Ive notices that in field is a thing only in pua communities, what im looking for is in field footage of someone approaching strangers and casually talking to them, i wanna practice and master conversation with no intention before moving to cold approaching, i wanna see how its done successfully the try to emulate it.
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SwarmShawarma 1y ago
get torrent of Tom Torrero's few Gb pack of all content ever released
Beamerboy1 1y ago
Where do i find it?
SwarmShawarma 1y ago
redpillchool-torrentspecials.red
Mightvhave been sized by the FBI
Beamerboy1 1y ago
I paste to google what you typed but it says that no there's such website exits
Musicgoon78 3 1y ago
No. Don't do that. You need to have your own style. If you imitate you're going to look fake and creepy. Just talk to people. It's normal. You don't need crutches or a template. Conversations don't work that way. Just chat.
Beamerboy1 1y ago
Obviously im not going to just copy another dude, i just wanna see what works and how these guys keep a conversation going,
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
I think watching in field is a good way to see what works and doesn't work. Some times guys think running game is like 100% game and a lot of infield dispells this. It also shows normal female reactions to normal game.
I agree dudes shouldn't be copying styles but infields make it more realistic for guys who have the worst possible imagination of what game is supposed to be. But yeah, it's terrible if you're trying to just be that guy. Don't do that
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 1y ago
The problem arises when they don't want to take the training wheels off the bike and try riding on their own.
Musicgoon78 3 1y ago
I agree with this. Although I fear advocating for this because uncalibrated guys don't know how to use the tools we give for the correct context.
This is how we get a bunch of retards parroting Tater Tot and wondering why everyone treats them like a complete moron.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Right. 100%
Boosted_Arrow 1y ago
Troy Francis has some videos. I watched a few and they're decent, they give you a broad idea on how to proceed.
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 1y ago
Nothing beats experience.
Just fucking strike up conversations. Make observations about what's going on. See how the other person reacts. Go from there.
If you lean too hard on (heh) shit YouTubers do, you'll sound fake.
Don't be afraid of bombing out. Everyone bombs out sometimes.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
Tricky.
Many many of the PUA "greats" were found to have faked this. Cold approaches that were really warm approaches, in some cases even paying models. You can spot some of them but not all.
You basically can't practice it except by doing it.
Understand that this is game of comfort, interest and investment (applies to men and to women). Know and understand these concepts and apply them when you talk to people.
I'll give you a fuck load of pointers:
Be as god damned motherfucking attractive and well dressed as possible. Smart, interesting, perfectly groomed, as attractive as you can make yourself. It matters and really really helps with approaching both men and women. Get fit too, long term.
Be the person who talks to EVERYONE. No game, just chit chat with literally everyone, any chance you get. Transitioning from chat to game is fucking easy. The hard part is talking to people and making it work.
Understand that talking to strangers is a bit weird, people are terrified, some people won't be into it, and learn to be ok with that and not take it personally.
You're gonna have to lead. Learn to talk, learn to ask a FEW questions (but not many), learn how to make people comfortable, interested and interesting. There's a million pointers out there on this, but avoid questions as much as possible.
Here's some concrete ways to get started:
If you are buying something and there is no queue behind you, you can chat to cashiers and staff. Be aware that they don't have the option to leave and are financially forced to be nice to you, so don't overdo it, but you can get a bit of an interaction going. Can be nice practice and it's a really really "soft start" if you're new. It's nice to warm up, but realise they have to be there and can't leave, so the results can be slightly misleading. Good warmup though.
If you're seated, talk to people near you. Be sideways to them, look sideways at them, tap on shoulder or just talk to them, and "Hey, can I ask you a quick question.... do you think this tie suits me or should I go with pink?" Opinion openers like this are easy, but it's harder to transition to mutual interest. It's good to end and restart conversations. Works best if you have a friend to talk to in between talking to them and building comfort.
After a few back and forths, you want to balance between your interest and investment and looking like you might leave. This is tricky to get right, but just trying to get it right will pay dividends.
The "hook point" is where they don't want you to leave: understand how this works and how to behave before and after you reach it. You're not ready for it yet, but this is where you're heading.
Beamerboy1 1y ago
"learn how to make people comfortable, interested and interesting. There's a million pointers out there on this, but avoid questions as much as possible"
This really contradicts the popular advice most people give "just ask questions bro", if i should avoid questions how exactly am i supposed to make conversation?
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
asking questions is fucking terrible.
If you want to follow popular advice then go and follow it.
If this works for you, then do it.
If you know the popular advice, why are you talking to us about this?
Without asking questions.
You don't ask questions when you're chatting to your friends. You just talk. Asking questions of strangers fucking sucks - people don't like to give too much away and they don't like the interest to be one sided.
Talk...... and if she doesn't talk back, tell her to what to tell you.
"Tell me your name"
"Tell me what you do for a living"
"Tell me your favourite breed of antelope".
It's not hard dude....... but it works much better than asking questions. You're higher status than her, act like it.
SwarmShawarma 1y ago
Maybe in 1998 iT was good advice because no one knew better but shortly after PuA figured it out ( or more likely systematized it and shared thanks to the internet)
Musicgoon78 3 1y ago
I was going to say Denmo, but homeboy got metoo'd.