I don't mean like a cliche opener or those cringy ones. How to start a conversation. Have my own ways, but just want to hear everyone's approaches.
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Fireshock 1mo ago
I approach in nightclubs. I try to do something situational, but if I'm not feeling creative or charismatic at the moment, then my defaults are:
From front: Extend a handshake and when she accepts say "My name is XXXX" From back: Tap her shoulder, when she turns around say "You're fucking cute, what's your name?"
Both of these work primarily because of my eyecontact, not my looks. I never bother with engaging her group as others here have suggested. I aim to get such a good initial reaction from her that any member of the group would seem like an asocial asshole if they interfere.
Lone_Ranger 2 1mo ago
How about just being natural?
Here's the thing - nothing beats spontaneity and naturalness. You don't need to be hilarious.
A bit of open hearted banter and confidence is all you need.
One liners and big set pieces just reek of needy incels that have 'studied game' from PUAs.
The best approach doesn't even feel like or look like an approach - its called being social, being friendly. Women love friendly social people. Half the time, you don't even need to be friendly and social to that particular girl.... it's enough if she sees you being friendly and social with other people. There is very good reason for this - women want to be with popular guys. They equate popularity with social status - has been this way since we were living in caves.
Just be friendly, popular, social, chatty. Do not be alone, spergy, awkward, retarded.
Learn how to carry a fucking conversation - with everyone, the bus driver, the cashier, the cleaning lady, the airport check in guy - just be more social.
Social guys get laid. Anti social guys who walk around with their ear buds in not talking to people for days, who answer in monosyllabic grunts... they don't get laid.
SSBPikkon 1mo ago
Realest advice ever.
Musicgoon78 1 1mo ago
This is basic conversation skills. If a woman has a band shirt on, comment about it. Ask what her and her friends are up to tonight. Just say hello. Openers are for faggots. You've got to think on your feet. Open your eyes, watch the environment and talk to people about what you observe.
EurasianChad 1 1mo ago
This is it right here.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
I feel like most men don't know how to socialize any more. And just try to wet panties in the first line.
SSBPikkon 1mo ago
Yeah, the worst one is complimenting her looks. You already made her bored.
coolsocks00 1 1mo ago
Nah. With a good delivery you can say whatever you like, really. If i dont come up with something situational i'll regularly start with a compliment and it works fine.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
Yeah, guy #2029261 that told her she's cute that day
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No-Stress-Cat 1mo ago
Me: Hey, you're cute. My name is Cat, what's your name?
Her: Hi I'm Candy.
Me: Take off your panties, now.