I‘ve been invited to this chicks home party for halloween; she wanted to see me and was implying she was dressed up as a sexy vampire and I can be her edward cullen. I got there and I was having fun with my friends, talking to everyone. I was trying to initiate and isloate the given chick (we matched on hinge) and tried to kiss her. She told me she feels like I‘m mad at her and it would be better to see us in that kind of setting for a different time. In my head I knew this is not going to work and I‘d never meet her again. She then proceeded to fuck another guy at the home party after talking to me.
Rationally, I have no idea why I‘m upset. I literally don‘t know her but maybe my expectations that I thought I‘m gonna see her and potentially fuck her made me hurt my ego. I feel like I got cucked for some reason. I literally have lots of women, even made out with her girl friend later in the club and ended up picking another one up I brought home; but I still can‘t shake the feeling off that I got a bit „embarrassed“. I am usually very stoic and these things would never faze me, but it was so in my face that I kinda got pissed off.
Curious about some insight
No-Stress-Cat 6d ago
Ah, rejection. You didn't get cucked. It's not anything wrong with you. You win some, you lose some. That's just how the game goes. You still got laid in the end. Sounds like you had a good night despite the setbacks.
Durek_The_Bald 6d ago
Sounds like something not to overthink. It's a normal emotional reaction to having been outcompeted for a particular pussy you wanted. Being stoic isn't about not having emotions, even negative ones. It's how you deal with them, and act upon them.
I'm curious to know why you think she said she feels you're mad at her. Because it sounds like you'd been acting a certain way there - some kind of butt-hurtedness seeping through, or something.
Mountainman 6d ago
Why would you be curious about some thing that didn’t happen?
Yeah a hinge match is going to give a fuck if some guy she just met is mad or not. Like what the actual fuck are we talking about here
moneymakingmitch 5d ago
No idea why she said I am mad, maybe projection because she already made her mind up who‘s she‘s gonna fuck, which in theory is obviously fine, we‘re all single. But literally there was no reason for me to be mad, not like me at all
SeasonedRP 2 6d ago
It's.understandable why you'd feel this way. She invited you, implied she felt a certain way, then behaved totally differently when you arrived. Ignore this worthless twat and don't respond to any messages from her. Girls like her are bad news.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2d ago
This was a her problem
And the fact she said you would be mad at her and "then" fuck a guy "after" that makes me think she already did something with him before you tried to kiss her
That sounds like some very covert trickle truth womanese from her
Cut the loss you cannot get this upset that a slut fucking dudes is being a slut especially at a party which is particularly slutty
She already had the dick on tap. Don't take it personally
Mountainman 6d ago
I call bullshit. You wouldn’t be writing this if you closed a chick.
moneymakingmitch 5d ago
I‘m currently studying abroad, I‘ve had sex with 11 women within 1.5 months, unsure why I should be lying, I literally can‘t recall with how many women I‘ve made out with. It‘s more about the ego thing, me trying to initiate, wrong expectations from my side, me trying to get to her but she ends up fucking another guy „infront“ of my face.
Mountainman 3d ago
If you’re studying abroad, how did you get invited to a Halloween party? A woman every 3 days and you’re hung up on one? Doesn’t add up, even if she was the hottest of all. I wouldn’t give the least bit of a fuck one I’ve moved on to another woman. Let alone 11. You’re Shaq right now, stuck on a missed free throw…even though you won the championship lol
Dxmx99 2d ago
To be fair, it can be embarrassing. It sounds like you invested a bit too much into her.
You might think the guy she fucked instead looks to you as a cuck because he could say "I fucked slutsname buddy get good".
Either way you're looking to feel accepted now because, even if you've been getting laid, you're still dependent on the validation of "winning girls". You were on a good streak and got caught off guard.