I read a guy on here talking about this recently I think but can't find the post again for advice. Yeah so me and LTR have been together 1 year 7 months not living together but sort of considering it. LTR is good mostly some shit tests here and there but sex is good and she's good to me etc.
Yeah anyway she told me she wants to go see this magic mike type live stage show with her married friend and I was like uh yeah I don't know let me research it first and I did and it actually looks like a bunch of well planned dance routines and only goes for 90 minutes. Like the guys look like absolute chads and I know the women are going to be horny as fuck but I figure well if she goes to that and comes home to me then it's a win win?
I see if you're on a bridal party night thing you can get called up on stage and pretty much dry humped or if you pay extra as a normal attendee you can also get special treatment aka double team dry humped by chads etc. But she's just wanting to buy a basic ticket like where it's like no special treatment just watching.
Yeah idk like I honestly do trust her like she's been fucking solid so far and I have no reason not to trust her. Part of me is insecure but I also think it's a good time for me to pretty much show her that ultimately idk what she does so long as she fucks me good and treats me well? (that being said I don't think she is out to cheat on me).
She said to me how she just wants to go and have a fun night out and that her friend is only visiting the area for 2 weeks. She also said "If you want to you can even come with us.." which I don't know how to approach lmao.
But yeah like I fuck her good and often, she's a good chick, no big issues, just unsure how to approach this..
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Terra 1y ago
If you feel adventurous:
Hey babe I have decided you are free to do as you like, but I have one condition. It will cost you $150 but I will treat you later to xxxx. Here you see website with escorts and they say in description no sex involved. Buy me this Mexican one so she can Cook for me when you're away. I always wanted try home cooked Mexican food.
Importantly don't discuss or argue.
Just tease, like. Come on babe don't be a drag, just get it done for me. Repeat till you get bored. Go quiet afterwards.
Its a win win.scenario. either you get escort and (new plate) from former LTR, or will.find out stuff that'll help you d3cide.
muslimgirlredpill 1y ago
I would never want that depraved woman or her married friend to be mothers raising daughters. She is showing you that engaging in disgusting public acts is something she desires. Go watch https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_sSjNWPWi_I&t=1521s and see how pure evil these females that go to strip clubs are. Her inviting you means nothing. She is gross and so is her friend. Dump her. It's only been 1.5 year. You can start over.
hornetsfalcons12 1y ago
I’m saying no. Like reverse this, would she be okay with you going to some burlesque show? Relationships involve sacrifice, and that means that you can’t do some of the crap that you did when single. That applies to men and women.
Now yes, it doesn’t sound as bad as if she were going with her single friends. But I’d still not be cool with this.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
She's a hoe, my dude. Girl's night out? At a male strip club? Come on... get the fuck outta here.
muslimgirlredpill 1y ago
Absolutely! He should dump her.
fumbor 1y ago
Absolutely no!!!!
Durek_The_Bald 1y ago
You don't have to make something a boundary just because someone in here thinks it should be a boundary. If you're fine with it, you're fine with it. If not, or if you're just trying to convince yourself you're fine with it because you don't wanna stir things up, then that's a different matter. Only you know which is which.
amazonri 1y ago
Im not controlling at all but just say no. Its not out of jealousy or anything, its just simply, why? You dont need a magic mike show to have a good time with a friend. This is very test-motivated, but she wont admit it. Just say no, do something else, just say its kind of weird, because it is a weird request.
muslimgirlredpill 1y ago
she's not mother or wife material. Both those females are trash.
Gurren843 1y ago
The fact she’s given you all the information for the event AND even offered to let you go with her are very good signs.
Just make sure to rail her fucking brains out after the show so she knows why she’s with you to begin with and all those orgasms will make her forget about all those chads she saw.
Edit: I looked more into the show, fuck all that noise. I wouldn’t let my bitch go to this show.
financehardo420 1y ago
*before and after king
Gurren843 1y ago
Haha facts bro.
I looked into this show some more and fuck all that noise, I wouldn’t let my girl anywhere near all that.
There could be a lot of other things they could do with their friend, this shit real sketch.
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muslimgirlredpill 1y ago
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_sSjNWPWi_I&t=1521s
yup
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Did you ever read the book "If You Give a Mouse a Cookie" when you were a kid?
This such a pet peeve I have about certain women. They have no qualms about strolling into town for a short time and throwing a bunch of men's relationships into doubt to "have fun" by roping in their taken female friends into dubious activities because their mere presence of visiting is a "specifial occasion" to excuse this shit
Do the strippers get naked? Also how would she feel about you going to a female strip club?
abitofmemory 1y ago
all oneitis feelings aside i would allow something like that only if i wanted to go c a female strip tease. then i would say that i am going to c my asses and she can c her dicks. otherwise, i would simply say no.
it may be that after u say no she will actually stop telling u a lot of things she does and even may start cheating on u. but then u better dodge the bullet and leave her whatsoever.
if she asks u for a permission and accepts only a positive response, then it means she does not respect u and she is not worth ur time. giving a negative response in this case is fine.
and it does not matter that she is planning to do it with her (even married) friend. the existence of a friend changes nothing. it is the same as catching ur ltr fucking with a guy and she will tell u that there was her married friend who also had sex. so, ignore this part where she mentions her friend.
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