recently texted with a girl. She sent me a few photos and she looked overweight in the photos but not that fat. They werent old photos as she told me that she took new nudes for me.But most her photos were eiher upper body, ass or face.
When she came to meet me today she was atleast double the size that I imagined. She was so overweight that she completely covered my single bed.
I am sure asking someone's weight will get me blocked. But what is a good waay to avoid land whales ?
Seagram7 1y ago
More often than not, big means fat, curvy means fat, athletic means fat, skinny means fat, in shape means fat, and anorexic means fat. Fun means fat, sweet means fat, exciting means fat, prefers not to say means fat, and no photo means fat. There are more fat bitches online than there are at Wal Mart on triple coupon day. Again, all are perfect 10s in their minds who demand to be pursued like a winning lottery ticket. Seven skinny photos and one plump photo? Add 10 lbs. to the plump photo and that’s probably who you’re dealing with. Several seemingly skinny minnies started doing the whole “I’m not your typical skinny Barbie doll girl” in their emails to me when their photos clearly showed a typical skinny Barbie doll girl. After convincing them to text me a pic taken that day, yeah... Fat.
Bulba 1y ago
Just ask for a quick video call before you meet. There's no way to catfish on a video call ( yet ).
Hooktenay 1y ago
I have a feeling I would still not know.
She would probably video call me from her bed where I only see her face and her upper torse. I also saw that in the photos. I imagined her to be like 200lbs but in real life she was more like 400
Bulba 1y ago
I mean if her pictures look like a catfish and on top of that she always appears on calls from a weird angle then you already have your answer.
pocketroxx 1y ago
Almost always if they take pictures like that, upper body only, weird angles, and look kind of overweight but not fat, they are nearly 99% of the time actually fat.
Without a doubt. You wont find a better predictor than that. So asking for anything more, wouldnt really give you more clarity on the situation. Thats as much as youre gonna get, realistically.
Fortunately, I do like girls who are thick with nice asses. Like not a 120 pound skinny girl, but give me a 150 pound girl with nice legs and thick ass, average weight not chubby but still firm stomach. These girls turn heads in public. Im willing to deal with very little chubbiness, but usually you can tell these bombshell girls are legit, they dont take photos like the true fatties would. They take normal photos and you can see their hourglass shape with a little meat on them. Because I love these thicker girls (not chubby), I have encountered a few borderline ones that almost passed my radar and have developed an eye at weeding out the true fatties.
Funny story I lived in Cancun for a bit. On Tinder I matched with a latina girl, i knew she was big. But she had sexy proportions, huge ass huge tits, not in a BBW way. I went into the date knowing she was something different, i felt like experimenting a new body type. But to my surprise she was a true fattie. Like, 350 pounds, her head was as big as a watermelon. Thats the only time I was "catfished" by a fattie but honestly going in I knew she was big maybe 200 lbs but with good proportions, just not that big, and i thought she would be one of those rare bigger girls with epic proportions. Her tits were HUGE but felt like deflated soccer balls with no firmness at all when I squeezed them. Shes the only fattie i hooked up with and i felt like shit after.
Hooktenay 1y ago
Exactly what happened to me today. This girl was also like350 pounds when i assumed 200ish
pocketroxx 1y ago
Yeah it was awkward trying to kiss her. She literally told me to climb on top of her. She couldnt kiss me from the top. Im a big guy, 200 lbs lean. When I was on top of her it was like I was on a sofa. She was wider than me. I had to kiss her from the top, i felt emasculated af.
I could only fuck her in missionary too. Doggystyle, was too difficult i gave up trying and obviously she couldnt go on top. When i fucked her the skin made a weird noise, like really loud pop noises, all the excess fat she had made the pounding loud and it wasnt the good type of echo you normally have when pounding a girl. It sounded like the beat of fat drums. She actually had good hygiene, but it still smelled weird like a hint of a fat person's odor down there. Once you get a certain weight your sweat smells like fat..
After i nutted, I insisted she jacked me off to finish, i couldnt get hard again and fuck her anymore i had lost all attraction after the first nut. She was really nice and pleasant though, but thats all a fattie has to offer when they know they catfished you and they get sex from a hot guy..
Luckily I have a short term memory. I quickly forgot about this experience, i dont let it affect my self esteem or whatever. I view it as an experience, an experiment if you will. Sometimes in life you need to try all flavors. Skin colors, body types, ethnicities, see what you like. Now i know i can never have a fat wife, something i knew about obviously, but its different to see it in practice. I will be miserable with a bbw woman. No matter how good she treats me, or how skinny she used to be. If my future wife becomes a legitimate fattie outside of an extreme circumstance that she can recover from, we are getting a divorce, my friend.
Its also a lesson for the future, next time youre really horny, or in a dry spell, i wouldnt even entertain a bbw woman. I would know its not even a bit enjoyable, its literally a waste of time.
Hooktenay 1y ago
Speaking of smell, she did have a really weird smell. It was like a mixture of spit/smelly saliva and old trash. Weird because she told me she showered.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
Did you still fuck her?
Only the fatties will block you!
Only the ugly accuse you of being shallow for liking pretty.
Only the old will condemn you for liking the young.
Various solutions:
Outright ask their weight. 90% of fatties and 10% of cuties won't tell you.
Ask for a pic of their waist or tummy.
Meet in public first. Highly recommended for lots of reasons!
Get them on video.
Hooktenay 1y ago
I couldnt get an erection.
Also "what is your weight" will getme blocked 100 percent of the time
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
Most slim girls are proud of their weight and will happily tell you.
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
If you're in doubt, you're not in doubt
MyBoyJob 1y ago
A girl not posting a full body shot is a huge red flag. Other than that...look for other discrepancies, does the photos she posts not match her stated age? Do they look like they are from a bygone part of her life? Etc...etc...but no matter what you do on online dating, you will find yourself with a land whale. I usually just use them for practice, and then make up some bullshit excuse of why I can't be with them, and move on
Typo-MAGAshiv 1 1y ago
LMAO this reminds me of my experience with a fatty back in 2003. We met on Yahoo! Messenger and frequently webcammed when we chatted. She had a cute face, but I never saw anything else on live webcam. Her profile photos were all at the infamous MySpace angle, and MySpace hadn't even been created yet.
I'm a big dude, and at the time was in phenomenal shape thanks to the Army. I was about 230 and lean as hell.
She was easily heavier than me, despite being like 5 inches shorter.
I fucked her anyway. I wish I hadn't.
That experience taught me to watch the angles, and women with nice bodies want to show them off. Even the more modest ones who don't show much skin will want you to see their hourglass figures.
If she only shows her face, or does weird angles, she's fat and trying to hide it.
ThrowawayAccount_2k 1y ago
Fat girls usually take pics from a downward angle where they will put their phone above their head and you can only see their faces and titties. Look for the collar bone, if you can see it she is prob not that fat
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Look for the collar bone. If you can't see it she's obese.