Recently I met a girl through my sports club. She is a 9.
I spent a couple of days in her city (40 miles where I am) and on both days I invited her out and we had a great time. Logistics didn't allow for much escalation and she seemed a little resistant, by the end of the second date she asked me whether we will see each other again and I honestly said probably not because I am not sure where this was going.
Sounded like she had a bit of a panic attack when I left and I came home to a couple of long messages about how she needs to be ready blablablabla to which I just replied sure we'll see what happens and left it at that.
She came to my city recently on a visit, and texted me. I wasn't in town so I couldn't meet, and I suggested she stays on for another night to which she said she couldn't because she had other commitments. I left her on read. She then sent a "how are you?" text which I just ignored.
Then she sent a text "are you sad that we didn't meet" so the interest is somewhat there. Not sure what to reply at this point.
I inquired and she is in LDR with someone in another country. To me this could be the signs of monkey branching.
I am not sure what to reply to that text, and how to take this forward. Ideas?
Axlerod9999 about a year ago
If you wanna fuck her then do it but think 100 times before you get into an LTR with this hoe. She's in a relationship and still trying to fuck. She has no integrity. Just a common street whore at this point
Temerity18 about a year ago
Have logistics on point. And do a first day lay preferably. Prevents this kind of situation.
Vermillion-Rx Admin about a year ago
She's playing games, stop validating this bitch. Ghost and block is need be. Move on to real prospects, she is wasting your time and you're allowing it
kv2_0833 about a year ago
1) "by the end of the second date she asked me whether we will see each other again and I honestly said probably not because I am not sure where this was going. Sounded like she had a bit of a panic attack when I left and I came home to a couple of long messages about how she needs to be ready blablablabla"
Very well done here, you got a good response from her, but I'm wondering how you never got a chance to escalate after 2 dates.
2) "sure we'll see what happens", Fuck bro you fucked it, it's honestly best to not even acknowledge when they go off like that. They're trying to make you play by their rules, imo ignoring is the best option here.
Tbh just ignore her, anything you send her is detrimental here, dw about her if she comes around she will. Guys think it's about what they say, but tbh here she wins if you say anything. You can't really be the one to take it forwards is what I'm thinking from what I'm seeing based off what you wrote, if you're the one that does it, you will get treated as an orbiter.