Yo, a few weeks back I posted this thread that I wanna give you an update on:
https://www.forums.red/p/asktrp/318913/had_one_of_the_weirdest_experiences_of_my_life_and_i_don_t_k/7794076/
I did it and went on with the story. She texted me eventually and met at the club a few days ago. She was all over me once again, even though she was cold af through text. Started telling me once again how much she values our time spent together and our talks. We kissed a few times and got to my place after the party, but nothing other than kissing happened since we were both so tired and so fucking drunk. Two days after I text her if she wants to come to my place again for drinks; she replies 'maybe we can' but then she ghosts again lmfao.
Now, the only reason I'm invested in this is from a purely theoretical game perspective, as I think this is a very different scenario from what I've encountered up to this point (and I've had my fair share of women).
What y'all think? How can a chick be 100% invested every time we meet up in person, but get 100% cold and ghost for days multiple times while texting?
Once again, before you say 'just soft next', 'she's crazy' and other stuff, I am not emotionally invested in this, but I find it super fun to meet a somewhat crazy chick that doesn't fit the normal game rules and I thought it would be interesting to discuss it.
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
This is normal. When she's with you, she's with you. When she's not with you, she's with the other guy/friends/family/etc and not with you.
Imagine a woman's brain like pans on a stove. As the food cooks in each pan, they get shifted around depending on which pan needs the immediate attention.
The most important pans get shifted to the front, and since there are only 4 burners, something has to get shifted to the back. More than 4 pans, something's got to come off the stove.
Here's the good news though: at least you're one of the pans still on the stove.
Would I next her? Not just yet. Doesn't sound like she's done anything outrageous yet. In the meantime, you should add more pans to your stove.
ionvas2 1y ago
I have about 2 plates in my stove atm + my ltr. But I just loved the thrill with this one and the fact that it's fun as fuckn, nothin else. What you said makes sense, but the difference between face-to-face and texting is like nothin I've ever seen before. Every time we met she just ignored everyone else and followed me around all night long, while making what could be counted as love declarations lmfao.
MidgetSpinner 1y ago
You could say... it's almost like spinning plates.
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
Yes. Women have plates too.
MidgetSpinner 1y ago
They're the original plate spinners. Masters of it.