IMO worrying about her past is insecurity and looking for problems. If you like her, you like her. What matters is now and future.

About you not marrying a slut is naive, because almost every woman was slut at least at one point in time. If thats your mindset, just go and buy a virgin somewhere in Indonesia or wherever they sell them.

Dumb. All you're looking for is a problem. You're going to find it. You can judge the quality of the relationship from when your first met to the present. Digging into the past is a great way to torch the relationship.

Your need to know notch count is severe insecurity.

You're never going to know so better not to think about it, in fact you should try to avoid knowing absent any red flags that she is a stripper or some such (the dynamic here should be her trying to find out about you, not vice versa . . her dismissing 'when it comes up' is reversed). You might find this enlightening: https://rationalmale.substack.com/p/guys-who-dont-fuck

If you are going to make the mistake of marrying a woman, in your prime earning years, then what you should really be worried about is her capacity vs yours in earning a living, her family quality, her intelligence. Marrying a 25 year old who only fucked one guy but works at Walmart with a mother late on rent while you make $200k/year is a recipe to get absolutely annihilated in divorce in 10 years while she takes your 2 kids. Her intelligence matters because that's what you pass onto your kids, ditto family they will be your kids' relatives. The smartest move my married friends and family have made is marrying women with rich families, that doesn't protect you completely but it starts to when they are gifting big down payments and college funds and the like.

treats me like a god.

Six months

Won't give her exclusivity

Bruh wtf. You got god treatment after 6 months and won't entertain exclusivity without a title yet you're wondering about relationships

Marriage

Slow your fucking horses down

The problem is you guys embark on sheer autism with this alpha shit. You could have

1) gone exclusive at this point if she's that good to you and you want to see more 2) let her yap and she would have told you more of her past. They always tell on themselves are you cutting this short/being judgemental in the moment? 3) you don't need to be this anal about it. If you're even entertaining the relationship question after half a year you could at least be exclusive. If you don't give a shit about that why do you care

This is alpha autism honestly

If you don't care about relationships than wondering about her past is useless. Clearly you do. Secondly, I've had hoes of 2 weeks tell me more than this. Are you stopping her from sharing her shit/judgemental?

Women definitely reveal things about themselves. I've even noticed that they sometimes exaggerate their experiences if they feel the reality was too boring.

It's like they instinctively know the past matters to some extent, so they subtly reveal details to communicate their value.

With that in mind, digging into a woman's past only leads to headaches. I used to live in a very religious country where virginity was a given, yet women were acting just as slutty, if not more, than Western women. My conclusion is that present behavior is the only real deterrent to honest intentions.

Lmaoo fucking a hoe for a 6 months and already thinking about marriage.

Of course past matters for anything serious, unless you're one of those dry dicks who marry to touch a tit. Masks fall sooner or later it's just a matter of time.

Search theredarchive on the topic, you'll get more insight.

You should marry her ASAP.

By 35/38 you should be after a divorce with some invaluable experience. Its worth paying for that exp with the divorce money.