The reason i ask is becausa i want to bang some asians, as objectifying as it sounds, i just want to. And, given their usual preferences and my fenotype, i"m usually not their type.
I wonder if this a damaged way of going forward and increases the odds of pedestalizing
I also was watching "Industry" show and that Marisa Abela has a body...... So, you see, is this "simping" bad?
Baron 4w ago
Short answer: No.
Long answer: No.
But still always have an adundance mindset and try to racially keep a still more open mind. That's it. I am also attracted to few black women like Candance Owens and thought of banging the shit out of her. It's normal. Women are women.
However I can't stand hoodrat sheboon neurotically hyperemotional miserable ghetto black women at all who are in fact always hyperemotionally loud and always obnoxiously crying. Maybe, cuz it reminds me of certain women from the country I live in, such as Latinopoulou. If I ever bang Latinopoulou I would leave the next morning and literally give her a fake name beforehand so she won't know who I am ever because I can't stand irrationally hyperemotional women and neurotically crazy women. I find them in fact really mentally weak and emotionally unstable.
We all have a type.
mattyanon Admin 4w ago
well, it's "phenotype" ........ if you wanna use big words, spell them correctly :)
Look, your question is the wrong question.
You don't need others approval.
You don't need OUR approval.
You wanna go bang some Asians, have at it.
Baron 4w ago
To be honest, Asian women look neotenous and literally younger and men are in fact scientifically attracted to youthful women (no pedo). It's not rocket science. Asian women embody soft, feminine characteristics and actually act feminine (although they can turn into tiger moms so beware!) so men are attracted to those features both mental and physical.
GeorgeIII 4w ago
Only the ones actually from Asia behave feminine. The Asian girls born and raised in America usually act the same as American White girls. Where I live we call these American Asian girls “ABGs” (Asian Baby Girls). They often come with the pitfalls of the White girls.
Baron 3w ago
I know, they even do the bird hands.
Lone_Ranger 3 4w ago
There is nothing inherently wrong with having an 'asian fetish'.
But.......
Be aware, it is going to make you much more prone to oneitis or 'scarcity mindset'.
I had a mild asian fetish as a late teenager. Baning two asians was enough to cure me of that. It's not that I no longer am attracted to asians, it's just that I now realise that they are not noticeably different / better or worse than any other kind of woman.
My advice to you is this: select for character. I have selected for hotness in the past, with dreadful results.
Musicgoon78 3 1mo ago
No. Having a preference isn't simping or bad. It just means you need to put in the work to get what you want.
Now go fourth and lift and start talking to all the hot Asian girls you see in your journey. Go out and slay my brother!
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 1mo ago
It's OK to have preferences. However, some caveats:
1) women are women no matter the race or ethnicity. Don't go expecting them to behave better or treat you better just because they're of some particular race or ethnicity.
2) if you act weird about it and fetishize them over their race and ethnicity, it might put them off. Treat them the same as any other woman you're aattracted to.
OK, but how is that relevant to the rest of your post?
None of what you've said is simping.
Simping is when you fawn over a woman and give her shit (money, validation, gifts, attention, etc) with the hope that she'll notice you and maybe bang you someday. It's an uneven exchange of value; you're giving her what she wants and getting nothing in return. Just talking to a woman and trying to get with her isn't simping if you do it right.
Examples:
posting a comment among thousands of other comments on some woman's social media post saying something like "so beautiful [drooling emoji]" is simping.
walking up to a woman you noticed smiled at you in the grocery store and saying "hi, I'm ____. What's your name?' and trying to get to know her a bit is not simping.
Lone_Ranger 3 4w ago
spot on as usual, esp that bit about simping.
First-light 2 1mo ago
We sometimes get into types. Its OK. I seem to be someone with a type. Never tried to make it happen but it happened to me. Its good not to close ourselves off to other possibilities. You don't want to miss something good.
There is really only one risk with having a type, that is that you start to think they are special or have some special way to handle them that gets the results you want. There are very small racial differences. there are small cultural differences. Even when these two pull together in the same direction, they don't add to much. As they say about most things racial and cultural. There is considerably greater diversity within each race than the difference between the average of any given two is. Women are still always women.