There's a girl who i'm not that interested in but i'm fairly sure she would be down to have sex..but how can I directly message her? I don't want to take her out waste my time. If she declines i don't care so it's a win / win situation. But what's the best way to approach this? Be super direct and ask her straight up? if so how would I word it? Should I just say h ey want to hang out and have some fun? ;) Or say want to get a grab a drink and have fun after? or just say want to have sex?
how do I go about this?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
If you're that sure she wants to have sex and would easily want to get close just send her a couple token texts just to feign that you give a shit about conversation, preferably about something cool you're doing at your place, and then just text her saying
"Hey do you want to hang out?"
If she wants sex she'll come over. Sloots gonna sloot man. Trust me, if she's actually dtf and that's all she wants she'll come over. If she doesn't you didn't game her properly beforehand, didn't give enough plausible deniability, or she's not interested enough, there's another guy in the picture, or some combination of those
If she's DTF she'll answer favorably to some variation of "are you down to hang out?" Or a specific plan at your place. If not you've made some inaccurate assumptions about what she wants
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Then you have all kinds of logistical problems to work around that are not going to be answered in a single comment.
Try to go to hers. Or make a date closer to hers and then try to go over because of how close it is
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Maybe someone would have a better answer than me. If you can't get her over to yours, which is the easiest compared to going to hers, than there is a whole depth of game you have to use for that
You're gonna need a separate question from this post of how to pull for casual sex when your own place doesn't work. It's not impossible at all but is harder
Just trying to hang out might not cut it and has to be done differently
Maybe I'll have a better response after sleeping but your obstacles make this question much harder to answer than when I first answered it not knowing you had those obstacles
dongking 1y ago
Skip those blinky smilies and overtly sexual ideas. Women still wants some plausible deniability, even if she's into you.
Set it up like with any woman. You decide on logistics, she can accept or decline. You escalate, she can accept or decline.
If she's into you she'll make everything very easy, that doesn't mean she wants to feel like a whore. Unless you're a legit Chad. Considering you're even asking this question + can't even host her, I have doubts that you are Chad, to be mildly frank.
Bulba 1y ago
Why can’t you take her to your place? work on that first.
Of course you can game your way to fuck her wherever you want but if you’re living with your parents or flatmates, focus on getting a grip on life and things will be easier
User4566 1y ago
Ask if you want to watch a movie together
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
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Ping her, invite her over. Be ambiguous.
But it all works much better if you flirt with her and go forwards/backwards with her for a bit first. Just don't let her be a time or energy sink.