Having a party at my house tonight. I have 2 male roommates who rent rooms in my house. 3 girls coming. One is probably "meant" for me if I am reading the room correctly.

Problem: friend group went to a club a couple months ago with these girls and girl1 and I danced/grinded/groped for like an hour. Then she told my roommate that she thought I was him. Haha. Guess it was some kind of way to let me down easy or something?

Anyways, I think maybe she is coming for me. Looking for advice on escalating with her again and getting her up to my room. And not having her back out this time.