knock it off with the bickering. You're both better than this.
MusicGoon, I think you misunderstood what @First-light was getting at in his first comment.
He was actually in favor of introducing genetic diversity into your bloodline, which is pretty far from racist. Dude even has a black baby-mama and a half-black daughter, if memory serves.
Musicgoon78 3 1mo ago
Yeah I'm from a multi racial family.
I do argue when I think it's important.
First-light 2 1mo ago
Would you like to discuss this in private? Typo has asked us to leave off, so it can't be here but I would be happy to have a discussion with you through messages. Just drop me a message if you like.
Typos is right. I live with a black woman from a different culture. She is not the first either. I have two mixed race children. Issues of race and culture greatly interest me as they are part of my day to day life. I have also in the past been turned off my own land by racists and lost a property with no compensation. I know how racism feels.
I am happy to talk with you as long as you like, so long as its polite and considered.