I know this is a dumb ass questions but I would like to hear from people who has been through this.
2 years ltr ended. I had oneitis before and I got over it.But this time I only have physical oneitis. I dont think I can find hotter body than her. She was 18 , slim with big tits. I also don't have any plates for now. I started approaching girls but no success yet.
Did you happen to feel this and find someone better ? I really need help. If I can get over this belief, I can easily move on because she had shitty personality.
Problematic_Browser 1 1y ago
There are 3 billion women on this planet and you're hung up on ONE
LudgerKresnik 1y ago
we have the same problem here man this is my post a few weeks ago about my FWB
https://www.forums.red/p/asktrp/299811/can_t_stop_thinking_about_my_fwb_even_i_m_with_my_ltr/7290992/
my LTR personality is great i can say 10/10 but you know i can't shake off the body and good sex of my FWB in my head and i feel bad for myself and also for my LTR cuz of this.
i tried to fuck 3-5 woman before i commit to my LTR and nothing change i think what really need is to fuck more hotter than our previous oneitis to overcome this but in my situation (commited) can't spin plate atm.
so yeah that's the only advice i can give it to you , fuck hotter than your oneitis which is i know gonna be hard but possible.
Hanscheezburger 1y ago
All of us got oneitis at least once. The advice is to fuck at least 3 attractive women. It'll go away because it's all in your mind. You cannot get "physically" addicted to someone, unless they are spiking you with drugs, then you are just addicted to that substance.
I got a big oneitis a few years back because she was playing hard to get. Nexted her after she left me on seen one too many times. Multiple plates and a year later she asked to meet and we fucked. It was beyond meh. Now I don't even know why I found her attractive in the first place.
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whytehorse2021 1y ago
Yeah just fuck new women and your brain will associate them with physical pleasure and the old hoe will fade.
Diabs 1y ago
I get it. I dated a girl who had naturally awesome boobs and ass. I got over it though once I had enough of her personality. I'm with a much better girl now all around who also has great boobs.
Partly better because she is all around a nicer girl but also partly because I have improved allot since those years back then and that always helps.
Point is there's plenty of bigtit girls around you will get over her and look back like me and he glad you didn't get stuck with some bitch just because she has great tits.