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wolfofallstreetz 1y ago
Literally nothing wrong with the way you look, fix your attitude and ego. Rock a hat if the bald thing bothers you.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Is that the fullest your beard can grow? Shaved head is not an issue for dudes
@ItchyNipple
Edit: just realized you had more than one photo. You give off loner/boring vibes by having exclusive low enthusiasm selfies. Selfies are huge no on dating apps unless you pull one off well. Should definitely have other people snapping the photos
Your photos look very forced and unnaturally taken. The shirtless one would be better taken in a natural setting such as bouldering (even indoors), at the beach, playing volleyball, etc.
The reason you are not pulling girls is (partly the very small facial hair, which conveys a LACK of masculinity, it would be better to go full beard or not have any facial hair at all) and also just giving the completely wrong vibe while also having no exciting or even organic photos
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
Biggest issue i see is that you simply look like you're not having a good time, and look like you dont get laid. These pics are not good so dont use them for OLD etc.
It takes time to change core body language and behaviours, but you should make it a goal. Try to be more relaxed. Less intense staring and more aloofness.
Other things:
LudgerKresnik 1y ago
you're fine.
don't shave your beard let it grow so it will match to your bald head.
and you need to lift more heavy weights to get more define muscle that it will fit to your body type.
trust me with this king, make a goal for yourself not for woman they will come eventually.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
You're good looking.
Some will like the bald thing, some will hate it, most won't care.
What happens when you go and talk to girls?
Bulba 1y ago
People in the comments are telling you to looksmaxx even harder but I don't think your looks are the issue here. You're a high-tier normie. Someone with your looks should be getting at least some pussy.
I think we need more information. Have you been diagnosed with any mental disorders? Do you have male friends? Female friends? Do you go out on weekends? How is your social circle?
If I had to bet on something I would say that you are on the spectrum.
pofkaf 1y ago
Bad pics. Selfie and mirror pics are no-gos. Hire a photographer for a shoot and it'll work wonders. You're a good looking guy...capitalize on it.
Intrepid_Place53900 1y ago
some girls will swipe left on bald, especially young girls, they equate it to (old man). Whatever, can't do much about that.
Smile, girls like fun, smiling means you are having some fun , maybe?
Take photos in some "fun, interesting" places. Museums , sporting events, historic sites,etc, "interesting", different.
Got a pet? take pictures with your pet, girls love that.
SeasonedRP 1y ago
Develop a devil may care smirk.
Tennisball1- 1y ago
Weird fucking demeanor.
I winced
Scorpion69_ 1y ago
u look better than me and i get plenty of chicks.
what is failing is ur behavior. could be ur confidence, charisma, dominance, not having a good time, not being happy with urself... etc.
think about it and calibrate.
as long as a guy looks at least average, girls will judge and base his "hotness" on how he behaves.
STAYShredded 1y ago
Lol ur fine bro, as others say, get the beard fuller… lower ur bf% etc. but in reality these factors won’t make such a big difference as ur at a good starting point… I’d suggest ur issue is you don’t hit on enough girls; learn day and night game bro
crimsonchin03 1y ago
You would pull off the shaved head tattoo Chad look.
If you choose the right tattoos, you can become top tier to women.
If you choose basic ass tattoos, you will just be another shaved head dude with tattoos, but at least thats probably better then where youre at now.
Ti123 1y ago
You look ok not ugly. Do you have a social circle? Do you approach and close. That’s what determines success. Women won’t approach you. You have to approach them unless you build big enough social circle where you are the top guy.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Oh dude it's not you. You have to make a profile the way women do. First is a full face pic. Next is some kind of social proof pic. Then a preselection pic. You're basically selling them a lifestyle. Men are success objects. Women are sex objects. Sell the lifestyle. Check out the tinder swindler for pro tips. My guess is you look poor from your photos. Make photos that make you look rich, fun, exciting, etc.
Problematic_Browser 1 1y ago
You look soft as fuck. Shave your face if that's all the hair you can grow. You look like a testicle of a pubescent boy.
Go lift weights, you look weak as fuck.
Go outside. You look like you live in a basement.
In all seriousness you are an average looking white man. Congratulations. You are one of billions of average looking white men, and thus you don't hit any discriminators that work in your favor. All you can really do is pack on some muscle, lose the bald look (it isn't doing you favors) and make money to overcome your mediocrity.