You need to try to answer your own question in these posts, per the new AskTRP rules.

Also this is retarded, she's going to ruin your life for 4/10 pussy. Jesus Christ

Ltr material you ARENT attracted to? Not a thing. Dont put this girl through the wringer of false hope just exit and try with someone your attracted to.

Let's avoid people who talk freely about killing themselves.

What would you say if it was your son telling you that?

Here’s the thing, I’m not physically attracted to her.

Right...... don't bother.

If you don't want her, it's a waste of both your time.

. She told me if she kisses a guy and then gets broken up with she'll kill herself (maybe not literally but she is saving herself).

oh she can fuck off with that emotional abuse of you.

I also feel like I have options as I'm good looking ( not as good looking as when I used to lift before working crazy hours), I am working in investment banking this summer and will likely go full-time next year, so I will be making six figs at a relatively young age (but no work life balance). I’ve spent maybe $300 on the first girl, so it's feeling like a money sink now. I'm just not excited to be around her but she'd be great LTR material.

All money spent on women is a sunk cost. Don't do it.

I'm just not excited to be around her but she'd be great LTR material.

A great BORING long term relationship? Fuck that shit...... is that what you want? long term and BORING?

Should I keep seeing the girl I connect with emotionally, even though I’m not that attracted to her? Would really appreciate some honest thoughts.

No, that's a friend right there.

Stop kidding yourself.

This is some serious blue pill programming. Your story sounds like:

"This guy is so perfect, but I'm just not attracted to him. Chad on the other hand is hot as fuck, but we got nothing in common."

Your first problem is indecisiveness. You've trapped yourself into thinking you have to choose between one or the other. Decide what you want: an LTR, a fling, or both. Then go get it. Or them. Or more.

Your second problem is you are chasing women. Dropping big money to try to impress a girl is just stupid. If they didn't earn it, then you don't spend it on them. $300, I'm fucking that chick in the ass later.

Your third problem is you're coming off as weak. Take the lead. You're going to do this. They are going along for the ride. You'll find women to be way more agreeable when you're calling the shots, and they'll just go along with it.

Finally, if you just can't decide between the two, leave them both alone. Neither one of them is giving you what you need except a fucking headache. They're just women. It's not worth stressing yourself out over.

She does not sound quite right. Avoid women with mental issues. Nerves are OK but this seems like more than nerves. Kill yourself if you have a breakup? If she is even 5% serious about this its a huge red flag.

I once got with a woman who was awesome LTR material but I didn't fancy her. It was a huge error. I got zero hassle in the home and got a great cook who shopped cooked and washed up. Always washed my clothes, never refused sex but I did not fancy her. I got another lady to run beside her, then another, then another. It turned into misery for everyone. As a man you have to fancy her.

You are only 21 years old. You have decades of pussy ahead of you. No need to obsess about one.

Just keep trying to escalate. If she doesn't reciprocate, withdraw your attention and go hit up other chick's instead. She'll get the memo.

If she does fuck you, of course, then that's great for you. Just keep in mind that it's "just your turn" and she will most likely want to try other dick at some point.

What the fucking fuck is this shit!?

You have a "should I" in the title and didn't try to answer your question. If you did, you would have your answer.

You haven't read the rules and I doubt you've read the sidebar with this question.

Anyways, why would you waste a month on a chick that you don't find attractive and isn't giving you sex? If someone gives you a hearty shit sandwich for free are you going to eat it?

You're letting this sub-par chick. Manipulate you massively. This is because your frame is super weak. At any rate, I'm not even sure that any of this is going to make sense to you.

Have some fucking standards, get laid and really read our rules and the sidebar. This is a fucking disaster of a post!

Yes.

"... a spot now where I feel like I have to choose. She told me if she kisses a guy and then gets broken up with she'll kill herself"

Dude run. Every time a girl mentions to you she will kill herself if you do this or that, run. Maybe shes just joking, but always take this seriously.

You dont even want to imagine what would she say or do in later stages of relationship. Cut her off.

Did you read the sidebar?

Personally I think you should go for it. Everybody needs a slump buster every once in a while. Mine was a petite latina named Alexandria.

If anything, it will help you fuck her better, knowing that at any time you could throw her back onto the street without a care in the world.

Go get you some stank brother.

While it's good to see you on this forum again after all this time, it's really disheartening to see your lack of progress. This post reeks of a lot of the same bad mental models you displayed in your last bunch of threads (many of which I see you have since deleted).

I’m not physically attracted to her

Then why are you wasting your time?

she'd be great LTR material

Does not compute.

1) how on earth is she "LTR material" if you aren't even attracted to her? If she's not fuck material, then she's not FWB or plate material. Sex is the foundation of any heterosexual relationship. No sex = no relationship.

2) "LTR material" is a bad phrase that betrays bad thinking.

I'm going to quote a section from HumanSockPuppet’s Guide to Managing Your Bitches in full:

A long-term relationship CANNOT be your end goal. You can only be OPEN to the possibility of having one.

Men are the gatekeepers of relationships. Since a relationship is what you have to offer, you mustn’t just give it away. It must be a reward she earns in small doses for inspiring your trust and devotion.

I understand that many of you want a LTR with a good girl – sometimes a series of flings isn’t enough to fulfill you. Believe me, I sympathize.

But winning a LTR is HER problem, not yours. Handing a girl your devotion won’t magically make her worthy of it. When you WANT a LTR too badly, you place your focus on the idea of having a relationship instead of evaluating the girl. You become fixated on your fantasy relationship and selectively ignore the things happening right in front of you: her deep character flaws, her indiscretions, and the red flags.

You must regard women as candidates applying for the job of being your girlfriend – a supporter, a lover, a comfort away from the everyday battles. Don't just hire a bitch because you want the position filled. Make sure you vet your candidates fiercely and hire the right girl for the job.

This features prominently on the sidebar, which you either never read or never digested.

Don't even let shit like " LTR material" enter your mind until you've been fucking her for several months, and she has proven herself in ways besides just sex. And again, sex is the bare minimum!

"LTR material" is bad phrasing that betrays bad thinking about how this shit works. She can only prove herself relationship-worthy, and if you choose to grant her one, that relationship can become long term simply by not ending within the first couple of years or so. You don't commit to long-term at the start; you just commit to exclusivity or whatever the terms of the relationship are, and if it lasts, it becomes long-term.

I’ve spent maybe $300 on the first girl, so it's feeling like a money sink now

...and this is why you don't spend money on a chick you aren't already fucking.

Edit:

I missed this at first.

She told me if she kisses a guy and then gets broken up with she'll kill herself (maybe not literally but she is saving herself) [emphasis added]

Never put up with or stick around someone who threatens suicide.

If she doesn't pass the boner test, why are you punishing yourself by even considering a sexual relationship with her at all, be it a committed one or not? You got some sort of pay-pig/findom fetish or something?

Ever consider that sometimes being alone is better? That "relationship get" isn't the ultimate purpose of your existence or the best achievement you can ever obtain? That it is something you only do if you are satisfied with it in all aspects, which in your post you clearly are not.

She told me if she kisses a guy and then gets broken up with she'll kill herself (maybe not literally but she is saving herself).

Dude, fucking run, don't walk, run away.

Your entire post is fucking retarded. Smack yourself. Smack yourself until you rediscover some sense of self preservation. You've clearly identified issues with both women but are still screwing around wasting time and energy on them and asking neurotically retarded questions instead of doing something constructive like moving on to better prospects or a self improvement loop until you find better prospects.