In addition to what others said about her not respecting you, I would add that you should set boundaries and be ready to walk away from the relationship if she crosses them. I did this early on with my wife. She would just flat out lie for no reason. Some kind of people-pleasing behaviour. I set a boundary that she never lie to me again and she didn't.

One thing you must understand about women. They do not want advice from their boyfriend/husband. They want their boyfriend to make them FEEL emotions, both positive and negative.

So as your boyfriend, you should praise her when she does something good, and chastise or withdraw attention from her when she does something bad. That is how you lead her to living a better life, which ultimately gives you a better life too.

Another thing to keep in mind is that women tend to listen to their female friends much more than any male. They want to feel "in" with their friends so they often do what their friends tell them to do.

So a few things here.

She may not "like" the advice , example is it is not fun, not a good thing, I want a different view that is better for me. Yup I know, but we are talking women here.

I think all women do this to a point. My LTR does this sometimes and I will give her the info and move on. Even with math, I do it in my head and she never believed at first that it's correct, but after awhile she's just like, hey what's the % increase from these numbers and takes it as word.

But, the more a LTR doesn't take your advice, it is a red flag. Especially with bigger things.

Like What advice does she listen to you well with, versus not. The more important the topic, the more she should pay attention. If you aren't on the same page, that can cause issues down the road.

Ugh, this gave me flashbacks to some of my early relationships >30 years ago, and the way they played out after recognizing this phenomenon and trying to correct it.

The bottom line here: She doesn't respect or look up to you now, and nothing you try to do will change that. Based on my close friend's experience, if you marry a woman like that, she'll go on to openly scoff at your well thought out and relevant advice and leadership, and impulsively follow that of comparatively irrelevant people in her life. That's how this plays out.

You can try one last stand. Demonstrate to her bluntly, if she wants to go forward through life with you it will be with attention to and respect for your input on important matters. The likelihood that she'll stick this, starting from where things are now, is about nil however.

Never give unsolicited advice. If she's not living in your Frame, she lives in someone else's, like social media, friends, tv etc. Bitches take the shape of the container. It's all about respect. Whatever is given for free is not valuable, economics 101.

It's essential to read the bitch management and training posts in the main sub.